Molar and Partial Molar Pregnancy Support Group

[Lottelotte]

Sorry i have not been around. Everytime i came here on my ipad it redirected me to naughty sites! Not sue if they had a virus because it seemed like others had it too. Think it only affected apple products.

Laura i am glad your hcg is back to normal, unfortunately. I pray this will be third time lucky for you and you will have a honey moon baby! Hope you a feeling ok.


Vicki i think trying again is a personal thing. You can take advice from dr's but you have to live with your decision.

Dan-o hope you are alright

Meme i hope it was just a blip, lab errors do happen

Megan glad you got signed back to midwife. Looking forward to seeing your next scan pic! Will you be findin out baby's sex?


Afm, cx wanted me to have a repeat beta after a week. Went this morning (six days after first) and result came back at 1687! This means its more tham doubling. Having a scan on weds which i will be only 5+1 which i think is too early, but apparently i am high risk? I hope to see the gest. Sac in the womb and i will be happy.

Also enjoyin the lovely weather!

Whats anyone been up to his weekend? I hope all you lovely ladies are ok

Love

Xx

 

[ihave5boys]

Why is this so hard for me? I assume my levels are down below negative (if they are in a month I will assume there were by tomorrow). But why is the thought of trying again sooner then my Dr.s advice bugging me so much. Even the Dr. G from Boston told me 3 weeks and 3 months even with cmp is his advice. But even when I think I made up my mind to try for 2 months I always question it. It's not like it has 100 percent will happen. But this is bugging me. I know its my body my choice and I really don't want to wait a year. My daughter will about 3.5 years. I know I am going to have some tough times coming (dont know when) but I can imagine my dad being alive by the end of next year. And I would live to have one more before he goes. With a picture of him and all (7) kids right after the 7th is born. I would live to include my stepson in that picture as well. I really want 2 more but I can't imagine my dad being here when the last one is born but really want 1 more before he goes.


The decision sucks. The choice is hard. Listen to your Dr. Or listen to what you've read. (and been told ny top specialist) without even meeting him. Listen to your heart or your head. (if conflicting.) I know mentally and emotionally I am ready.

The main thing that got me through my miscarriage was knowing I could try again in 2 months. But that had to be blown down from lab results.

I think I am going to leave it in the lords hands. I know I didn't want to be due in the middle of a semester but if the lord thinks that is the right time then its his choice. I am hoping for Oct. Nov. But it still hurts me mentally knowing I M going against my drs. Wishes.

I think that is the main thing that bugs me is going against my Dr.s orders.

Vicki

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Lotte could it be twins?? Could that explain it more than doubling? Well it is early but if they recommend it maybe it's for the best? If you go to it and you know it's likely your only going to see a gest sack then you will be prepared. I keep getting pop ups on my iPhone too!!!!!

Afm I had more bleeding! Stopped Friday but came back yesterday? Have some brown discharge today. I'm feeling ok thanks lovely just trying to keep myself on a positive track.

Xxxx

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Vicki the decision is really up to you. It's your doctors job to give you the facts and tell you it's best to wait. I've had many convo's with charring cross and done hours of research. It sound like if you don't need treatment and your levels drop its so very unlikely to rise again. I had treatment so my odds a a tiny bit higher for relapse but still so very low. Like Lotte said you need to be able to live with the decision. It's still very early days for you so everything is still up in the air! You have no need to rush so just take your time

Xxx

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Memebrown any news on those results??? Fingers crossed for good news xxx

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Everyone else all ok? Xxxxx

 

[jacky b]

Laura, sorry that you are bleeding again, I hope that things get back on track quickly for you, especially with less than 3 weeks til you get married! Can't wait to see your pictures xx

Sounds like a excellent rise Lotte. Mine more than doubled too, which my doc said was excellent sign. I think my first scan was at 5w4d-I saw a sac and small blob, so you should see a sac. Very exciting. Good luck for wednesday and can't wait to hear how it goes xx

Meme, hope your next bloods have dropped again. Could just be a lab mistake. Good luck with the next bloods.

