Yeh madcat,thats exactly my dh too.I was really worried especially 1st time coz I'd no idea what to expect and no idea how quick or slow it would be.
With shay I had a show, and contractions started on a sunday so it was grand.He just rang them sunday evening and told them he was taking his time off.
With Oran it was a tues,I was out shopping and went to the loo and saw I had a show,it was about 3 in the aftnoon,went on home scrubbed the house clean and contractions eventually kicked in by about 5,by then dh was on his way home anyway!
Hope this 1 is as well timed,coz once labour properly kicked in,oran was born in 50mins!So this time I'm certaintly not hanging about at home for too long just in case.Don't wanna give birth in the car,and our hospital is 30mins away!