New year.........new bfp's please "2011"

[IMPPEARL]

I'm worried missing the 1st hurt our chances... OPK was negative but I still could have O'd that day... Oh well guess I just have to keep praying!! lol

 

[grandbleu]

We missed O day but I can't worry about it now...

TTC is hard work...I'm sure you did your best...time to relax (yeah right!)

FXed for you Imppearl

 

[NewToAllThis]

I'm out. AF has landed

 

[grandbleu]

New - saw this on another thread...the 1st AF day is always the worst

 

[IMPPEARL]

Sorry New... That sucks! Really hope this next cycly is it for you!

 

[LuvMySoldier]

Hey ladies looks like i'm back here joining you again. Started bleeding 4+6 same as last pregnancy.

The er said they have never seen a positive as low as mine before and said that they were as confused by everything i've been through as hubby and i are. They told me to make an OB appt to see if they will do tests to find out if its raised or lowered but OB wont see me because according to them my level isn't high enough to be considered a positive... and since i didn't have a positive test done by them before i started bleeding they consider me never to have been pregnant this time and can't help me until i have 3 miscarriages in a row. I hate military healthcare for this reason. Nice that its free but its horrible care because the military wants everything cheaply done.
I just feel extremely hopeless and depressed. I made an appt with my regular dr and am going to beg for a referral to a specialist and if she won't give me one i'm going to call my insurance directly and see if they will allow me to go to a specialist. I am convinced that i have a progesterone problem... which i know is an easy fix its just trying to find a dr that will see me and test me for it. Until then idk what we are going to do.

 

[grandbleu]

So sorry Luv and so unfair...anyone who has more than one miscarriage should get automatic testing done by military or by insurance. I'm so sorry to hear this...big hugs for you and your OH. I really hope you can get some answers soon.

PS. I was 12 weeks pregnant when I went to the ER and they didn't consider me pregnant either!!! I was so mad...just because I hadn't been to an OBGYN or someone "official". Luckily I had my bloods done there and my HCG was still really high so yeah I was pregnant...and so were you hon...I think it's awful that they don't trust us women just because it's an HPT.

 

[want2bamum86]

i really feel fo u guys well im comig up to the time i tend t lose my babys and rally scared

 

[kanga]

so sorry Luv, hope you get some answers xx

New, I'm sorry hunm, the witch is evil how dare she show her face. Onward, keep positive! xxxxxxx

Pearl you never know. I missed ov too the cycle we concieved, gl babe xxxxxxxxxx

 

[IMPPEARL]

Thanks Kanga, that does give me a little hope actually! I'm around 5-6dpo now so not much longer to go... we shall see....

 

[neffie]

So so sorry Luvmysoldier. Doctors can be so awful and uncompassionate. No matter what anyone says, you WERE pregnant. A + is a +, not matter how light. I know it's easier said than done, but don't lose hope...it will happen in due time!

My thoughts are with you.

 

[Tigerlilies]

Luv, so sorry to here the difficult time you're having. The regular ob said the same thing to me, that I had a false positive even though I started bleeding a week after my period was due. I was lucky enough that I still was referred to a fertility Dr and he sided with me. Said the home tests now are so sensitive that false positives don't really happen anymore and that I did have a chemical pregnancy. I assume the ER did a beta, what were your levels that the ob is being such a dick about?

 

[NewToAllThis]

Hello Tiger

How are you? Hope you're well x

 

[Tigerlilies]

Hey NTAT! Hanging in there, I'm on the 2WW so time is just creeping along. If we didn't get Pg this month, I've decided to take a couple of months off, lose some weight that is much needed and catch up on finances from all these medical bills! Trying to keep positive about a game plan if it doesn't work out, ya know?

How are you doing?

 

[LiSa2010]

hello all,
sorry ive been MIA LOL

sorry for your loss Luv,

NTAT: sorry the b*tchy got you...

as for me, AF was due on Saturday, so Im officially 2 days late. I tested this morning and got a I will be testing again if AF doesn't show up in a few days... FXd!!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Hey NTAT! Hanging in there, I'm on the 2WW so time is just creeping along. If we didn't get Pg this month, I've decided to take a couple of months off, lose some weight that is much needed and catch up on finances from all these medical bills! Trying to keep positive about a game plan if it doesn't work out, ya know?

How are you doing?

I'm ok thanks Tiger, still plodding on with the TTC, hoping to get there eventually!
Glad you're keeping positive, its a struggle isn't it.

Wishing you all the best and hope you get your BFP soon x

hello all,
sorry ive been MIA LOL

sorry for your loss Luv,

NTAT: sorry the b*tchy got you...

as for me, AF was due on Saturday, so Im officially 2 days late. I tested this morning and got a I will be testing again if AF doesn't show up in a few days... FXd!!

Good luck Lisa, hope this is your BFP - keep us updated.

AFM - cd6 today, AF has left - after being quite nasty this month but on a positive side, its the first real bleeding I have had since the ERPC.
I started on the grapefruit juice yesterday, easier to stomach than the cough syrup which was gross!
Taken delivery of my Pregnacare Conceive Plus and fresh batch of sticks for the CBFM, so I'm ready.
The only thing that will hamper my chances this month is the fact that I will potentially be working away for a couple of days smack bang in the middle of my fertile time - going to have to 'stock up' on the :sperm: before I go

 

[IMPPEARL]

New. Oh no hopefully your o will happen before you go or wait till you get home!!

Afm af is due fri so I'll be testing around there if she doesn't show. I've been able to keep more relaxed about things this month. Fingers crossed.

 

[Morganceravol]

Hi all! New to this!

AF was due tueday still not here tested this morning and got a bfn . Will test again if it doesn't come! Sore breast heavy and tingly, cramps, tons of cm, felt like AF was coming rum to potty and only lots of cm! Very visible blue viens on chest and breasts! So hoping for a bfp!!!!

 

[Tigerlilies]

NTAT, yeah it is a struggle to stay positive. I hope this is your month!

Pearl, FX'd for you!

Morgan, reads very promising!!!!! Good luck!

 

[Morganceravol]

Yayyy! Thanks! I keep getting mild cramps at night and I'm like ugh AF is going to show up! Then only cm when I use the RR. I will retest Monday if no AF,my in laws are visiting this weekend so hoping not to get nausea this weekend!