MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[omgbaby]

Blahh. Temp went down a little this morning I hope it doesn't mean anything.

 

[MamaPeaches]

Hopeful2014: Yay for the temp rise! Fx this is your month!

Lesh07: I'm so sorry! I know there isn't much that can be said to make you feel better. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

KatyW: It sounds like your next cycle you will be all set! FX crossed for you that it happens as quickly as possible!

AFM not sure what was going on the other day. Bded just in case! Yesterday and today I've been cramping quite a bit. Sore boobs and a bit of nausea in the morning. Trying not to read too much into anything though! Testing at what should be 8 dpo tomorrow

 

[burgbrandy]

Temp dropped to coverline. looks like af will be here tomorrow. On to cycle #13! My plan is to triple my black cohosh since i wont have clomid.

 

[nikkilucky77]

@lesh-I am so sorry hun! I am sending you a virtual hug

 

[nikkilucky77]

I think I am 5 or 6dpo today. Yesterday I had bad headaches on and off all day and then since it was the 4th I had 2 adult beverages (I promised myself I wouldn't deny myself anything until I get a bfp). So this morning I felt awful again...headache and queasy stomach even though I ate like a rockstar yesterday. Plus my boobs have been super tender which is weird compared to other cycles. I feel like maybe it was a hangover but I rarely get headaches...I just vomit usually. Which I did today but my head was angry. AHH!!

 

[lesh07]

Thanks again ladies. I appreciate your hugs. Bleeding is to a small amount at the moment but pain is hard and bleeding is bright red!

Hopeful to you burgbrandy. And good luck to all you other ladies out there. xxx

 

[nikkilucky77]

Hopeful2014: Yay for the temp rise! Fx this is your month!

Lesh07: I'm so sorry! I know there isn't much that can be said to make you feel better. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

KatyW: It sounds like your next cycle you will be all set! FX crossed for you that it happens as quickly as possible!

AFM not sure what was going on the other day. Bded just in case! Yesterday and today I've been cramping quite a bit. Sore boobs and a bit of nausea in the morning. Trying not to read too much into anything though! Testing at what should be 8 dpo tomorrow

Good luck testing ...cramping and nausea sounds promising!

 

[mommyxofxone]

oh lesh i'm so sorry.



i'm still waiting to just O. going to be a long cycle. cd 18.

 

[Hopeful2014]

@omgbaby I'm sure the temp drop doesn't mean anything bad this early into your lp. I know it always freaks me out though.

@MamaPeaches I still think it looks like your original ovulation date is correct, but it's good that you made sure your bases were covered. I hope that you see two lines tomorrow or at least in the coming days!! Good luck!

@burgbrandy I'm sorry.

@nikkilucky77 I hope you feel better soon!

@mommyxofxone I hope O comes soon for you. It's suck when you're just waiting and are not sure when it will happen.

 

[Hopeful2014]

AFM I'm a bit confused. When I added my temp from today to ovufriend it changed my ovulation date from cd 21 to cd 14 which would change me from 6 dpo to 13 dpo. Wow! That would be the quickest jump in a tww. (I usually have 13-14 day lp).

I don't know how to feel about it. I put in a couple of potential fake temps for tomorrow to see if it would move it back and it keeps it at cd 14 now. I usually ovulate cd 13-cd 16 so it would make sense because I was super late this month at cd 21. However, it would have made sense for me to be late because of the loss last month. My temps have been very stable this month and are much closer than usual. I think the earlier temps are higher because of leftover hormones from last month so that may be why there is not a huge jump from pre-o to post-o temps.

CM can't help me decide because I had way more fertile cm this month than usual. I think that's another effect from last month. It was the closest to ew on cd 13-cd 15. I did have ovulation pains/ovary pains on cd 13. I was okay with going with cd 21 because I had one tiny pink spot in the morning which I thought might have been from ovulation, but now seeing it would have been on 7 dpo makes me kinda wishful that ovulation was cd 14. (I did have implantation bleeding last month with the loss, but I'm not saying that this is the same because this cycle is so confusing). I don't know how to explain the drop on what would be 11 dpo though. It did make quite the rebound on what would be 12 dpo.

Rambles...rambles...I guess I'm wondering which day do you think is probably the best choice: cd 14 or cd 21. I'm including a screen shot of the chart without today's temp (the one that made it change dates) and a shot of the chart with today's temp included. Thanks!

