Molar and Partial Molar Pregnancy Support Group

[jacky b]

Good luck. It will go quickly! It will be the weekend before we know it. How are your bubbas? Feeling better? I think ms is a good sign.

Yay Dano! Fingers crossed this is your lucky month xx

 

[Jbaby90]

Jacky - thanks my ob has said to come in as soon as I miss my period so I will go in about a week cos AF is due the 2nd!

M2c - sickness is a good sign! Countdown is on to ur scan!

 

[Mummy2Corban]

We are out for a birthday Saturday so I'll have to get non alcoholic cider and pretend! Luckily it's Mother's Day Sunday so I can go in early saying I wanna feel ok for the bubbas! Corban is a monkey as always and indie is super poorly! Cough and cold.... Not really eating just wanting constant mummy loves! I've not been sick but just feel yuk 24/7!

Just want the reassurance from Monday bubba is there!

Jbaby will they do a scan then or leave it a few weeks?

Xxx

 

[Jbaby90]

That's a good idea having non alcoholic cider!

My ob has a scanner in her office so hopefully she will do one straight away when I see her but I will only be like 4weeks so won't see much anyway then I dunno when I will have another? Prob 6 weeks? I'm not sure what they do after a molar? Is it monitored more closely?

 

[dan-o]

Omg that's one hell of a BFP for so early!!!! Congrats!!!!

 

[Mummy2Corban]

With indie I had a 6 and 8 week at my early pregnancy unit. Then the usual 12 and 20 week ones but a consultant looked at the scan to check it. I was signed back to the midwife at 2 weeks as the consultant was happy so I guess the same will happen this time.

Xxx

 

[ihave5boys]

M2c yes i will stop, i will be lucky if i can get another in. The more adment my husband is about not wanting another makes me want to get pregnant even sooner. But trying not to go there right now. I get good positives around 3 weeks pregnant i started having morning sickness with alana around 7-8 dpo. I never had it majorly with any others.

Vicki

 

[Jbaby90]

Cool yer I was thinking probably 6 and 8 weeks! I pray I see a heartbeat this time!!

 

[jacky b]

I had similar scans with Marcy (first pregnancy after pmp).plus an extra at 10 weeks, then 12, 15, 18 (due to contractions) and 20 weeks. My pregnancy loss specialist (due to reoccuring Mc) and obs both had scanners in their offices so they did them each appointment. This time they did 8, 12 and then 20 coming up (in not seeing specialist now as manage my levels myself with meds and my gp). I think I prefer having less as I feel more relaxed as I get stressed leading up to my scans. Explain any concerns with your doc and they may do extra to put your mind at ease. I hope you see hb at first scan

 

[Mummy2Corban]

So ladies I shared with a very close friend of mine about this new pregnancy and she wasn't so happy! She has been trying for a while with no success so was upset with me even though she knows my past. I told my friend Carly (the ladie who was in charring cross at the sametime and our rainbows are two weeks apart) and she sent me this..... And I wanted to share because it's so beautiful xxx

https://stillstandingmag.com/2014/03/dear-sweet-mama-courage-roars/

 

[dan-o]

Ohh m2c that's a real shame she took it badly.
Ive been in her shoes, and in my more immature days I would have taken it badly too. In fact I did when my SIL''s pregnancy carried on after mine came to an end. With the same due date. I got my all clear from charing cross and she gave birth a few days later. I wasn't even excited for her or the baby, I was just consumed with sadness and jealousy. I look back on it now and cringe.
Now I'm older and stronger I have learned to be pleased for people . Genuinely. Also having children already helps. Is she TTC #1? I hope she will come round in time and that you are able to forgive her.

The other thing from your cx friend is just lovely. Xxx

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Yes she is ttc#1. Thing is I sympathise with her and all but she was so rude! Of course I forgive her but just felt upset as it's my baby!

It's lovely isn't it! Shed a few tears reading it xxx

 

[dan-o]

Ugh. LTTTC and infertility can turn you into a crazy person, it's so horrible, sorry you had to be on the other end of it Xx

 

[Mummy2Corban]

It's ok Hun I told her to just always be honest with me instead of being cold and short and I think it worked xxx

 

[jacky b]

Laura, so sorry your friend was like that. I hope Dano is right and in time she will look back and be upset at her reaction. Your cx friend is very sweet xx

 

[Jbaby90]

I'm sorry she took it like that I was the same when I found out my best friend was pregnant after my loss and due like 3 weeks after when I would have been due but I was never unhappy to her face! I acted completely fine with it, she was actually scared to tell me! Hopefully your friend comes around! Xx

 

[ihave5boys]

When i was first trying with my first one my brother and sister in law announved they were expecting and i felt like i was being crushed i believe i cried not in front of them. It took me longer then i wanted to get preg. Dh tried to sooth me and tell me it will happen but i had alot of jelousy. It will work out, i am sorry for her reaction though i think my sister has jelousy cause she once told my mom she thinks i am competing with the same brother and sil. However she has heard me bitch about my husbands ex wife gettng preg a few months after she finds out i was a couple times. I think all her kids were that way even the one she us carrying now.... But i just told my mom what i told my husband when we first met. And also the fact my brother and i got engaged around the same time, he got married in aug i think and me in dec. But there really was no competition.


Vicki

 

[ihave5boys]

On a side npte my sister lost her first had two more. The frist was in vitro and the second came from side effects of the first whoch they said could happen she was nursing the first when she got preg a few mpnths later.

Vicki

 

[aimze]

Hey ladies

Pregnancy announcements to ladies struggling to conceive turn us into sour bitter green eyed monsters...I tried to be happy to those who told me but sank into depression for a day where I needed my quilt an bed...I would have always preferred a text so I didn't need to hide my tears eyes an might need some time to see them...its not that she's not happy for you, she's unhappy for herself...

I'm on a new chapter now so A Ok with announcements but I did have to tell my freind who was due two dad before my miscarriage I couldn't see her for a bit an I hope she understands (this was back last year)

I hope she comes round soon, she'll be feeling awful of her reaction.

How's everyone love reading the updates fantastic BFP so early there too

We're about 6 weeks from meeting our boy, an 5 weeks from leaving work...the last hurdle so I hope it flys till he's in my arms! X

 

[Lottelotte]

Lots of news on here!

Aimze - brilliant news! How muuch do you know about your little boy? 5 weeks will fly by! Do you have much prep to do?

Laura - sorry about your friends reaction - its very hard for both of you. I think i still mourn the loss of pregnancy innocence that i once had. Not long till scan! Love the link btw.

Jbaby - have you tested again? Love the new ticker!

Dano, becky hope your both ok


Afm, was in work on tuesday. Will be back soon. Not sure how i feel about it. Looking forward to it in lots of ways but dreading leaving ella.

Xx