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I've been in and out of the hospital for my husband since Thursday, he's got something wrong with his GI tract and they can't figure it out. He has severe abdominal pain and vomiting/diareah.

This week has been the worst week, I spent 10 minutes pacing and crying in my living room at 6am this morning when I went home for some rest.

James and baby girl are fine, I'm tired, but fine. Thankful for my family!
 
Oh my. Miranda poor u.:hugs: u must be worried sick. Is he still in the hospital? He is in safe hands if he is still there. Hope they fix him quickly hun. And u try not to worry, I am sure he will be home before you know it. Take care and I wish him speedy recovery x
 
Yes he's still in the hospital, they don't want to discharge him until they can find the source of what's causing him to be sick...it's been a rough week. And I've been really emotional about it.

I did go to work today and it helped pass time quicker, I just worry so much that he's in there and they still don't know what's wrong.
 
So sorry to hear about your oh Miranda! They will figure it out, he's in the best place. Hope everything returns to normal very soon!
 
He was discharged last night, they're saying an infection...but who really knows. All tests they did came back negative.

How are all you ladies? Less then a month until your girls are one pickle!!

Happy 22 weeks dream!
 
Thanks Miranda. Glad he is on the mend.

Hi pickle. How are the girls. Yea they will be 1 soon. How time flies x
 
Hey ladies!! I'm sorry I haven't been on here much. Things are pretty much the same for me, still dealing with OH and I'll be going to a therapist on the 30th for PPD/PPA.

Xavier is 6 months already!! He's almost sitting by himself, babbling and smiling nonstop and just such a little sweetie! 😍

Miranda I'm sorry about your DH but glad he's home again, is he feeling any better?? Glad the tests were negative but sucks you still don't have an explanation as to why he got so sick.
Happy 24 Weeks, Miranda!
Happy early 23 weeks, Dream!
Pickle I can't believe your girls will be 1!! Do you have plans for their celebration??

Hope everyone else is ok!! How's Jessie, does anyone know?
 
Happy 6 months to Xavier!

Brett is fine, he was on antibiotics and off all last week on be dress. Back to work yesterday and totally normal.
 
Happy 25 weeks Miranda. Glad ur DH is getting better now.

Welcome back wannabe. How are you and Lo. 6 months already...wow x
 
I had an app with my specialist for a growth scan yesterday and they noted I had high amniotic fluid levels, so now I have to be monitored for that too. The dr said it could just be what's normal for this pregnancy or it could be a sign of GD. Gotta schedule a glucose tolerance test now with my regular ob.

Happy 23 weeks dream!!

I can't believe 2016 is almost over!
 
Aww Miranda you look adorable!! 😍 What did you choose for her name again? Avery was it? Hopefully it's not GD and just a normal thing for this pregnancy!!

Dream we're doing ok. Up and down with OH. I honestly just feel stuck at this point. It's awful. Xavier is growing so fast but I have concerns with him as he's on the late end of reaching milestones...I know every baby is different but I also can't help but compare with kids I've worked with. And he's gaining weight very slowly all of a sudden too, only gained 1lb since 4mos...Doesn't help my anxiety at all.

Any new years resolutions?
 
Alexis Ryan.

Perhaps bring up your concerns with your pediatrician? But really you can't judge milestones based off other babies, they're all so different. What sort of milestones are you concerned about?

Sorry to hear you feel stuck, it's hard being in a situation like that. I hope you guys can work it out...whether that means staying together and moving forward or separating and moving forward
 
Oh yes, Alexis! That's so cute!!

Well he's not even attempting to roll from belly to back, which supposedly is "supposed" to happen first. He rolled from back to belly at 3mos but then not again until 5mos. He's JUST starting to sit up with minimal help...I know I'm just worrying too much but I feel guilty cuz I'm with him 24/7 and I feel like I work with him trying to help him but he's still not ready.

Most of my anxiety stems from the fact that I'm basically a single mom. OH is no help at all. I have to twist his arm to take the baby for 5 mins and then he starts screaming and OH is absolutely clueless as to what to do, or always assumes he's hungry and needs me. He puts his needs and wants ahead of Xavier and I. He hasn't bought anything in 6 months for my son. It's heartbreaking.
He doesn't help around the house either, and just expects me to clean up after his mess, think for him, remind him everything, etc. And then wonders why I'm too exhausted to want sex or even look at him romantically at all anymore. My feelings changed ever since he acted like a jerk when I was pregnant. He waits for me to blow up at him and then changes for maybe a week or 2, then it's repeated over and over.
I want to get away at this point. I'm done. There's no benefit from me being with him. But I'm stuck because of Xavier. Like, he's always my baby's father, and I just hate myself for thinking he was the one to create my family with. My son barely knows his father and OH knows this and "feels bad" yet still leaves when he could be spending time with LO. and he's admitted he's uncomfortable and clueless about babies but...um...too bad? He's your son...so sad

Rant over.
I've been staying with my mom last night and the night before. I'm physically, emotionally and romantically done with him... </3
 
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