Molar and Partial Molar Pregnancy Support Group

I'm 39 yrs, never had fertility issues up until November of 2011. Went in for routine bloodwork and hormones came back all jacked up. Long story short, was diagnosed with POF and told I had less than 8% chance of ever getting pregnant again. Devastating news, since I had met the man of my dreams after 10 years in the most horrible relationship imaginable. The only redeeming aspect is my son, the light of my life, who is now 8.

After that grim prognosis, I researched everything imaginable and eventually tried reproductive acupuncture. Within 2 months (6 months after the POF diagnosis and 0 menstural cycles coming off BC), I started having periods again. The second menstrual cycle showed ovulation. I was over the moon! We started trying immediately.

Within 2 months of that, I became pregnant in July 2012. Since I was going to a fertility specialist, they monitored me very closely with 2-3 office visits per week to check labs. Put on Endometrin 3x per day, Prometrium 3x per day and Vivelle dot patches 2 every 3 days. Never had hormonal issues with my previous pregnancy so didn't really know what to expect. Heartbeat detected at 6 weeks and at week 9 the news came. No heartbeat. Devastated was an understatement. Scheduled D&C the next day.

Two weeks later, Pathology came back with another blow - Partial Molar Pregnancy. I began researching frantically trying to find out eveyrthing I could about it. Doc requested I go back on BC to prevent pregnancy for 6 months (waiting period) which I refused. I had been on BC since I was 16 and felt that it contributed to my POF condition which had somehow spontaneously "reversed".

Periods returned to normal, and I continued on for the next 6 months. I March 2013, my period was 5 days late. Panicking because of my prevous POF diagnosis and hearing my biological clock ticking out of control, I called my MD who brought me in to do a cycle day 6 reading of hormones. All were normal and within the good ranges. Whew! Cycle day 11 bloodwork showed excellent signs of pending ovulation, and an ultrasound confirmed two follicles recruiting on their own! Was given the green light and spent the next two weeks doing our "homework". Cycle day 26 (March 25th 2013) tests shows POSITIVE confirmation of ovulation. Period was due on Friday the 29th but I couldn't wait. I bought a pregnancy test and it was POSITIVE! I couldn't believe it!

Thus began the multitude of visits to the fertility doc to monitor my labs and ultrasounds closely. Put back on Endometrin, Vivelle, and Prometrium as a precaution. Since I got pregnant on my own, it was a little hard for them to determine how far along I am so it changed a few times during the visits.

Then came the first part of the devastating news - this past Monday, heartbeat slowed to 82bpm, (slowed from the prior week of 90bpm) and now fetal growth was present from the week prior. Later that afternoon, labs came back with a drop in HCG from over 5K previously (that's all their machine measures) to 4800. They are telling me to expect miscarriage at this point and will have to wait until no detectable heartbeat before D&C.

My follow up appointment is today at 4:30. I am lost......
 
So sorry wolverine- tge pmp must make a billion times worse with fertility issues. But a repeat of another pmp or cmp is 1-2 percent. Prayers for you, and bigger prayers that this is not another one. When do you go back.

I waited a month from the time i new that it was a blighted ovum (or so they thought.) to have my d&c. And that was hard but at least i mourned in that month that when it was time for d&c i just wanted it over so i could start trying again. Thats when we found out it was a cmp an had to wait longer. But the wait went by fast. I would say too fast only cause my dad died in that time and we knew he would so didnt want it rushed to much..

Vicki
 
Wolverine I'm so sorry to read your story. It's hard going through a molar let alone anything on top of that. How did your appointment go? We are all here for you when you need us xxx
 
Wolverine, so sorry to read about your loss and current situation :hugs:
 
Wolverine, sorry to hear your situation, how did you get on at your appointment?

First scan in the morning! Its been a long 2 /12 weeks waiting for it and I'm terrified!
 
Feeling so sick again today. Got sick at 2:45 in morning and that sucks..
Vicki
 
Wolverine: I am so sorry for all you have been through and are currently going through. We are all here to support you.

Bev: I'm so excited for your scan. Can't wait for you to see your little bean.
 
Wolverine: Sorry for what you're going through. As Vicki says, a repeat pmp is a very small percentage. How was your appt? As everybody else said, we're all here for you :hugs:

Bev: And how was your appt also? Bet you're glad you've waited!

Vicki: Sorry you're feeling sick again. I must say I didn't feel sick at all during my short pregnancy and was hoping/praying I would at some point; just to make myself believe that I was actually pregnant. How ironic!

M2C: Still sweeping the floors?

