Mission Impossible! 2 New Arrivals and 8 Little Ones x

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:hugs: Awwwwww wannabe. So sorry u r going through this. Wish you guys can work things out. U know what is best for you and xavier so just go with ur heart. Hope things work out well for you soon for xavier's sake.
As for baby's milestone, trust me when I say this...we've all been there worrying about rolling or standing or crawling. Every baby is different, they do things when and only when they are ready. So relax and try not to worry ok. Please take care of urself and xavier . We are all here for you xx
 
Thanks Dream :hugs:
I'm just so scared if I do leave him how is that gonna work as far as visitation and whatnot? I really feel trapped based on this. Could he fight for custody and all that? Would it even be worth it or should I just stay with him and stay distant like we are anyways? I just feel like leaving will ruin Xavier's life...I'd rather ruin my own than his...
 
First off big big :hugs:

Leaving an unhappy relationship will never ruin your child's life. If you OH wants to be a part of Xavier's life he'll make an effort to do so. And if he doesn't, you can still offer him the chance to participate in his life. Do not in any way feel obligated to stay with someone just because you have a child with them. Because if he's not willing to change now, he never will.

As for mile stones....James barely sat up on his own until after 6 months and even then it was tripod style haha now he's running and climbing and I'm wishing he'd just lay still ;)

I've hit a wall it feels like, I'm so emotional lately...it seems one thing after the next keeps piling up and it's causing so much anxiety and stress. At my app Thursday I had a growth scan since they're monitoring me for preeclampsia risk and I've been flagged now for excess amniotic fluid levels..which could mean nothing, or it could be a sign of GD or something more serious. The dr is pretty certain it's nothing serious, but said they'd keep an eye on it. This pregnancy has just put me off to ever wanting to be pregnant again. Bleeding, high bp, now this...it's so overwhelming. Everyone keeps asking how I am, how I've been feeling and I don't know what to tell them. I'm just drained
 
:hugs: Aww Miranda. I have never heard of too much amniotic fluid before :nope:. But I think u should try not to worry about it. The doctors know exactly what you need and they know what they are doing. Please try and worry less so u don't elevate ur BP. Trust that ur doctors will monitor u closely and won't let anything happen to u or the baby. Take care of urself x
 
My bp has been low, last check was 109/77

Not knowing what's causing it makes me anxious, like what if it's something serious. Or what is I go into labour early because of it...it's just the unknown that's got me
 
:happydance: :happydance: I am soooooooo happy and thought that I would share. Still have some symptoms hanging around like nasty taste in my mouth although it's not as bad, excess saliva again just here and there. Apart from that I am hunky dory. Soooooooo happy.
Have a good day ladies x
 
Happy 24 weeks dream! Viability!! And double yay for symptoms tapering off...the nausea was always the worst one for me
 
I have my gtt the 27th, then an app with my specialist the 29th for another growth scan and to check amniotic levels
 
Thanks Miranda and good luck at ur appointment . I am sure everything will be fine. And congratulations on reaching double digits. I have my Gtt on 4th January.
 
Dream I'm so glad your symptoms are easing up!! Mine never did lol I had nausea/vomiting the entire time and added contractions from 34 weeks on...can't say I miss those days lol
Happy 24 weeks!

Miranda I hope you pass the gtt and everything is normal with amniotic fluid.
Happy 26 weeks!

I'm doing ok. OH is aware of my feelings and is trying hard to kiss my a$$...but I just don't know. Christmas is coming, too, which just doesn't help anything.
 
I didn't even realize I reached double digits!!

James apparently has been letting his teacher know when he has to pee and has been peeing on the potty at school! Proud mommy right here!

I've pretty much accepted what happens will happen, and I've gotten a better outlook on things. I've been happier the last few days, part of my better mood is the new guy that was driving me nuts at work and getting on every last one of my nerves was fired Wednesday. He'd been taking major advantage of our boss being out sick by not actually working...and taking fricken naps at his desk after lunch...like, really? You're a grown man, that's disrespectful. After he left my boss was even more enraged when she found out he'd downloaded a bunch of programs on the computer that came with over a thousand malware files. Who does that?

Wannabe, if you've given him a lot of chances and he only changes temporarily it'll just be a miserable cycle for you. You will be so much happier when you drop what's causing weighing you down
 
Miranda, I'm glad things at work are making you happier! What an ass hole that guy sounds, glad he's no longer taking advantage.

You're totally right, it IS a vicious cycle and I really have no idea why I can't just snap outta it and leave him...I guess I do care about him and don't want to ruin things but who am I kidding I know things are already ruined. I'm so sad for Xavier...this is nowhere near what I wanted for him. I wanted him to have the best loving mommy and daddy...I'm just so heartbroken and feel like it's my fault and I should've listened to my mom saying she knew he sounded like a liar and no good for me...And then I'm just scared he'll turn into a wacko and try to steal my baby away from me...ugh. I'm so up and down with him I can't even stand myself :'(
 
Happy 25 weeks dream! I always forget you're only 2 weeks behind me!

Wannabe, I hope you can find happiness, don't think you're required to stay with someone who won't change just because you have a kid together. You can still co-parent seperated
 
Wish you all lovely ladies a very happy and prosperous NEW YEAR :kiss::flower:

I have been MIA for a long time. But I am stalking you silently.
Hope you all are doing great.
 
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