Bethi, I hope your cousin's labor goes smoothly!
I don't find it scary it all! We technically aren't prepared for me to go into labor yet, and as much of a perfectionist as I can be about things, I feel very laid back about that fact. I don't think babies need all that much anyway, I suppose. I'm really not scared of the labor process itself either... the only way that will change is if I need an induction or something.
Jess, I can't believe someone said that to you! I've come to the conclusion that any bump size is the perfect size. I'm just sick and tired of no one being happy about the size of someone else's belly! Why do they even care?? I don't get any "small" comments anymore (from the people who already know) but I've only had a few people ask if I was pregnant, and those were children. Makes me wonder if adults are trying to figure out if I'm pregnant or just getting fat!