lilylee - july isnt far plus you have a lovely holiday planned and make the most of it.Sending hugs to you xxx
Tina- Have you told your doctors yet? I have bloods tomorrow too. How are you feeling?
This cycle has been 30 days! another cycle closer to ttc though
xxx
I have my followup appointment tomorrow for the D&C. And I had my second blood labs today, but I don't have results yet. I'm really praying that the hcg went down. Starting hcg was 1300 last week. I can't believe its been three weeks since we saw our heartbreaking ultrasound. I still cry everyday. I feel like I'm going to be sad until we get pregnant again.
I've got all sorts of crazy thoughts running through my head, like I can't believe how close it was to being perfect, I mean what are the chances two sperm enter the egg at the exact same moment? And I feel jealous of women who have normal miscarriages and get to start trying right away. And I feel so awful when my two year old points at my belly and says, "baby" and I just can't seem to tell her "not anymore," just hoping she'll forget it.
It actually seems like I was doing better a couple weeks ago when everyone was so sympathetic. But now it feels like everyone's moved on, and I am supposed to have moved on too, but instead I feel like I've just started to grieve. Like the shock is wearing off and now I'm realizing what I've lost and that it's still well over a year before I'll even have another baby.
Ug, I'm so tired of being sad. Thanks for letting me vent. I just had a beer (the perk of being not pregnant) but it apparently makes me spill my heart out on an anonymous forum!
I have my followup appointment tomorrow for the D&C. And I had my second blood labs today, but I don't have results yet. I'm really praying that the hcg went down. Starting hcg was 1300 last week. I can't believe its been three weeks since we saw our heartbreaking ultrasound. I still cry everyday. I feel like I'm going to be sad until we get pregnant again.
I've got all sorts of crazy thoughts running through my head, like I can't believe how close it was to being perfect, I mean what are the chances two sperm enter the egg at the exact same moment? And I feel jealous of women who have normal miscarriages and get to start trying right away. And I feel so awful when my two year old points at my belly and says, "baby" and I just can't seem to tell her "not anymore," just hoping she'll forget it.
It actually seems like I was doing better a couple weeks ago when everyone was so sympathetic. But now it feels like everyone's moved on, and I am supposed to have moved on too, but instead I feel like I've just started to grieve. Like the shock is wearing off and now I'm realizing what I've lost and that it's still well over a year before I'll even have another baby.
Ug, I'm so tired of being sad. Thanks for letting me vent. I just had a beer (the perk of being not pregnant) but it apparently makes me spill my heart out on an anonymous forum!
Mrs. Wag - congrats on the 3 months in a row!! levels look good!! I think that if the levels are normal 3 months in a row, the chances of the molar coming back are very slim!
How long did the doctor recommend blood tests for? 6 months or 1 year?
Laura - Yay for a 30day cycle and 1 cycle closer to June
Rafferty - Vent away! I still find it so hard sometimes and it hits me in waves, I also hate feeling that everyone else has moved on and I'm the only one who misses my baby. It will get better though and we will all be here to support you.
afm I'm waiting to see if AF shows on 1st April giving me my 30day cycles back (unless our drunken mistake leads to anything lol) just got my last set of results back and they were normal so that 3 normals in a row now
Hows everyone else doing?
lilylee - july isnt far plus you have a lovely holiday planned and make the most of it.Sending hugs to you xxx
Tina- Have you told your doctors yet? I have bloods tomorrow too. How are you feeling?
This cycle has been 30 days! another cycle closer to ttc though
xxx
I haven't--not sure how to LOL I'm afraid they will be worried when they see my bloodwork so I would probably be best to "warn them" but I'm afraid to call!! Feel fine, but nausea with Blake didn't hit until 8 weeks, and with the molar it was 7 weeks. I will be 5 weeks tomorrow so its probably just too early for the fun to start just yet lol
YAY for another cycle closer Laura!!!
I have my followup appointment tomorrow for the D&C. And I had my second blood labs today, but I don't have results yet. I'm really praying that the hcg went down. Starting hcg was 1300 last week. I can't believe its been three weeks since we saw our heartbreaking ultrasound. I still cry everyday. I feel like I'm going to be sad until we get pregnant again.
I've got all sorts of crazy thoughts running through my head, like I can't believe how close it was to being perfect, I mean what are the chances two sperm enter the egg at the exact same moment? And I feel jealous of women who have normal miscarriages and get to start trying right away. And I feel so awful when my two year old points at my belly and says, "baby" and I just can't seem to tell her "not anymore," just hoping she'll forget it.
It actually seems like I was doing better a couple weeks ago when everyone was so sympathetic. But now it feels like everyone's moved on, and I am supposed to have moved on too, but instead I feel like I've just started to grieve. Like the shock is wearing off and now I'm realizing what I've lost and that it's still well over a year before I'll even have another baby.
Ug, I'm so tired of being sad. Thanks for letting me vent. I just had a beer (the perk of being not pregnant) but it apparently makes me spill my heart out on an anonymous forum!
lilylee - july isnt far plus you have a lovely holiday planned and make the most of it.Sending hugs to you xxx
Tina- Have you told your doctors yet? I have bloods tomorrow too. How are you feeling?
This cycle has been 30 days! another cycle closer to ttc though
xxx
lilylee - july isnt far plus you have a lovely holiday planned and make the most of it.Sending hugs to you xxx
Tina- Have you told your doctors yet? I have bloods tomorrow too. How are you feeling?
This cycle has been 30 days! another cycle closer to ttc though
xxx
I haven't--not sure how to LOL I'm afraid they will be worried when they see my bloodwork so I would probably be best to "warn them" but I'm afraid to call!! Feel fine, but nausea with Blake didn't hit until 8 weeks, and with the molar it was 7 weeks. I will be 5 weeks tomorrow so its probably just too early for the fun to start just yet lol
YAY for another cycle closer Laura!!!
When do you get your blood results back?
I went to the post op for the D&C. She said my hCG went from 1345 to 196, so that was pretty good news.
The only weird thing was that she said once it hits zero in 2-3 months, that's when my 6 month wait STARTS. I thought I was waiting 6 months from the D&C, not 6 months from the zero. What do your guys doctors say?
I'm so tired of hearing bad news. I wish I could just turn off my feelings, numb would be better than sad all the time.
I went to the post op for the D&C. She said my hCG went from 1345 to 196, so that was pretty good news.
The only weird thing was that she said once it hits zero in 2-3 months, that's when my 6 month wait STARTS. I thought I was waiting 6 months from the D&C, not 6 months from the zero. What do your guys doctors say?
I'm so tired of hearing bad news. I wish I could just turn off my feelings, numb would be better than sad all the time.
I went to the post op for the D&C. She said my hCG went from 1345 to 196, so that was pretty good news.
The only weird thing was that she said once it hits zero in 2-3 months, that's when my 6 month wait STARTS. I thought I was waiting 6 months from the D&C, not 6 months from the zero. What do your guys doctors say?
I'm so tired of hearing bad news. I wish I could just turn off my feelings, numb would be better than sad all the time.