New Year, New Start going to get a BFP in 2011- ( 10 BFP)

[katiekittykat]

Lol, why is it Daisys fault??

xx

She did a thread about taking her temp at night and if it had changed much.....

 

[NDH]

I think I'm already out for a Feb
sitting here bawling cause DH just copped out. I told him we had to BD tonight and tomorrow. Didn't tell him that it's cause I'm in my fertile window, cause it's "too much pressure" for him, just that I'm going away for 3 days tomorrow. Anyway he came to bed and snuggled ke and said "I choose tomorrow". So then I said it wasn't a choice it was both. And then he told me he's not a sperm factory and stop stressing about having a baby, it will happen blah blah blah. Same old arguement. He thinks the only reason I want sex is to make a baby. I don't know how to make him get it - obviously that's part of it or I wouldn't be here lol - but I enjoy sex just as sex too, or else it would only happen when I'm fertile, and I've told him that too. But I can't compartmentalise. I can't just forget that I want a baby so bad it hurts.
So no BD tonight, and I just know he'll cop out tomorrow too cause I have to leave by 7:50 and he's seldom out of bed the , even when he has to leave for work at 8...
So I'm going away tol Saturday, haven't BDd since Monday, and I'm Oing on Friday or Saturday....

Somehow for ke those s don't hurt so bad when I know we actually had a shot. It's like, we did what we could and it's no longer in our control, but knowing we didn't do enough just kills me. It's another wasted month...

Maybe I'll get lucky and he'll surprise me, but I won't hold my breath. Every other day is all I ask. Is that too much to ask?

 

[Clobo]

Its so hard isnt it, i really dont think they get it ... i gave my husband a bit of a lesson on it the other day so that he totally understood that if it didnt happen those certain days then that month was a write off.

You'd think these men would just enjoy the fact that their partners wanted lots of .

My husband has only just realised how serious it is when I told him i had to have a laparoscopy, i think that has really shocked him and he has even suggested a dirty weekend away in March!!

I guess you are having a tricky month NDH, what with going away and I know this is easier said than done but perhaps this month there are just more important things to do like spending time with your family.

Otherwise have you tried dressing up, I bought a naughty burse outfit and that always perks my husband up when hes not so much in the mood!!!!!!!


xxxx

 

[NDH]

Not usually but tonight I did and nothing .

I forgot to mention the worst part. After an arguement ensued, he says "I came in here to give you sex, but you had to go and start an arguement.". Excuse me?? He's the one who said "I choose tomorrow" before I said even one word, or made a move or anything. On the plus side, he agreed again to see a do for to find out if we have fertility problems (but I think what it is is BD problems plain and simple)

it probably is him - if his hormones are so low he doesn't want/cant't have sex more than twice a week what's it doing to his little swimmers?
I just had gotten a handle on my tears and I'm off again.

 

[Clobo]

That happened to us last week too, the last few days of the week he wasnt interested and we had a massive arguement about it and we wasted a few days.

I think no matter how upset we are we always need to take the higher ground, dont mention babies at all and see what he does, hopefully he will realise that all it takes is one near ovulation to make a and that is preferable to having to see a doctor!

Perhaps if you do see the doctor and he tells you thats what the problem is then your DH might listen?? Thats what it took for me and my husband.

Twice a week isnt bad as long as its at the right time so thats the bit he'll need to work on.

Keep your chin up and look forward to your lovely weekend away

 

[NDH]

I went a whole month without mentioning anything TTC related. Not sure I can go longer than that lol.

While he's still on board with the Dr. I'm going to go ahead and see about getting in to one. Don't have one here, so it'll be an interesting process. I hate doctors (no offense to those who are). Hadn't been to one in 5 years before I went for my heart troubles, and that was just a walk in cause I was scared.

 

[Clobo]

Hi

Yes you should deffo sort yourself out a doctor, you'll need one when you are pregnant anyway!!!!

Dont be scared, they are there to help no matter how blunt they are and each thing you do is another step towards your

Take care of yourself ... is it bedtime in Oz yet??

xxxx

 

[NDH]

Yeah bedtime. 11pm here, and the alarm is set for 6:15 so I better turn the light out.

