Missed Miscarriage Thread...

[mojojojo563]

Maria,
Your not alone we are all here with you an for you and eachother. Today last week I had my D&C I had my scan last Monday and the heart beat was gone. I felt so alone mad pissed alot of different things but, all the ladies on here have helped me more than anyone ever could have. If you need to talk we are all here for you!!!

Hugs
Jozie

 

[pickleuk]

Hi.
I had my 12 week scan yesterday and found out the baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks. I knew something was wrong as Tuesday night I started bleeding. I just cant believe how long my body took to deal with it.
Today I went to the hospital to discuss options but started major cramping, the nurse couldnt find any slots for a EPRC until next Tuesday so she gave me painkillers and said it will probably pass naturally by then.

Well today has been awful, the pain was worse than labour and lots of clots. I go back to hospital on monday for a scan to see if everything is clear.

I feel so bad physically and emotionally.

 

[threemakefive]

Hi.
I had my 12 week scan yesterday and found out the baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks. I knew something was wrong as Tuesday night I started bleeding. I just cant believe how long my body took to deal with it.
Today I went to the hospital to discuss options but started major cramping, the nurse couldnt find any slots for a EPRC until next Tuesday so she gave me painkillers and said it will probably pass naturally by then.

Well today has been awful, the pain was worse than labour and lots of clots. I go back to hospital on monday for a scan to see if everything is clear.

I feel so bad physically and emotionally.

Sorry to hear it...can't believe they couldnt get you in....good luck tonight stay strong

 

[mojojojo563]

Hi.
I had my 12 week scan yesterday and found out the baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks. I knew something was wrong as Tuesday night I started bleeding. I just cant believe how long my body took to deal with it.
Today I went to the hospital to discuss options but started major cramping, the nurse couldnt find any slots for a EPRC until next Tuesday so she gave me painkillers and said it will probably pass naturally by then.

Well today has been awful, the pain was worse than labour and lots of clots. I go back to hospital on monday for a scan to see if everything is clear.

I feel so bad physically and emotionally.

Pickleuk,
I am so sorry for your loss. We are all here for you! If your cramps and bleeding get too bad go to the ER.

 

[mohini12]

hi pick
i am so sorry on your loss.i know what exactly you are feeling this time.my 1st miscarrige was same 7week on 12 ,no heartbeat.i have had multiple early losses no baby yet.i feel a pinch on my heart when i find a lady in same possition .its really awful.soo sorry again.
((((hug))))

 

[hopingforno2]

Omg can I just say not trying to scare anyone but the baby came today and it was so painful! Let me tell you what happened, well yesterday I went into hospital to have my medical miscarriage at 11 weeks got me seen by 11am popped 4 tablets up and half an hour later the pain was intense that bad that by the time i started bleeding I pre'd myself! This went on until 9 pm passing huge clots and lots of blood with hardly any bladder control at all. By 9pm they admitted me on the fact that I'd lost so much blood and that many clots my blood pressure dropped and I could hardly stand they gave me paracetamol and told me to sleep through it! (in other words man up!) Pain stopped they discharged me at 10am by 1pm I was bleeding heavily at home in in horrendous pain at 3.37 my baby came and it was not 2" like they told me it would be it was at least 5 my hubby to be nearly passed out and I had to push. I'm telling my story because some people don't have a clue and say it is like a period, well its not its horrible! If it ever happens again I will never choose natural again! R.I.P to my litter bubs xx

 

[frisbeemama12]