AFM: Nothing new. Waiting for the HCG drop on Saturday. I think I ovulated couple of days ago. And this time Fertility Friend is with me too :) Though it thinks it was a little bit earlier and tells me to expect AF on the 4th. I think maybe between 10th-12th. We'll see...
 
Wolverine- sorry to hear your sad story. Hope we can all be of some encouragement to you.

Bev-I'm excited to hear how your scan goes! I remember the anticipation, time seems to stand still!

AFM-still feeling good for 33 weeks, but the doc is wondering if I have GD :( I go in for a urine test next week and if there is sugar in my urine (again) I'll have to do the glucose screening test again. The first time it was 130, but she didn't have me do the 3 hour test because it was borderline. I'm not gaining tons of weight, maybe a little faster than normal these last couple weeks. Going to start a lower carb/sugar diet for now, just in case. But it's tough all I want is chocolate!!!
 
Bev it will be here. I habe to wait till tuesday... So anxious but in reality these couple weeks have gone by fast.
Raf good luck with that urine test. I have type 2 now it started with #1 as Gd and by #4 dr said was type 2.

Still been feeling blah today. I swear i have thrown up more with this preg then with all 7 before. And started before i should have had it. I have no clue why so bad this time but sucks...

Vicki
 
Wolverine so sorry to read your story. We have a such a lovely group I hope we can support you during this time!!!

Laura--I keep hoping I will log in and see a birth announcement from you!! Is it typical to just go every 2 weeks towards the end there?? The last month here we go weekly or if you are super lucky like me two times a week lol

Raff I hope and pray you don't have GD--that was such a trouble!! I'm really not a sweets fan until I'm told I cant have them lol

Ece 10 sounds like a perfect # to shoot for this week!

Bev I hope you had a great scan!!

Vicki good luck for your scan next week!!
 
Bev goodluck for today. Hope all is well and you got some rest.

Raff happy 33 weeks!!!! Yay! Hope your gd test goes ok.

Wolverine any news from you?

Vicki sorry your feeling sick still. I know I felt terrible but its all worth it.

Tina I can't wait to share my news with you ladies! I have a feeling ill go just over?! Wonder what my rainbow will be. Every 2 weeks is normal towards to the end. My next app is the 14th then I have a sweep booked for the 20th. I can't believe it. Did it feel a bit surreal for you? After all the waiting I'm so close and I can't quite believe its happening! I nearly have my rainbow in my arms!

Becky did it feel surreal for you having your rainbow after the wait?

Dano how are you getting on?

Lotte if you still check in I hope all is going well. Sending much love.

Vegas how's you?

Clo any news from you?

Ece let us know how tomorrow goes?

Xxxx
 
Went to wirk feeling like crap, but then started feeling better, then ate and now ready puke it all up...

Ugggg

Vicki
 
It's awful vicki! I really feel for you. I would be hungry then as soon as I ate I'd throw it up. Hopefully you find something you can keep down

Xxx
 
Wolverine, so sorry for your lost and that you had to join us xx

Raff, I hope you don't have GD. But getting so close now. Not long. Congratulations on 33 weeks xx

Vicki, hope you feel better soon x

Bev, how'd your scan go?

Laura, so close! When Marcy was born it was as though things were righted. Everything felt balanced and I felt whole again. All the wait and heart ache was worth it and just became my journey and stopped defining me. I knew I had finally found what I was meant to do. I would have to sneak a cuddle sometimes to check it was real (instead of pinching myself) and when it was just the 2 of us I think I found myself crying out of joy. Even now when I have a bad day just a cuddle and smile melts my heart. Sorry to go on and on. I can't wait to hear your wonderful news xx

Ece, fingers crossed for tomorrow. Good luck.

Sorry if I have forgotten anyone. Atm, we are having a wonder week so Marcy a bit grumpy and extra clingy.Its like she is new born again with her sleeping too. Can't wait for it to be over, really struggling having to get up more than once a night to feed. We are also driving to the big city for a few days Sunday. I have more check.up with the specialist so I will find out if its my meds for life or just prepregnancy. I have been naughty and forgetting to take then and I have noticed things slipping back to feeling like I used to again so expect to hear its for life. Fingers crossed. Exciting though that I can show the specialist another one of her successes :)

Have a great weekend all xx much love xx
 
Hi all,
It was great! Saw babies heartbeat, no signs of molar tissue st the moment, everything is as it should be. I am exactly 7 weeks. Oh god it was such a relief, I was so worried it wwouldn't be a baby xxx
 
Bev: hooray! I'm so glad it went well, I've been waiting all day for your post!
 

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