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Dobby: i might be using the wrong word, always thought that my final paper in the masters was thesis.. but is in in doctor study? Haha English is not my native language like probably most of you can tell from my writing :)
I am finishing my masters, finally finishing 5 years in University! Just have tofinish this last semester, big paper and has not been going well so I am so so afraid I wont be able to finish! We will see how it goes :) i go from optimistic and thinking i can do it (I know i would have chance if not pregnant) and thinking that i wont be able to but oh so close!

I never would have guessed. What is your mother language? English is not my mother language either.
 
Catalyst, some Master's degrees do require a thesis! It's not just PhD/doctoral programs. I completed a thesis for mine. Good luck ... I'm impressed that you're pregnant with twins, have two kids already, and can find the time to study for such an intense project!

Pretty, that's amazing! What a huge relief that everybody has been so supportive and excited. I hope the rest of your pregnancy is even more special and exciting with all this support surrounding you now.
 
No, you're right. Thesis is master and some crazy research publication is phd. I just always forget because my degree was in a tech field technically (instructional science and technology) so in lieu of a thesis we created a capstone project.
 
No, you're right. Thesis is master and some crazy research publication is phd. I just always forget because my degree was in a tech field technically (instructional science and technology) so in lieu of a thesis we created a capstone project.
 
Master's is typically a thesis or final project + comps, and a PhD is a dissertation. My master's program required a thesis where we ran our own experiments. We had to get IRB approval, run the experiment, write a paper on the experiment in an academic journal style, and then defend in front of a panel. It was grueling. I broke down several times throughout the process esp when my advisor crossed out my entire paper without a lick of feedback and told me to start over after a year of working on my paper with a PhD student to whom he had assigned me. I'm feeling angry again just thinking about it...but I finished and it's done and I love my career so I just focus on that bit :)
 
Thank you! English is my native language and I could not for the life of me remember dissertation lol. Sorry it was such a stressful process. I'm glad you pushed through and got it done and love your job!
 
Pretty Awww yay for everyone supporting you! Seriously so glad you are getting to enjoy things with them now. Do they know he's a he? Has he looked crossovers? I also hate vans but I need space for baby, stroller, two dogs, and SO and my Prius just won't cut it/is at 96k. My first car. Been together 9 years. Anywho I'm liking crossovers that Nissan, Lexus, and Kia have. Like that new Kia Niro they aired during Super Bowl. Also nice blanket! You knocked that out fast!

BD knows we're most likely looking at a he. I dunno exactly what types of cars he's looking at, but a Toyota Rav4 has been mentioned a couple times. I keep telling him it's his decision and my main concern is the car's safety rating. He's even talking about maybe getting it as an automatic in case I needed to use the car, cuz he drives manual, but I don't. We've also been more intimate. Maybe he's one of those guys who's slightly turned on by pregnant chicks, or the fact that I'm giving him a son is making him "fall for me" more, or whatever else the reason could be. I used the doppler for him last night; he seemed to enjoy that. And he was feeling my belly this morning and commenting on how solid I am. It's so nice knowing I don't have to hide it or walk on eggshells with him anymore. ^_^

We told his mom and her husband yesterday. She's generally pretty chill, and she didn't make a big deal about it when we told her. She said she was kind of being a little reserved cuz she wasn't sure how BD felt about it, but he said he's pretty ok about it, so she seemed a little happier after that.

I have my next OB appt today and then it'll be back to work. Ugh, I can't imagine having to go back to hiding this for another 4 days, but I'm excited for the weekend cuz I get to do 4 different announcements. : )

And I'm not done the blanket yet, but I could probably get it done before the end of the month.
 
Pretty I'm sure it's a huge relief. Good luck with your reveals this weekend!!

Afm, we have a very busy week this week and into next week. Today after work is our infant cpr class, tomorrow is my echo and get fitted for my 7 day event holter monitor, Wednesday is our first interview with a pediatrician and then next Monday is our tour of the hospital.. busy busy lol
 
I missed so much over the weekend!

Pretty - That is great news and I am so happy for you! I think all men react in different was to pregnancy and it seems like BD is happy about it as he is showing interest! and if you can last 6 months without telling anyone, 4 days will fly by!

All the shower invitations are so cute.

Not much going on with me DH is in NY this week on biz and my fur baby gets super depressed so just my pregnancy hormones being all emotional because my dog is sad. lol

Also had my first case of pregnancy brain this weekend! Told DH it was 600am so he got up, got ready for the day then i realized it was actually 5am. He was not happy! Also put my pants on inside out and didn't notice until I was out of the house!
 
