MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[omgbaby]

Forgot to add I'm 5dpo

 

[Mrs A]

I can see you usually have a good temp rise on 5dpo, see how it goes x x x

 

[chulie]

omgbaby...by 5 dpo my boobs had started to hurt more than usual...because I get "sorta" sore boobs before my period I didn't really think too much of it..but looking back they were more sore than they should have been! So it's very possible by 7 dpo I had serious symptoms...but again was so sure I was out I chalked it all up to AF coming...but in hindesight....they were pregnancy symptoms..so it's possible!!

 

[omgbaby]

Yes my boobs have started hurting too!! Like you said they usually do before af but last night oh was grabbing them & they hurt so bad I almost cried begging for him to stop.

 

[melann13]

omgbaby, still stalking you and hoping for your BFP. I agree with chulie. My chest usually started hurting before AF at about 9dpo, but the month of my BFP it starts about 6dpo. I also got very hungry early on. Good luck to you!

 

[poppygirl05]

I am now a week late for af and still getting bfns. Stupid body.

 

[omgbaby]

Omg. Me & OH have been bd'n like crazy!! 3 times already today. Lmao

 

[Kalush]

MummytoHP - Congrats on the good scan, glad everything is looking good.

Bugbrandy - Hope it works out to be a real bfp for you!

omgbaby - Hope they turn out to be pregnancy symptoms for you!


I'm annoyed and sad today. I was at least hoping for a bit longer lp, but alas. That makes this cycle a whole 24 days, sigh. Yep, complained about too long and now complaining about too short. I'm having a hard time getting things into perspective right now, but I'm chalking it up to really bad sleep the last couple days. Surprisingly not entirely due to DD. Dh had a horrible plan involving the portable a/c one night which ended up waking me up for almost 2 hours and the next night we stayed at the lake in a bed I'm not use to, so I woke up a few times and with all the fireworks bedtime wasn't really early. No dark curtains which means DD is up at 5:30, though she only woke up once from the fireworks around 10 and slept all the way to 5:30..only the second time she's done that ever! So really I should look at the positive. I haven't slept all night in 2 years. If she starts sleeping all night before I get pregnant I may actually get to sleep all night! That would be lovely, in a better mood already. Time to go to bed before 9:00. Happy 4th to the US ladies! Keeping my fingers crossed the fireworks don't wake me up!

 

[Hopeful2014]

@lesh07 I hope it's just a late BFP.

@burgbrandy You're not out yet. A temp rise is a good thing even if it's a small rise.

@Mrs A Nice new picture!

@Mummy to HP That's such great news! I'll add the due date to the front. Don't worry about the weight! I'm sure you can't even tell if you were shocked when you found out.

@omgbaby Fatigue matched with that great temp jump is good reason to be hopeful! Your cm and timing seem to be very good as well! Good luck!!

@poppygirl05 I know being in the waiting zone and not being sure what's going on is hard. But it is a good sign that af is not here yet. Good luck!

@Kalush I hope you do get better sleep tonight. Sometimes you need to be annoyed and let it all out. Feel better. Happy 4th to you as well.

AFM I had three high temps after ovulation, my temp dropped on 4 dpo (enough to take the crosshairs away for a day), and has gone to the highest of the whole cycle today at 5 dpo (so I got the original crosshairs back). I know the drop on 4 could be a secondary estrogen surge, but the massive jump today makes me happy. It might not mean anything, but it does look nice for now. I was worried about how long my lp would be after seeing the drop yesterday. I hope it stays high!

 

[Mrs A]

Fx for you hopeful x x x x

 

[mummy2o]

Poppygirl05: I know some people who had to be 6 weeks for a BFP or you have my cousin who took 3 months of her AF being late to get hers.

Woot. AF stayed away for a whole day. Lets see if she can do another. Temp stayed the same, which was under the coverline though. And then FF took out my Ovulation date once I entered the data. I hate irregular cycles and temping....

 

[lesh07]

Well 4 days late and after a faint bfp the bleeding has started and in quite alot of pain. So putting it down as a miscarriage. Feeling very down.