Vicki, the choice is yours and you need to be comfortable with your decision. Do your research, listen to the docs but ultimately you get to make the decision. It is definitely worth getting some monthly negative though just to be sure that it isn't growing back. And like Laura said, you don't need to ruah into a decision straight away.

Had a good weekend. My little baby sister turned 21 which was nice to see but makes me feel a little old, but hey its life. Treated myself to a massage after work today which was so relaxing and definitely worth it. Bit excited too as today I definitely felt some flutters. I felt some last week but put it down to gas but felt them again last night when i was trying to go to sleep. There is definitely some pattern to them now. I have another scan on friday at my specialists appointment so hopefully things continue to go well. Then we may start telling people.

Hope everyone else is well xx

 

[MeMeBrown]

My drs. office just opened so Ill give them and hr to call me and if not then I will be blowing up their phone lol! But I couldn't help myself, and curiosity got the best of me and I bought a HPT and it was very clearly positive so I was pretty disappointed, now its just a waiting game to see what my dr. wants me to do. Hopefully he can get me in today so I won't have to wait anymore!

 

[ihave5boys]

Good luck meme.

Thank everybody. I know that decision is mine. I just have a lot of extra crap that are contributing factors in my life. I am now trying to fund an excuse to get another blood draw this week. Just to see if it has gone down to 0.

Vicki

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Vicki could you not buy a cheap hpt? If its negative you know your levels are normal. I'm sorry your finding it hard to decide but you will get there in the end xxx

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Meme is there anyway your pregnant? Let us know what your doctor says xxx

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Becky that's amazing your feeling flutters! What an amazing feeling! Happy 21st to your sister... What a lovely age! Xxx

 

[MeMeBrown]

Im on birth control, but i would never say Im 100% sure Im not bc well theres no full proof plan other than abstinence and well my husband and I arent practicing that haha but anyway I just called and its 414 and now he wants ANOTHER draw today, Im getting frustrated!

 

[ihave5boys]

M2C- I was planning on doing that. But I really want to know if it hits under 5. But I was planning on going to dollar tree and buying like 20 of them so I can test weekly for the next 3-4 months. Because then if I do decide to get preg and it happens in Oct I will tell them I been testing at home weekly cause I want to make sure it stays neg. And by the way I just realized I forgot to get my shot. And if it happens in Nov or Dec. I can use the same excuse but say I quit the shot because I been having headaches from it. )truth I have been) but my condom must have broke. (not truth.) But then when they ask why did you test anyway I cM say because every where I read said I should have weekly test for 3 weeks after I have my 0 and monthly so I doing the best I could at home


Vicki

 

[ihave5boys]

Meme- I hope this is a new preg. For you. Don't know your story but I think a new preg is a better option then the other.
Keep us posted

Vicki

 

[MeMeBrown]

thanks Im just so frustrated bc bloods arent gonna give anything but a number! and I want some ANSWERS, BLAH

 

[Lottelotte]

Meme - I hoep everthing is ok. So on 14th it was 43 and on 20th it was 414 - that seems like its doubling up in line with a pregnancy - Fx'd everything is ok.

Laura - glad you are ok. I have been thinking about you lovely.

Becky - yay for flutters! How far are you now?

Afm, yes I was really pleased with the last result. I checked the doubling time and it was 38 hrs. The drs seemed happy to. I just pray it stays that way.

xx

 

[ihave5boys]

I know meme, I assume you are preg again. I am not sure how fast blood would rise again if growing back, but I have gotten preg on the bcp and so has my SIS in law. So it does happen.

Let us know.

Vicki

 

[MeMeBrown]

when they told me it was rising I stopped taking it bc if it is a new pregnancy then I dont want that to affect anything so. Gah why does this have to be so stressful, I wish I had an ultrasound machine at home LOL

 

[ihave5boys]

Meme- right now I wish I had my own lab at home... So I could just test my Hcg. So I understand. As lotte said they look like they are doubling I am not sure if it would double like that with a growth.


When did you have your molar. Was it cmp or pmp.


Vicki