It won't matter if I have my own doctor or not when I'm pregnant - I won't have a choice in the matter as to who I'll see for visits or anything. Unless I don't go the free route, which I'm still debating. But ya, I was emotionally scared by doctors as a child/young teenager. Called a liar to my face on multiple occasions as I kept twisting my ankles but the idiot doctors (4 of them!) couldn't figure out the problem so therefore it must not exist. Had my ankles wrenched by them in their endeavours to prove me a liar. And guess what? I went to a podiatrist when I was 16 and he figured out the problem in 30 seconds and I've been fine since.

Anyway yes, bedtime.

 

[Clobo]

Night night xxx

 

[katiekittykat]

NDH

I hope tomorrow does the trick....it only takes once!

 

[future_numan]

NDH Men can be funny when it comes to TTC. I think it hurts their ego a little bit when they step in to do their "job" and it doesn't "work" the first time.
My DH was hurt when we tried to TTC and it wasn't working..he worried there was something wrong with him..after many tests it was discovered I am the one who had the fertility issues.
Have you tried putting on something sexy and lightening the mood. If men feel pressured to it takes the funny out of it for them.
Good lucky, sweetie

 

[future_numan]

Is anyone here using any kind of extra things to TTC ?
I have been trying again for 4 months ( I have a few fertility issues and want to try on my own for a while before we turn to DR's for treatment..we used IUI to conceive Emily )
I have decided to try "soya" this cycle to see if it can give us a boost.

 

[Clobo]

Hi :wave:

You could try charting your temps that will help tell when you ovulate, and give you something to
Obsess over!

Also grapefruit juice to help with the ewcm then pineapple juice to help implantation,
Not sure how affective these are but can't hurt to try?

Lots of as well I guess!

Good luck

 

[pookied]

I am 3 DPO ..so i will be testing around the 29th/30th of this month hopefully i will get my BFP ..x


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Mia Angel Fertility spell cast -28/11/10

 

[NDH]

Hi :wave:

You could try charting your temps that will help tell when you ovulate, and give you something to
Obsess over!

Also grapefruit juice to help with the ewcm then pineapple juice to help implantation,
Not sure how affective these are but can't hurt to try?

Lots of as well I guess!

Good luck

I've read that pineapple juice should be strongly avoided when pregnant or trying to become pregnant. But there's also lots of conflicting advice about a number of things when TTC so who knows

 

[katiekittykat]

I read that pineapple juice is good after ovulation It's academic anyway, cos I don't like it!

 

[LaraJJ]

Hi all,

Well I got my smiley face on my OPK this afternoon

So plenty of bding has gone on, and will tomorrow and then............

Hello 2WW


We've used pre-seed and OPKs this cycle, prop my bum up on a pillow after bding for 20 mins and actually tried Reflexology for the first time. So we''ll see - I'll let you know in 2 weeks

 

[katiekittykat]

Hi all,

Well I got my smiley face on my OPK this afternoon

So plenty of bding has gone on, and will tomorrow and then............

Hello 2WW


We've used pre-seed and OPKs this cycle, prop my bum up on a pillow after bding for 20 mins and actually tried Reflexology for the first time. So we''ll see - I'll let you know in 2 weeks

Good luck with the 2WW! x

 

[wishful1]

Headed into 2WW . . .OK so I have to change my testing date to Feb 1-2nd, I ovulated later than normal this cycle approx. CD17, wondering if this has anything to do with my chemical pregnancy last cycle as I usually OV CD13-14.

Anyhow we didn't follow SMEP exactly as we started BD daily early due to my usual OV date, AND got a new puppy, so we were just too exhausted to continue BD daily . . . but based on my FF chart, I think we did OK with our timing.

I have an OB/GYN appt the 28th so might test a teeny bit early, but will try to wait until 12-14 DPO.

Fingers crossed, would love to go to my appt with a BFP
;-)

 

[katiekittykat]

Just popped in to say that I have been referred to a Fertility Specialist!