 

[Mrs A]

 

[newbie2013]

Lesh07, I really feel for you today. Hope you're ok.

 

[Hopeful2014]

Well 4 days late and after a faint bfp the bleeding has started and in quite alot of pain. So putting it down as a miscarriage. Feeling very down.

I know it's very hard to deal with and nothing can make you feel better about it right now. Understand that you can feel any way you need to about it. We're here for you.

I do think we can find a positive out of these horrible losses that happen to us. For someone like me who has never had children it's finally a sign that it can happen. I hope that after a while you can see that it's perhaps a good sign in that it might not take you two years again. I know that is something you have been afraid of happening. I am so hopeful that you feel better soon (emotionally and physically) and that you get your BFP very soon as well.

 

[lesh07]

Thanks ladies. I just kept thinking that maybe it would still just be a late bfp but knew in the back of mind it wasn't going to be. I was kind of pulled in 2 different ways. xx

 

[chulie]

I'm so sorry Lesh!!! I was hoping for good things for you!

Hopeful...that's awesome about your temps. Even if we don't know what it all means just yet.....having things look better than normal is awesome!!!!

 

[mummy2o]

I'm sorry Lesh. Its terrible when that happens.

Quick update, I've started spotting so hopefully AF will be in full swing over the next 24 hours.

 

[KatyW]

Kalush: I definitely feel you on the very little sleep thing. My little one is 15 months and started sleeping through the night only in the last few months, and she still has nights where she's up once or so. I hope it gets better for you - I am sure it will soon.

Hopeful2014: Temp rise is always a great thing - a dip then a rise - maybe implantation?? Whatever the case, I expect and hope you to get a BFP soon.

omgbaby: Those signs sound really good - hoping that this is it for you.

lesh07: Hang in there,I'm so sorry to hear it was likely a very early m/c. Just read that. It really sucks, and is not fair, I have been there before, twice, but you will be back to yourself soon.

As for me, positive OPK, just a "practice" cycle though since husband is not home until next week. I'm still tracking anyway so I can better predict when I will O next cycle, since I just started having normal cycles back in March (because of breast feeding).

 

[Hopeful2014]

I found this and liked it. I can promise myself, but I'm realistic and know I will fail sometimes.

I PROMISE MYSELF
TO BE STRONG THAT NOTHING CAN DISTURB MY PEACE OF MIND.
TO TALK HEALTH, HAPPINESS AND PROSPERITY TO EVERY PERSON I MEET.
TO MAKE ALL MY FRIENDS FEEL THAT THERE IS SOMETHING SPECIAL IN THEM.
TO LOOK AT THE SUNNY SIDE OF EVERYTHING AND MAKE MY OPTIMISM COME TRUE.
TO THINK ONLY OF THE BEST, TO WORK ONLY FOR THE BEST, AND TO EXPECT ONLY THE BEST.
TO BE JUST AS ENTHUSIASTIC ABOUT THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS AS I AM ABOUT MY OWN.
TO FORGET THE MISTAKES OF THE PAST AND PRESS ON TO THE GREATER ACHIEVEMENTS OF THE FUTURE.
TO WEAR A CHEERFUL, COUNTENANCE AT ALL TIMES AND GIVE EVERY LIVING CREATURE I MEET A SMILE
TO GIVE SO MUCH TIME TO THE IMPROVEMENT OF MYSELF THAT I HAVE NO TIME TO CRITICIZE OTHERS.
TO BE TOO LARGE FOR WORRY, TOO NOBLE FOR ANGER, TOO STRONG FOR FEAR, AND TOO HAPPY TO PERMIT THE PRESENCE OF TROUBLE.
TO THINK WELL OF MYSELF AND PROCLAIM THIS FACT TO THE WORLD,
NOT IN LOUD WORDS BUT IN GREAT DEEDS.
TO LIVE IN THE FAITH THAT THE WHOLE WORLD IS ON MY SIDE SO LONG AS I AM TRUE TO THE BEST THAT IS ME.