 

[nikkilucky77]

@Hopeful14- I think your crosshairs with the CD21 look right but that is super weird about today's temp. Do you use FF as well? I am using both and they have different O dates for me. Pretty close but still not the same. Worth a shot I guess to see what FF would say.

 

[momwithbabies]

Hopeful2014: That is confusing! My opinion would be to take CD 14. I'm basing that on your o type pains you had on CD 13. Fingers crossed!! Are you going to test soon?!? I don't know if I could resist the temptation.

 

[MamaPeaches]

Hopeful based on your o pain, cm and the way your chart looks I would guess cd 14. That must be frustrating that its so unsure! If you may be at 13 dpo I say test! If its negative then maybe wait a few days and test again. Do you know when af is suppose to arrive?

 

[Hopeful2014]

@nikkilucky77 FF says cd 21. I lean towards cd 21 since they both were saying it orginally. However, last month FF said cd 14 while ovufriend said cd 13. Then near the end of my cycle FF changed it to cd 13 while ovufriend had cd 13 all along. It never did that before so I'm wondering if it will change this time eventually as well?!?

@momwithbabies It is sooo tempting to test. If my temp is just as high in the morning I may test. Now, to convince my husband that we should test tomorrow!

@MamaPeaches I want to test!! I normally have 27-29 day cycles. I have a 13-14 day lp during past cycles. Today (Friday) is day 27. If it is cd 14 it would make me 13 dpo so I would be due to start Saturday or Sunday. If it is cd 21 it would make me 6 dpo so I would be due next Saturday or Sunday (assuming my lp remains the same).

Thanks so much ladies! I'm going a bit crazy! I honestly think I should test tomorrow if my temp is still up high. I will be either 14 dpo or 7 dpo so I might get an answer either way. If not, wait it out and see what happens?!?

 

[nikkilucky77]

Yes to the test ...I would definitely. If you don't, you will be going crazy!!! At least I know I would be. Your O date is most confusing...I makes me wonder if my ovufriend is right at CD14 whereas FF says CD13. Good luck!!! Fx to you!

 

[Kalush]

Lesh07 - I'm so sorry.

Hopeful - I would definitely test if right away if I were you! It would help with the going crazy part!

 

[mummy2o]

Test tomorrow hopeful if temp still high, I'll test with you.

AFM spotting was only for a bit after DTD with OH. Ladies I need some advice. I know some of you will probably scream test already and I will first thing tomorrow. Anyway I've been waking up to pee an hour before my temping time for the last 4 days. On two of those days I've temp before I went to pee and both came back at 36.3, if I leave it an hour my temp plummets to 35.3-35.5. I am also what I would class myself as later (although my longest cycle is still out by a day) So I'm just really confused by this whole temping business. And would peeing 1 hour before really make that much difference to my temp?

 

[Hopeful2014]

Test tomorrow hopeful if temp still high, I'll test with you.

AFM spotting was only for a bit after DTD with OH. Ladies I need some advice. I know some of you will probably scream test already and I will first thing tomorrow. Anyway I've been waking up to pee an hour before my temping time for the last 4 days. On two of those days I've temp before I went to pee and both came back at 36.3, if I leave it an hour my temp plummets to 35.3-35.5. I am also what I would class myself as later (although my longest cycle is still out by a day) So I'm just really confused by this whole temping business. And would peeing 1 hour before really make that much difference to my temp?

I'm glad the spotting stopped. Having to get up to pee could be a good sign as well as being later than usual. A lot of ladies notice they need to go more frequently even if it isn't much each time.

Is the 35.3-35.5 adjusted from when you actually woke up or what it was an hour after you woke up? Those adjusters don't work so well for everyone and it might change an hour later since you've already been awake. I really think the 36.3 temp is probably more accurate as long as it was after a good amount of sleep.

Okay, if my temp is up, I will most likely test! Test buddies!

 

[chulie]

Yippppeeee Hopeful ill be stalking the crap outta this place till I see if you tested!!!!!! Xxxxxx

 

[Hopeful2014]

I think we've all read about what happens during the time after ovulation and how the baby forms. I found an interesting article that goes a bit more in-depth about what happens in the first 21 days after ovulation. It's a bit of a read, but it's pretty interesting.

The First 21 Days