Need Some Advice For My Fiancée

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by Crazy_lady, Nov 18, 2011.

  1. Crazy_lady

    Crazy_lady New Member

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    Myself and my fiancée are trying for a baby, but my partner is a little worried.

    I already have one child (4ys) from a different partner. But, my fiancée has also tried for a baby with his ex partner and failed.

    My fiancée and I have never used condoms in the 3 years we've been together, and he's never used them in previous relationships. Non of his ex partners have got pregnant. He's 27. When he left his ex partner she got pregnant with her new boyfriend.

    Do you think it's possible there may be something wrong with him or is it just one of them things that may take a while?

    Any advice appreciated.
     
  2. Helena_

    Helena_ Well-Known Member

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    I.would get him to get an SA just to check
     
  3. Crazy_lady

    Crazy_lady New Member

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    I'm sorry what does SA stand for???
     
  4. itakp

    itakp Well-Known Member

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    It´sperm analysis. Your fiancé has to go to his doctor and explain his problem. He then has to erm... produce a sample into a pot and deliver it to the doctor´s surgery or local clinic for analysis, results usually take about a week or two depending on the lab. GL!
     
  5. Annie77

    Annie77 Cautiously expecting

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    I agree with getting him a sperm test and he should probably get tested for any STI's whilst he there, given that he hasn't used condoms with previous partners as obviously chlamydia etc can cause problems.

    One of my ex's had been unsuccessful conceiving with his wife and 2 girlfriends (i didn't try with him). He then met his now wife and they conceived two kids.
     

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