I just read through this whole thread, and my heart hurts for everyone here I had a mmc in March baby only measured 8 weeks with no heartbeat, but I shouldve been 10 to 12. hopingforno2 I know EXACTLY what you mean, I have a DD so I know what labor pains feel like and this was definitely an accelerated version of it... I had yet another miscarriage in October of this year but it was early so it was a period for all I knew... and today as I type this.. there is still a bean in there but Im waiting for it to pass.. My insurance doesnt kick in until the 1st of January so I cant go see a doctor until then (unless I want to pay enormous bills) My heart hurts as I know my baby isnt alive anymore but my body wants to think so... This has been weird though because I passed some tissue stuff but only a little blood and for the past few days NOTHING. Im worried Im going to have to end up getting a D&C.... I dont like taking medicine and I dont like the idea of being scraped or having it vacuumed out.. if thats what I have to do to be healthy then thats what I will do though.... to you all. We will get our babies one day if its in Gods will that we do.. the DH is saying that we shouldnt put ourselves through anymore pain and that we already have a wonderful DD so we could just adopt and help some of the children in desperate need of love.. Im thinking he might be right... to all of you Ttc.

 

[sosad82]

Hi
Im new to this forum and was so relieved to find that there was a thread especially for mmc as none of my friends have thankfully suffered mmc and have no idea how horrible it all is.
This is my 2nd mmc out of 2 pregnancies. Both times have been identical hb seen at 6 weeks then at 8 weeks told hb stopped at 7 weeks. I am so disheartened by it all (i had early scans as spotting throughout).
I am so MAD with my body right now it cant carry a pregnancy but wont even miscarry properly either.
Dont want to bore you with the details but have been advised not to have a D&C as i have septum in my uterus and so risk of damage is greater. Both times i have had medical management and it just sucks. I had my last tablet on thursday so am going through the process now and am so fed up. Just wanted to say lots of love to you all who have or are going through this xxx

 

[pickleuk]

Ladies, hope everyone is well today. Thanks for your support. I went for my update scan today, they found the gestational sac still there so despite the indescribable pain I still need an ERPC, will have one tommorrow.

 

[hopingforno2]

Hope your all ok today. I'm feeling better, still waking up sweating and crying so even tho my physical pain is healing, mentally I'm messed up! Would love to just hide away but unfortunatly i have a wedding to finalize by Friday x

 

[frisbeemama12]

Good luck pickleuk, I hope that it goes well and your recovery is quick. Im so sorry hopingforno2, dealing with this and something as stressful as a wedding.. try to try to think positive, I know its incredibly hard but a wedding is a joyous occasion, and there is a child in your future, just work on keeping yourself healthy enough for that time to come

 

[mohini12]

hi pick,hopingforno2,sosad
i am so sorry .i know what you are exactly feeling.
G.L for next time.


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6 baby lost in 1st trimester.no live birth.ttc on asprine75,folic acid5mg,letrozol.

 

[sosad82]

Thank you mohini G.L to you also i really hope 2012 has great things in store for us.
Thinking of you today pickles hope everything has gone as well as it can big hugs xxx

 

[pickleuk]

Hi

How is everyone doing?
My EPRC went well, the hospital were great, really empathetic and the procedure was quick. I have hardly any bleeding and no cramping now. I am hoping this can now be the start of a good new year.

 

[sosad82]

I am so glad that everything has gone ok with you today...take care of yourself xxx

 

[mojojojo563]

Glad to hear everything went well today take care of yourself one day at a time.

 

[threemakefive]

I'm so glad I started this thread...having others going through it easily able to find each other has been great..I am sorry for everyone's losses and am glad for all the great recoveries we are beginning to have. I too have given birth before my mmc, TWICE in fact, and OMG this was way worse...I just wanted to update on myself, I am now 2 weeks post D and C (after 3 days of "labor" and nothing passing) I am feeling quite well, physically I feel 100 percent, and mentallly, I would say I'm about 95 percent....I first was really wanting to have another, as this was unplanned pregnancy, my OH and I really didn't want more kids, but after this I have had a longing urge that my family is no longer complete, and I really want another one, but after 2 weeks of hormone changes I have decided to just go with the flow and pray I will again be blessed with another chance, and I am good with that now, where as right after the d and c I wanted a baby NOW!! lol Just wanted to give some hope to some of you going through the loss process now, it really does get better, and every day it gets easier. This week was actually the first time I saw a pregnant woman and didn't feel bitter (I know sounds silly lol ) So good luck to everyone has your journey continues and hope you all have a great Christmas/Holiday/New Year