Missing .. PMA ...

[Farie]

Blahhhhhh

I hate my body ... the cramps, the sore BB's
Why does this never ever mean anything? Yet if I go to TTC its is an obv sign of preg ... symptoms people get just before their BFP's

Why the hell is this not true for me?

Blahhhhh

*edited to add maybe I should stay away from TTC *

 

[Beckic]

Oh hun - I've banned myself from TTC and from the BFP announcements sections as well - actually even banned myself from the success stories thread only feel at home in here really.

After three years of studying my body I think its about what is unusual for you - so whilst others may not get cramps and sore boobs and then when they get them it is a sign of being preggers - for me - cos I get sore boobs like clockwork for 7 days post OV and then they go away to be replaced by cramps for 7 days - because that is my norm it is not a sign of being preggers - and I am hoping that when that elusive bloody BFP does finally turn up strange things will happen and I will get the sore boobs for longer or no cramps so that I will be able to obsess about pregnancy symptoms and post on TWWW.com with my unusual symptoms and 'i just knew'!!!!!

I know its hard to keep the PMA hun - especially cos you have had such good news about the SA results it gives you so much more hope to be dashed if it isnt your month - but keep at it sweets and I know all of us on here are crossing everything for you.

Hoping your body is just playing tricks on you this month - or that next month you will have an abundance of strange symptoms followed by a BFP - you deserve it.

Bx x x x

 

[jonnanne3]

Amen girls! I know what you mean! I am on my 28th cycle and it is hard to keep a PMA when all you get in the end is heartache! I am right there with you! As I am sure a lot of the women in this section are. Hopefully soon enough some of that PMA will help bring the for all of us!

 

[Lyns]

Oh, hunny......I always feel really rubbish around your stage in my cycle. I spend the first part of 2ww really positive then my PMA just dissolves as I get closer to testing/AF time. Hell its not better even if I think I'd even get pregnant, as I'm utterly convinced I'll lose it again!

I don't go anywhere near TTC or worse WTT now.....I find myself getting so scornful at the ridiculous optimism in there, and want to scream at them how pathetic it seems to be stressing over a BFN on their first month TTC...and then I realsise just how mean that would make me....its not their fault!

But haviong a good old rant usually makes me feel a wee bit better....so rant away! xxx

 

[Blue12]

Yeah that is like today in the chatroom. A couple of us were talking about really having a hard time with ltttc and the reality of our chances and someone joins in.......im excited about my scan..........one person says oh nice........we continue on the talking about the upset and each persons struggles and this person puts a link up to their scan pic and says b or g........like wtf don't you get that all these people are sad right now and you are rubbing it in their face.... like at least say something to acknowledge sadness - like sorry to hear this.....wondered if you could look at scan... sorry if upsetting or something........

Am i crazy?

 

[Farie]

not crazy at all

 

[manchester1]

not crazy...........normal!!!

 

[Mynxie]

totally empathise with you hun

backache, sore boobs, nausia, achey abdomen, bitchiness, ... AF is on her way Though if I'm honest it felt very similar when I was pregnant, so I get my hopes up, I test, get a BFN, hope I tested to early, get another BFN, still hope I tested too early and then come on. So, yep, I emphasise hun.