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[pickle76]

Never xxxxxxxxx

 

[nevertogether]

i'm really excited now though at least to get an appointment and get things figured out at home. plus i got promoted. i don't have much in my life to be sad about right now, i love it. i have an amazing hubby, great job, and my kid dog! we want a so bad..but at least now DH will DEFINITELY be home for a 's birth. looking at the upside

 

[pickle76]

Oh Never, that's a great attitude and way of thinking xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[nevertogether]

plus i have YOU to stalk now and make sure pickle bean is OK and hopefully foxy if she ever comes back, man. miss you foxy!!!

 

[pickle76]

Awww Pickle bean! I love that!

And yeah - we miss Foxy! FOOOOOOXXXXXYYY!

 

[Cornbread]

Good job Never on getting promoted!

How's everyone doing? I wasn't on yesterday b/c I had my job interview and got no sleep the night before b/c of paperwork and Corn Muffin waking up so I crashed yesterday as soon as we got home. The interview went great, as long as I pass the drug test and background stuff I'll be getting hired!

I'm frustrated b/c 2 days in a row I missed getting temps. Ergh.

 

[pickle76]

Ooh yeah meant to say congrats Never!

And really pleased it went well for you Cornbread!

 

[foxyloxy28]

 

[pickle76]

Hey Foxy! How are you? It's been very quiet here without you! Hope you had a good break xx

 

[foxyloxy28]

Hi pickle

I had a nice break thanks. Sorry, I've been taking a break from bnb and temping this cycle. Going back to complete basics in preparation for our appointments next month.

I'm totally fed up with TTC at the moment, so keeping my negativity as far away from here as possible

How are you doing?

 

[pickle76]

Ah Foxy...don't blame you for having a break from the whole temping thing. Do so hope the appt comes around quickly - or seems to if you know what I mean.

Please don't stay away if you're feeling negative. I don't mind hearing you have a rant and I'm sure that goes for most people. We're all here for each other...

I'm not too bad thanks. Had awful cramps last night to the point where I thought it was all over. But passed in 10 mins and no bleeding so am hoping all's ok. Have been waiting for a call from hospital all morning but nothing and now leaving for work. And I've lost 6 lbs in 2 weeks so want to speak to someone about that too....So all in all doing ok but bit anxious.....

Hugs to you Foxy xx

 

[pickle76]

ps. I'm quite proud of myself - I didn't temp this morning! First time without it and I survived lol. Perhaps I can quit cold turkey after all hehe

 

[dandybrush]

never maybe the BFN was for the best this time round then it will happen at the right time for you i reckon

:wave: foxy

:wave: pickle

well i wont be on much this weekend got my MIL's 50th party tonight and sleeping at my parents house after that so have a great weekend everyone

 

[dandybrush]

oh cornbread forgot to say congrats on the good interview hope you pass the rest also

 

[pickle76]

Hey dandy! Have a great weekend! xx

 

[nevertogether]

that's the way i'm trying to look at it too dandy.

cornbread - also forgot to say good job on the interview! those jobs pay pretty well!

morning pickle

 

[moochacha]

Well girls I've been finding it hard to say this for the last few days but I had a incomplete spontaneous miscarriage. It's been really hard on me but everyone is supportive. I feel like a failure especially on here that's why its taken me a few days to tell everyone on baby and bump because I know that for some my pregnancy gave them hope and I really hate for them to stop believing that it will happen for them or for me.

I go in for a D&C tomorrow and wont know much of the details till about a week after the D&C they need run a million and one tests. Even though this has happened to us I've had a few days to turn it over in my mind even though the last few days have been really hard for me I can see the positive side. I have seen the best FS/GYN in Melbourne and he is running karyo testing on DH and I. We seen him again in another three weeks, I'm also seeing the specialist team at the hospital and hopefully they can refer me to Marci hospital in a few months because they have the best recurring miscarriage team in the whole state (YAY) my insurance covers me for everything fertility wise and will cover me to see the team at Marci as well.

I'm just announcing on here because this is the thread I'm most active in so I hope this doesn't upset anyone or panic anyone. Chances are my eggs were faulty from the Clomid and because my ovaries were overstimulated (that's why I hemorrhaged).

I wont be temping for a while, there no use my cycle is so messed up right now anyway I wouldn't have a clue what CD I'm on and I wont be TTC for a couple of months until given the all clear from the FS. Though he said we can start trying straight away because he believes our MC's are just circumstances and he explain that a few years in womens lives they produce "Bad Eggs" and he really believes he wont find anything wrong with us during the testing. He will address my thicker blood and bloodclotting once he gets all the tests back.

Sorry for the long post and I'm going to thank you for your support and understanding in advance.

 

[moochacha]

Sorry for the typo's I just wanted to get that post out of the way...

Oh and to add I think some people really don't know what to say. I think its nervous or something because I've had some really crappy comments the last couple of days from my friends.

1. "At least you know you can get pregnant" from a pcos friend who doesn't haven a partner and is in her 30's. Her doctor told her she won't ovulated on her own. Well news flash to her hasn't she heard of a stimulated cycle??? Yes I can "Get Pregnant" and easily it seems but I can't fricken understand how I can even start to fix what I'm going through! Unless we go down the surrogate mother option. How is that a good thing to say to someone? I'm sick of her always saying that to me just because she doesn't ovulate.

2. "Stop thinking about having a baby so much and it might happen" - Ok if I did that then why the hell do we need a medical system. There you go patients fuck treatment just will it to get better and it will. I believe is positive thinking but I also believe in realism and we need to actively take control of our medical conditions. lol

Ok rant over hehe

 

[pickle76]

Moo - I'm so so sorry to hear your news. I really feel for you and can't possible imagine what you've been through and how you feel. I know there are no words I can say to help (and I agree - people say the WORST things don't they?) but please know that I'm thinking of and praying for you. I'm glad you've now got such a good team who I hope can help you. You're so very brave and you deserve things to work out. Sending you huge hugs. xxxxxxxxxx

 

[foxyloxy28]

moochacha I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I hope the medical teams can help you on tour way to a sticky bean. Take some time to heal both physically and mentally - I know you are strong woman and have a wonderful attitude during such difficult times.

Thinking of you x