Hi Ladies,
Isn't that nice..I'm the one who suggested writing down our stories and then I skipped town and never came back and posted mine. I've really enjoyed reading everyone's stories! It's nice to know more about everyone's journeys to get here. I'm going to try to get better about checking this thread and posting going forward. Unfortunately, I'm not great about posting regularly, so my when I do, it's very longggg.
Believe it or not, my name is Katie. I'm 37 and have a 5 year old daughter with my husband. We've been married 8 years, together 11, and he's 15 years older than me, which seems frightening but I've never been in a better relationship, obvioulsy, since we've been together so long. I have step-children who are grown and am really lucky to have a great relationship with them, as well. They were excited about my DD and are excited about this new baby, too. The funny thing is, my "grandchildren" are the same age as my children and my daughter is close friends with her "nieces." Our little boy, who is on the way, will only be a few months younger than one of his "nephews" who was just born. Basically, they are growing up more like cousins. We are a wacky, non-traditional family in that respect but what are you going to do?! Can't help who you fall in love with!
I got pregnant with my DD after 10 months of TTC at 31 years old. After she was born, I tried going back on the pill and it screwed up my cycles so badly that I said, "Forget this!" and said we'll just take our chances. So about 2 years of NTNP and then, 2 years of being completely obsessed with TTC #2, it finally happened, with one very early m/c a few months prior to getting this BFP.
We were literally going to start the process of seeing a Fertility Specialist when I got pregnant with the m/c. I had finally worked up the nerve to ask my husband to agree to do "his part" of the testing when it happened. And once I got that BFP in February, I figured it could happen again naturally and we'd give it until the summer before going to the FS. April rolled around and I got pregnant again! I COULD. NOT. BELIEVE. IT. I mean, 4 years of the potential to get pregnant and not one BFP and here I got two bam, bam.
Of course, since I had that early miscarraige, I was a nervous freaking wreck the entire first trimester and into second, as well. Really, I've been nervous until I've been able to feel him move frequently as it's the sign that he's okay. But I had terrible cramping, plus non-stop spotting and a few bouts of actual blood-red bleeding in the first trimester which I never had with my daughter, so I was absolutely devastated thinking I'd miscarry anytime. I had to go in for ultrasounds almost weekly in the first trimester to check on him. And at one point, I actually found out my progesterone had dropped to 1 at 9.5 weeks and I was sure I'd lost the baby, only to go into the ultrasound and see a baby who was measuring on track and wiggling around. Doctor still can't explain it. Miracle or lab error? Who knows! But all the drama surrounding this pregnancy has made me appreciate this little one so much more and to not take this pregnancy for granted.
So that's me! I will try to keep up here more often.