Agree with Sarah, brilliant idea, a bit of positivity goes a long way, and if you feel better on the outside, it doesn't take away the pain on the inside but it eases things and gives you some more confidence. I tried to take that approach whilst waiting to TTC, and although I definately had my down days, my husband and I got closer again - we'd been trying for a year before the molar and our lives just revolved around me getting pregnant - it was nice to be a couple again.
Good Luck tomorrow, thinking of you and
Agree with Sarah, brilliant idea, a bit of positivity goes a long way, and if you feel better on the outside, it doesn't take away the pain on the inside but it eases things and gives you some more confidence. I tried to take that approach whilst waiting to TTC, and although I definately had my down days, my husband and I got closer again - we'd been trying for a year before the molar and our lives just revolved around me getting pregnant - it was nice to be a couple again.
Good Luck tomorrow, thinking of you and
I agree - my hubby and I need to get close again. Do you ladies ever feel bad that you haven't had sex lately? I can't remember when the last time I had sex with my husband was. Probably 3 weeks ago.. because i've been spotting on and off.
I know that I will still feel down some days, even if my physical appearance looks better. But I think it's a start...
Thank you for the support ladies!
Hooray! I am so relieved - my result today came back as totally normal!! I didn't make the 56 days post op but however, my previous test to today was 60 days post op (which is just how my tests worked out) and I was 0.36 (normal is 0.35 or below) so I'm kind of thinking now it could have well been that on day 56 which is pretty damn close to normal!! My latest test was 74 days post op so it's not like I'm weeks and weeks behind. My thinking now is that as long as they stay normal (still on fortnightly tests which is good) then i'm going to throw caution to the wind and start TTC at 6 months post op which is December. Does anyone think this is really silly or would you be inclined to do the same? (bear in mind I'm 38 in April!)
I feel a bit guilty because I've only really written posts asking for help and advice for myself rather than commenting on other people's so hopefully I'll be a bit more active on that side of things now. You have all been a great help. Many thanks xx