My baby's father is sleeping with someone else :-(.

[littlelily]

So sorry you are going through this. Lots of good advice from the ladies on here. Just remember that you are never really alone and better things are coming your way. Chin up and be strong.

 

[winterbabies3]

I went through this love with DS1. All I can tell you is that it will take time to recover and move on but let me tell you all you need are your kids! Honestly, ds1's father didn't want him either but I hung around to long and gave him more chances that it was more control to have ds1 and I wish I would have walked away sooner. The father has not changed and has another kid he doesn't see. What he shows my son is nothing that I would want my son to do in his own life when he is older! But I have no choice now as its ordered by court. If he wants to walk away from baby let him! People don't change and I worry every time my son leaves with that man!

 

[CRWx]

Hi Hun, I had a similar thing happen to me. It gets easier I promise. Sending you the biggest hugs. Feel free to PM me xxx

 

[jlw617]

Like the other posters have said, it will take time and it is hard but you can do this! Don't blame yourself at all, no matter what some people are just really good at hiding things and when trust is broken and you've been betrayed, it is one of the hardest things in the world because it hits you like a train...use the anger and hurt to vow to be the best mom you can be to your children, teach them not to be bitter but how a relationship should be and should you ever find someone who is actually a real man, that's even better but make sure you are whole first.