I think its natural for us to worry. I garentee all those M2B who are saying they are just relaxing and taking it as it comes panic if they get a belly ache, or feel nervous before a scan. I like to think its a bit of practise for the joys of motherhood!
I think its also easy to see on here to see quite a few of the sad stories - and I know for one I find that hard. I've had to limit myself to this thread, and the August thread occasionally, as otherwise I feel overwhelmed with all the threads in 1st tri about peoples sad losses.
I'm a worrier, and I'm also an obsessor. I always have been! And seen as this is probably the biggest few months we will ever experience, especially for our first-timers, it would be wierd if we weren't freaking out! I know, for me at least, that I'm a bit of a pessimist in general. I tend to prepare myself for the worst, and then when it doesn't happen its a bonus. Sounds pathetic really, but it saves the hurt if things do go wrong. It's how I've learnt to cope with bad things, and its come through in the pregnancy as well. I wish I wasn't like it - and believe me, after working myself up so much over the past couple of week, I've been trying to stop it.
And, in all honestly, I'm so glad it's not just me!