Pretty - so glad that everyone is being supportive. Makes it so much nicer x
 
Pretty- I am so frickin happy for you!!! That's awesome that bd is taking everything so well! Sounds like things are going to be great between you two :hugs: I am so happy that you are finally getting to experience some of the love and cuddles that the rest of us have been getting, makes a world of difference to have bd loving on your bump and feeling like you have support:happydance:
 
Pretty that is great! I like the Rav 4 as well. Narrowed it down to that, Subaru Forester, Lexus nx, Ford Escape, Honda CR-V, or Nissan Murano. So not a very narrow list lol. Mine is the same way. Not sure if it's a hormone thing but he has also mentioned he has a hard time keeping his hands off of me romantically and sexually despite the big bumpity that makes me hate myself.

Gag that is a busy week! Hope all goes smoothly

Does anybody else feel depressed? I used to love my bump but now all I see is the double chin and huge thighs and even my bump makes me sad. :(. I was at my heaviest when I got pregnant so it doesn't help I never imagined being this weight. SO keeps telling me I'm growing a baby and everyone says I look good but =\
 
Dobby - I am right there with you. I had to go to a bridal shower this weekend and had to actually wear a real dress (as opposed to comfy maternity dress) and I felt HUGE! My mom was taking all types of pictures cause she says I finally popped but I just feel fat. And it was a bridal shower so of course the bride and everyone was looking great and talking about how they had to lose 5 lbs for the wedding and I am like where is the food! lol.

It is such a mind game because i had just recently lost 15-20 lb and was my lightest when i got pregnant but I am slowly creeping up to my heaviest when I was in college and that was a WHILE ago!

So yeah, right there with you girl! I keep telling myself it is just a part of being pregnant.
 
I've struggled with body image this time too. The funny thing is that I think other pregnant women look so beautiful! But when I'm pregnant myself it's hard not to fixate on weight. It's tough to gain so quickly and change so quickly when most of us have spent our lives trying to lose weight. I mostly just try to find outfits that help me feel good. Strangely I prefer tighter fitting clothes that highlight the bump. I think it helps to show off the bump and remind myself why my body is different lately. I love dresses right now ...
 
Infant/child cpr class went great! It honestly helped DH and I feel a bit more comfortable preparing for baby.

I have my echocardiogram and 7-day event monitor fitting tomorrow. I'm excited because I hope this can help me figure out why I've been randomly having palpitations... And hey if it's anxiety, I'm ok with that.

Hope everyone else is doing well..
 
Dobby - I wouldn't say I feel depressed, but I took a selfie over the weekend and I feel like everything looks plumper. My cheeks, lips, arms. I'm still indulging in some sugary foods that I shouldn't be though. BD is always saying how he needs to get his shit together and eat better and he's been talking about making so many changes that this may be the kick in the pants we both need.

Another change he's brought up (besides a new car) is living arrangements. I have no problem with him staying in his small-ish 1 bedroom condo and just coming over to my house in the beginning. But he was coming up with ideas like letting my mom move into his place and he moves here (which apparently was the living arrangement his dad and his 2nd wife had) or him moving in here and renting out his condo. I keep telling him he doesn't have to do stuff like that or getting the new car as auto instead of manual so I can use it or whatever. But I was talking with my mom yesterday and she said, "If he's coming up with these ideas on his own, just let him keep brainstorming. Don't shut him down just cuz you feel guilty." (Which I kind of do)

I asked him to look into what he'd have to do to make sure Alex is covered by his work benefits, so he's doing that. I also told him that my work is pretty busy this week and they asked if people could stay possibly a couple extra hours everyday this week. I could really use the money, so I'll probably stay as long as my feet and back will let me. And he said he's probably gonna start doing overtime again on a regular basis. That almost had me in tears. All the changes he's making and talking about. This is so much more than I would've ever expected from him.

I was also telling him about my gender disappointment issues. He said he had no idea how much this meant to me. Dunno if that means he'd be open to the idea of another kid, but it's way too early to have that conversation.
 
Dobby: i might be using the wrong word, always thought that my final paper in the masters was thesis.. but is in in doctor study? Haha English is not my native language like probably most of you can tell from my writing :)
I am finishing my masters, finally finishing 5 years in University! Just have tofinish this last semester, big paper and has not been going well so I am so so afraid I wont be able to finish! We will see how it goes :) i go from optimistic and thinking i can do it (I know i would have chance if not pregnant) and thinking that i wont be able to but oh so close!

I never would have guessed. What is your mother language? English is not my mother language either.

Im from Iceland :) never lived anywhere else. So my mother language is icelandic. What is yours?
 
Catalyst, some Master's degrees do require a thesis! It's not just PhD/doctoral programs. I completed a thesis for mine. Good luck ... I'm impressed that you're pregnant with twins, have two kids already, and can find the time to study for such an intense project!

