beanzz
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Okay i understand most of you don't get the main point here.
1. I say "it" because i don't know the sex yet. I find out today. I said son in the quotation marks meaning my mom said shes going to go stay with HER son.
2. I don't have a place of my own, i stay here with my mother & i can't just up and find a place to stay with a child. College apartments don't allow children to stay with you.
3. I said i simply didn't know what to feel about this yet, ofc ITS mine & i have a say so, but i have mixed feelings about having a child all together. I haven't been thinking into the future as to money and all that. Just all the cute things i wanna do with him/her (is that better???)
4. I honestly didn't need the quick criticism before you even asked any questions. I did this quickly before i went to bed last night so i just typed off the top my head. All i asked for was a little advice or what would yu do.
There everyone happy?? Anymore questions?
Firstly, i apologise it was all confusing in the way it was written and honestly sounded like your mum was planning on moving away with your baby.
Secondly, if you don't think you can look after your LO you should consider adoption, like someone has already said. You can get help from the government for a place to live and help with the cost of baby. a baby isn't just for dressing up and being all cute. they spend most of the time crying, sleeping and feeding and you have to be there giving them what they need.
Can you not move with your mum? If there's enough room that's the option id choose, just until you find your feet. and good luck for the scan today