mid term ttc!

[bobobaby]

Its with my OB-GYN. Its an appointment for my annual exam, but they know I'm also going in there to talk about fertility issues. So hopefully she'll be helpful!

 

[aneageraussie]

bobo - the only tip from my side will be - BE ASSERTIVE.
just tell your doctor what YOU want and dont buy when they say - you are still young and you can keep trying. Tell them yes , but we want to know whats wrong with us and we wnt to have tests done.

im excited for you... let me know how that goes.

 

[bobobaby]

Okay thanks Kelly and Aussie. I keep telling my husband I'm afraid I'll start crying in the appointment out of frustration!! I hope not, but I don't care. I need to make my point clear and get some help. They better take me serious, I'm going in ready for a fight though.

 

[BizyBee]

Hi girls, unfortunately I had a chemical and I've started a new cycle. (my journal has more details).

Thanks for the support so far. PMA that this will be my lucky cycle!

 

[wishn2Bmom]

I'm so so sorry Bizy We're all here for you, whatever you need.

 

[Kelly9]

so sorry bizy!!! Hugs!

Bobo she should know what she's talking about then! But being assertive is a must, I got fobbed off so many times! Although out here our annual paps and exams are done buy our family doctors, we only go to an OB/GYN if we have other worrisome issues.

 

[bobobaby]

Ahh thanks for the tips Kelly. Its helping me get pumped up about being heard.

BizyBee, I'm so incredibly sorry hun . But this just means the clomid is working for you and you'll be seeing those lines again real soon, hopefully this month. We are here for you. xx

 

[beauty]

So sorry BizyBee..sending loads of PMA to you..xxxxxxx

 

[BizyBee]

Thanks. I had a burst of PMA this morning! I'm supposed to see the fertility specialist the beginning of Sept., but I'm hoping I won't need that appointment!

Sorry I haven't had a chance to look back at all of the posts I missed. Hope all is well. Good luck this cycle girls!

 

[beauty]

How do you keep the PMA going? Wish i was like that, mine seems to have gone months and month ago! x

 

[Kelly9]

I lost mine in june with our FS results, hasn't come back.

Well I didn't get my temp rise which means we won't have saved up DH's spermies when we BD again today. I must be O'ving today although I had cramping last night around 1am in the left side. My temps plummeted to 35.61!!!! My temps have been super low this cycle but then again the weather has turned chilly. SO here's to a temp rise tomorrow and the longest cycle ever for me at 34 days! Hopefully no longer.

 

[wishn2Bmom]

Well, speaking of PMA... there goes mine! I just called my ob/gyn cause the FS said that they were sending DH's SA results to them since they were the referring party. The nurse told me that it came back as "poor prognosis". That was all she said and that it was recommended that he follow up with the FS office. Total suck.

 

[BizyBee]

I don't know Beauty. I've always been a positive person and it's the only way I can get through this. My OH is very loving and supportive, so that helps. Don't get me wrong, I have my days when I am upset and feel like my body doesn't work. I usually have a good cry and move on. xx

 

[BizyBee]

to go around... I think we all need them right now. xx

 

[Kelly9]

So sorry wishin!!!!!! hopefully it's not as bad as you think it is when you get the details. I know how you're feeling.

 

[aneageraussie]

hi all

bizy - im so sorry honey... but loving PMA. like u said this month will be your month.

wishin- . i knw the feeling. u feel totally gutted. i have gone thru that and that was just before our holiday. but then FS gave us so much home and remember its just one thats needed .... keep up the PMA girl. Its upward and onward from here... better things to come and worst is over.

kelly- how you doing babe? i hope that one works for you.... im keeping my fingers crossed for you.

bobo - 1 more day and appointment with dr. have u made a list of questions u gonna ask her.. lol... im excited for you girl and i hope thats the only push u need to get ur :BFP:.. and also u in 2ww right now.... im keeping my fingers crossed for you.

As for me im going to write in my journal... things are happening for me but very slow.. oh well....

 

[bobobaby]

Sorry about the bad news Wishin.

My appointment is tomorrow morning. I have printed off my charts and have prepared what I need to ask, and what I need to get done. I am definitley not leaving there without a SA referral for my DH. I'm ready to get down to business.

You know whats funny girls, we tell each other very private things, but we don't even know each other's real names. Its kinda funny. You don't have to share yours if you don't want to, but my real name is Chelsea. Anyone else want to share?

 

[aneageraussie]

u go girl... bobo.. im with you...
as for real name mine is Nids... unusual but common in South Africa.

 

[bobobaby]

Oooh I like it! It does sound exotic to me. lol

 

[Kelly9]

My name is Tiffany.
It true though I tell you guys so much more then anyone else. I don't feel embarrassed either.