It hasnt been easy. In the beginning there was the morning sickenss (24/7) and then fatique and me not having stamina or concentration to fully accomplish anything for a while.
We are required to make some kind of research, most do some kind of interviews, either with individual or a group one, write what came out of that, have a section of what other studys and such say about the subject and so on. Research paper? Not sure what to call it. minimum of 18000-20000 words. I have lot done but also lot left and should be sending my instructor the final draft now but he understands my situation and gave me more time. I due have to be finished by the 10th of may cause then it goes for a pannel that wil judge my work. Wont have to defend it thank god!! would not be able to handle it i think, hormonal and all.
My main goal is just finishing! i usualy have high standards on my projects but I just might not have the time now to do so.. it is hard to lower your standard to try work faster though.. It is just question of finishing in time, not having it hanging over my head when in maternity leave and trying to finish with two infants! also i need to finish so I get my students loan for this semester! it is litle bit frustrating tough having to lower my standards since I have one if not the highest average in my year and have been all the five years of my study. But the thought of being finished, never going to school again other than just for work (as a teacher) is awsome!!

No, you're right. Thesis is master and some crazy research publication is phd. I just always forget because my degree was in a tech field technically (instructional science and technology) so in lieu of a thesis we created a capstone project.

We were supoced to do some kind of reasearch, send out questionnaires or take interviews or something. Paper should begin with what the field and other studys say about the subject, then what method you used, partisipants and how you collected your data, then results and then discussions.
Cause i was so sick and pregnancy giving me hard time i was runing out of time to prepair my research and do it. The shcool has been doing a huge research over the years and my instrucor managed to get some data from that research to use. Did some statistical tests in spss on it, changed my subject a bit in the process but might be what makes me able to finish.

Master's is typically a thesis or final project + comps, and a PhD is a dissertation. My master's program required a thesis where we ran our own experiments. We had to get IRB approval, run the experiment, write a paper on the experiment in an academic journal style, and then defend in front of a panel. It was grueling. I broke down several times throughout the process esp when my advisor crossed out my entire paper without a lick of feedback and told me to start over after a year of working on my paper with a PhD student to whom he had assigned me. I'm feeling angry again just thinking about it...but I finished and it's done and I love my career so I just focus on that bit :)

Been hearing horror storys about masters papers like this all winter, and i think i would definitly cry or have a melt down if all the work and effort I am puting in this now would be for nothing! I am just aiming for qualifying now.. will probably be my lowest grade in 5 years.. kind of sucks, been one of if not the highest each year all the years so.. but if it gets be through so I might graduate this june i take it!

Infant/child cpr class went great! It honestly helped DH and I feel a bit more comfortable preparing for baby.

I have my echocardiogram and 7-day event monitor fitting tomorrow. I'm excited because I hope this can help me figure out why I've been randomly having palpitations... And hey if it's anxiety, I'm ok with that.

Hope everyone else is doing well..

Anxiety is nothing to be shamed of and it can have so so so much bodily affect on you, literaly make you physicaly sick. My younger brother has anxiety, been doing realy realy well for realy long time. Visited his girlfriend (he lives in Iceland she in Sweden) and had massive anxiety attack and had not taken his meds with him (first time that happened) and they were so expencive in Sweden my parents had to send it to him in the mail. It was about 3 weeks ago i think and he is still not fully recovered after it and is now taking his meds on daily bases in stead of when in need like he had been doing. So frustrating for him to be doing that well for a long time (had goten a promotion, girlfriend and looking better) then chrasing so badly like that.
I do hope they find what is wrong and that it aint something bad or serius.

Well.. i think I have written a essay here! sorry girls.. Just having a bad cold and hard to focus on my study (but did write 3000 words in two days!) and also looking forward to our scan that is in about 40 min or so :)
 
So the sonar is done :) It went realy well. There was alot of movements and they kicked the prod thing she uses to sonogram haha.
They had turned a litle, left one is now head down but the right one is not, she was in 20w but is now but down haha :)
And yes, they are both girls! :D the right one is still giving hard time, her but was way low and she said.. I think.. I think it is a girl.. then she moved and she said "Im fairly sertain it is a girl, and I cant see anything that hints it is a boy." and showed us the three lines. Not as obvius as with the left one but we could see it. When we had our younger son she was not trying to see the gender and we still saw a penis! haha :) so we are pritty sure now :)
They are 2lb 1,5oz and 2lb 5,4oz :) a good size she says :)

So now we can realy start think about names!!
 
Catalyst, I'm glad your scan went well and you've got that confirmation that they're both girls.

Pretty, that is so sweet he's coming up with so many changes off his own back. I can understand your apprehension though as he has only just found out and he doesn't need to rush anything.

Gagr, I had to have an ECG when I was pregnant with DD because of palpitations. Turns out it's just an ectopic heartbeat. I hope yours is a simple explanation too!
 

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