loulou82baby
Mom to 2/Expecting #3
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Thank you to all of you ladies! you are my "rock" I would be lost without all of you!
Dream- I'm glad you had a good birthday hun sounds fabulous and well deserved pampering!
Fairyy- you are definitely still in with a good shot! I can't even tell you how many stories I've read about women conceiving in the few days before o. That's the best time from what I've read in several studies and testaments from tons of women
Pickle- is your temp rise today above your normal coverline? Hope you got some bd in last night
DD- I totally understand what you're saying! I was having a hard time coming on b&b and trying to balance being relaxed about my cycle, but mostly because of the oopsies and we got it the first month threads. I just find if I'm feeling down I just come here, to our thread, and that's it, I stay away from everything else when I feel I can't handle it or it's going to upset me. I'd be lost without all of you ladies and as much as seeing negatives month after month sucks and hurts, it makes it easier knowing I have this wonderful group of ladies to support me through and understand exactly what I'm going through. You ladies all give me the faith to keep going and not give up, because we've all worked too damn hard to get this far and we will all be blessed when it's our time I'm sorry for the way you're feeling and I understand, we all know how hard ttc is we're all here for you hun, no matter if you want to talk about the weather, gardening, food, etc, etc, etc, we're here and would all probably love to get our minds off of this ttc stuff sometimes.
I wish we all lived closer ladies so I could give all of you a giant hug! A virtual just doesn't compare to the real thing!
I think I o'ed real late on cd 17/ early morning of cd 18. We bd'ed last night because that was my OH's way of consoling me emotionally I guess Don't get me wrong, it was a welcome distraction, but I was thinking maybe a hug or cuddling and maybe some kind words. That's definitely not his strong suit lol. I tried talking to him about it and he just can't understand why it upset me. His thought is if it's meant to happen, it'll happen (his exact words) and he said I shouldn't be upset that my friend won the lotto. I definitely find myself more emotionally invested in ttc than he is, he just doesn't think about it the same way and he doesn't see the time frames like I do. I tried to explain to him that we're at 8 cycles of trying at the right time with nothing, and after 12 we're pretty much just done because he will not get testing done. So we have 4 cycles left. He thinks if it doesn't happen by then that it's a sign that it's not meant to be. His response to all was, "it really is a miracle to make a baby, isn't it?" It made me tear up and laugh a little.
I was doing better today and then my friend sent a pic of her digital it stung for a minute, but I'm trying to just be happy for her. She wants me to go to the dr with her on Friday if her oh doesn't go and she's already talking about me planning her baby shower. She did ask me yesterday if there were any hard feelings and I told her that I was feeling sorry for myself because I've been actually trying for 8 months and have gotten nowhere and it just seems to happen, not on purpose, for some people. I carefully chose every word I sent her so I didn't hurt/offend her. She said part of her feels bad and then I felt bad now she's upset because her mom and oh aren't as excited as she is. I wanted to tell her to just be happy it happened for her, because there are a ton of people that try for years without results, but I didn't and would never. I told her it'll all be ok and I'm there for whatever she needs. I hope this jealousy goes away soon! Ahhh...this is so not me! Thanks for listening to my story yet again ladies it's 1dpo, so I'm striving for a great day
And I wanted to say that my OH definitely feels like a sperm machine sometimes. I've tried to explain over and over that I want to bd all month, not just during fertile week and that I love him for him, not his sperm, and I think it may be starting to sink in lol.
Dream- I'm glad you had a good birthday hun sounds fabulous and well deserved pampering!
Fairyy- you are definitely still in with a good shot! I can't even tell you how many stories I've read about women conceiving in the few days before o. That's the best time from what I've read in several studies and testaments from tons of women
Pickle- is your temp rise today above your normal coverline? Hope you got some bd in last night
DD- I totally understand what you're saying! I was having a hard time coming on b&b and trying to balance being relaxed about my cycle, but mostly because of the oopsies and we got it the first month threads. I just find if I'm feeling down I just come here, to our thread, and that's it, I stay away from everything else when I feel I can't handle it or it's going to upset me. I'd be lost without all of you ladies and as much as seeing negatives month after month sucks and hurts, it makes it easier knowing I have this wonderful group of ladies to support me through and understand exactly what I'm going through. You ladies all give me the faith to keep going and not give up, because we've all worked too damn hard to get this far and we will all be blessed when it's our time I'm sorry for the way you're feeling and I understand, we all know how hard ttc is we're all here for you hun, no matter if you want to talk about the weather, gardening, food, etc, etc, etc, we're here and would all probably love to get our minds off of this ttc stuff sometimes.
I wish we all lived closer ladies so I could give all of you a giant hug! A virtual just doesn't compare to the real thing!
I think I o'ed real late on cd 17/ early morning of cd 18. We bd'ed last night because that was my OH's way of consoling me emotionally I guess Don't get me wrong, it was a welcome distraction, but I was thinking maybe a hug or cuddling and maybe some kind words. That's definitely not his strong suit lol. I tried talking to him about it and he just can't understand why it upset me. His thought is if it's meant to happen, it'll happen (his exact words) and he said I shouldn't be upset that my friend won the lotto. I definitely find myself more emotionally invested in ttc than he is, he just doesn't think about it the same way and he doesn't see the time frames like I do. I tried to explain to him that we're at 8 cycles of trying at the right time with nothing, and after 12 we're pretty much just done because he will not get testing done. So we have 4 cycles left. He thinks if it doesn't happen by then that it's a sign that it's not meant to be. His response to all was, "it really is a miracle to make a baby, isn't it?" It made me tear up and laugh a little.
I was doing better today and then my friend sent a pic of her digital it stung for a minute, but I'm trying to just be happy for her. She wants me to go to the dr with her on Friday if her oh doesn't go and she's already talking about me planning her baby shower. She did ask me yesterday if there were any hard feelings and I told her that I was feeling sorry for myself because I've been actually trying for 8 months and have gotten nowhere and it just seems to happen, not on purpose, for some people. I carefully chose every word I sent her so I didn't hurt/offend her. She said part of her feels bad and then I felt bad now she's upset because her mom and oh aren't as excited as she is. I wanted to tell her to just be happy it happened for her, because there are a ton of people that try for years without results, but I didn't and would never. I told her it'll all be ok and I'm there for whatever she needs. I hope this jealousy goes away soon! Ahhh...this is so not me! Thanks for listening to my story yet again ladies it's 1dpo, so I'm striving for a great day
And I wanted to say that my OH definitely feels like a sperm machine sometimes. I've tried to explain over and over that I want to bd all month, not just during fertile week and that I love him for him, not his sperm, and I think it may be starting to sink in lol.