MIL is out of surgery and doing great! The tumor was about the size of a small watermelon, but blood loss was very minimal. It is cancer, but it was localized to the right ovary, which has now been removed. It hasn't spread at all which is obviously very good news! She'll need chemo but that won't start for about 4 weeks. Dr is very hopeful that she will recoop from this surgery faster then the last. Her last surgery was 8 1/2 weeks ago and she never went home. He's expecting her to go to rehab in a week and then home about 1 to 2 weeks after that.
FIL is still in Memphis. He went back there to "pack things up" but honestly I think he is thinking that MIL will come back to Memphis when she is well. But MIL has said she will NOT return back to Memphis because she has nothing there for her. Her children are in Indy and Chicago now, so whats in Memphis for her besides material possessions? And now that she knows we are "going to be TTC soon" as we put it (since we don't want to added stress of "are you pregnant yet!" questions) she really wants to be near her first grandchild.
But yea FIL made it very clear that he hates Indianapolis, even though he has no reason too. His excuses are week and lame. He said people are mean to him (Even though he had only visited south Indiana, which is four hours from here) He said people had funny last names and it would be hard for him to remember. He said it snows too much and that the summers are too mild. He said he likes the heat (even though he is not supposed to go out in high heat because of his blood pressure problems) He also said he doesn't really like being near DH anyway. Nice, way to make your son feel important!
Honestly I hope that he stays down there. I'm sick of his grumpy selfish arse! He's also gross, which I'm sure I've told you about how he can't hit the toilet seat and pee's all over the floor, the wall, the toilet, and BEHIND the toilet! How does one manage that!?
Anyway, she's back in her room now and we are probably going to leave soon to get some food and then come back and see her once she's more awake. She woke up and said "I Have NO idea what they did to me!" lol. And when we told her that her tumor is gone, she just said 'ohh, thats good!" lol.