Jamaris Mummy
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Hi all - I've just come across this thread after posting elsewhere but this is obviously the more relavant one. On 20th June I had my 1st scan (by my dates 1 day off 13 weeks) - I had a big bump, had put on over a stone and was feeling sick 24/7. I'd also got a rash on my chest that i've had with my 3 previous pregnancies so I was very excited to finally be seeing my baby. So I was incredibly shocked to be told there was just an empty sac. Anyway to get to the point, I had an ERPC on the 23rd. I'm desperate to be pregnant again so was doing a HPT each week so I could get some idea of when my cycle would start again. This morning (3weeks after op) it was a very quick, strong positive still so just for piece of mind I phoned the hoppital. They seemed a bit concerned and phoned me back once they'd located my notes and said that from the tissue analysis we requested, I'd had a partial molar and they gave me a number of a lady to phone. By this time I was really worried thinking cancer etc etc and not only am I dealing with a miscarriage but now this so i was in a bit of a state. anyway, thankfully it's not cancerous and I've got to go and get my bloods taken tomorrow and then weekly tests.
I'm 37 and this baby was going to complete my family so now I'm worried that having to wait at least 6 months might be too late and I really wanted to be pregnant by the time this one was due (Boxing Day, also my son's 2nd birthday which will be quite emotional I think now - well mixed emotions).
Just wonderred other people's experiences and how quickly your levels went down etc. Any sort of feedback would be appreciated. Thanks
Im so sorry to hear of your loss I hope we can be of some help to you here, the worst stage is the first stage, where you are now, it can be so hard and I feel for you Definately try to make some time to read through some of our stories, i think this would help. A pmp is absolutely devastating and altho we have a difference in age I was eager to be pregnant again and the thought of waiting six months at first, seemed overwhelming. But now that I did wait Im so glad I did, emotionally I needed that even tho I didnt know it at the time and the time passed quickly, and when I did fall pregnant again (first try too) I was so appreciative and it has made this pregnancy so much more beautiful and special (even with all the morning sickness etc!) My levels dropped within in the first 3 months back to 0 and I was monitored well, blood tests every week.
It feels like a long road right now, and you feel so alone in the process, but know you have women here who are always available to talk to and we sincerely know the emotions you are feeling, no question is silly and every woman here is a woman of strength, and will help to guide you through. All the very best