Newbie to TTC, looking for other newbie buddies! :) 33 ladies, 6 BFPs!!

Hello! May I please join in? I'm brand new to TTC, have moved over from WTT, and I'm in need of buddies! I'm 26, 27 in a few weeks, and I've been married for nearly four years. We are from New Zealand :)

This will be our first baby, I've been researching TTC and baby stuff forever it seems and I'm so excited to finally be 'here'!

Welcome!
 
Ok guys,
How are you calculating O without using OPKs or temping?
I was using the fertility friend app to tell me when my most fertile time is but I feel like I probably O later than that.

Ugh I wish I knew exactly when we should be doing it, I guess I should just buy an OPK but I'm not sure exactly how they work .
Advice?
 
I haven't been in your group but I was stalking so just thought I would say I definitely recommend using OPK's. I have never used temping before but now I will do that from now on as well. Questioning my O date is just something that I do not want to have to worry about anymore.

Good luck to everyone and lots of baby dust!!!!

:dust:
 
Ok guys,
How are you calculating O without using OPKs or temping?
I was using the fertility friend app to tell me when my most fertile time is but I feel like I probably O later than that.

Ugh I wish I knew exactly when we should be doing it, I guess I should just buy an OPK but I'm not sure exactly how they work .
Advice?

Hi Reba

I don't chart or temp or anything, I did buy some OPKs but as yet haven't used... My doctor just advised a lot of baby dancing! So in effect I'm not trying to pinpoint a certain window and then potentially getting it wrong. So that will be our approach for the next while, until it works or until I want more information about myself, haha x
 
Hello! May I please join in? I'm brand new to TTC, have moved over from WTT, and I'm in need of buddies! I'm 26, 27 in a few weeks, and I've been married for nearly four years. We are from New Zealand :)

This will be our first baby, I've been researching TTC and baby stuff forever it seems and I'm so excited to finally be 'here'!

Welcome! :wave: best of luck TTC! Great group of ladies here, I'm sure you'll feel right at home :)

Thank you! :flower:
 
Ok guys,
How are you calculating O without using OPKs or temping?
I was using the fertility friend app to tell me when my most fertile time is but I feel like I probably O later than that.

Ugh I wish I knew exactly when we should be doing it, I guess I should just buy an OPK but I'm not sure exactly how they work .
Advice?

Honestly, I think the only way to calculate O without temps or OPK would be cervical fluid/cervix position alone. Even though the apps are helpful, I'm not sure how accurate they are considering that they don't have any real info outside of your cycle length and maybe LP.

I would definitely suggest at least temping at the least. Doesn't cost too much to do (just the one time cost of the thermometer) and it will def give you some idea of when you are ovulating. (as you'll see a big temp jump) OPKs are great too but can cost more, depending on where you get them from. They work just like preg tests, you dip them in urine. And they detect your LH surge, which happens right BEFORE you release your egg.



AFM: FINALLY got some spotting today!! CD40. Apparently though, I guess you can't have a period without ovulation? So, this is probably estrogen breakthrough bleeding, which I guess is when your lining gets too thick waiting for an egg that it sheds because it can't maintain itself anymore.

Either way, its a fresh start of some sort!
 
Ok guys,
How are you calculating O without using OPKs or temping?
I was using the fertility friend app to tell me when my most fertile time is but I feel like I probably O later than that.

Ugh I wish I knew exactly when we should be doing it, I guess I should just buy an OPK but I'm not sure exactly how they work .
Advice?

Honestly, I think the only way to calculate O without temps or OPK would be cervical fluid/cervix position alone. Even though the apps are helpful, I'm not sure how accurate they are considering that they don't have any real info outside of your cycle length and maybe LP.



I would definitely suggest at least temping at the least. Doesn't cost too much to do (just the one time cost of the thermometer) and it will def give you some idea of when you are ovulating. (as you'll see a big temp jump) OPKs are great too but can cost more, depending on where you get them from. They work just like preg tests, you dip them in urine. And they detect your LH surge, which happens right BEFORE you release your egg.



AFM: FINALLY got some spotting today!! CD40. Apparently though, I guess you can't have a period without ovulation? So, this is probably estrogen breakthrough bleeding, which I guess is when your lining gets too thick waiting for an egg that it sheds because it can't maintain itself anymore.

Either way, its a fresh start of some sort!

Yay! At least it's something!
 
Had my first appointment today, and I measured a whole week behind (6w5d). Had a strong heart rate of 145 we got to hear and see!!

https://i1067.photobucket.com/albums/u424/slclough6/3779A8AF-E895-4F59-98E4-48BB19EC0860_zpsjgp5h7qm.jpg
 
Had my first appointment today, and I measured a whole week behind (6w5d). Had a strong heart rate of 145 we got to hear and see!!

https://i1067.photobucket.com/albums/u424/slclough6/3779A8AF-E895-4F59-98E4-48BB19EC0860_zpsjgp5h7qm.jpg


Awesome! Look at that little bean! :D
 
Awww congrats! Here's to a very happy and healthy baby! :thumbup:
 
So I'm entering my second TWW! I took maca this cycle which made me O early. I started using OPK's this month and got a surge yesterday and it seems to be fading today which (I think) means I'm ovulating today :happydance:! I could have possibly O'd overnight maybe since my temperature was up to 97.6. Post-O temps are usually at least 97.9 for me though. What do you all think? I think our timing is good this month and we will BD again today. Is anyone entering the TWW?

I am going to start testing way early this cycle because last cycle the waiting was SOO hard and I have wondfos now. Hopefully this is our month!!

Fingers crossed for everyone!!
 

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So I'm entering my second TWW! I took maca this cycle which made me O early. I started using OPK's this month and got a surge yesterday and it seems to be fading today which (I think) means I'm ovulating today :happydance:! I could have possibly O'd overnight maybe since my temperature was up to 97.6. Post-O temps are usually at least 97.9 for me though. What do you all think? I think our timing is good this month and we will BD again today. Is anyone entering the TWW?

I am going to start testing way early this cycle because last cycle the waiting was SOO hard and I have wondfos now. Hopefully this is our month!!

Fingers crossed for everyone!!
Yeah that 13 am one looks like it was your darkest positive and it also looks like you ovulated that day from your chart:thumbup: goodluck keeping my fx'd for ya. Im currently on day 4 of "high fertility" so I should be getting my "peak fertility" soon then I will be joining you in the tww(:
 
Alright ladies, I need your opinions...

I am going to go ahead and apologize for the TMI: I woke up this morning, did my normal routine and when I went to the bathroom I had some blood (red, pink, and brown) when I wiped. I used the bathroom again when I got to work and it was just brown and pink. This has tapered off throughout the morning. This is highly confusing to me because AF is due until next week. I am fairly certain my luteal phase is around 13/14 days based on past history. AF is never early for me. I do have some mild cramps but not like AF cramps. Extra information: I had 3 +OPKs on Dec. 29th, 30th, and 31st. Either AF is early or something else is going on.

I need your help!!!!
 
Well ladies! I'm 3 weeks and 1 day! My little baby was conceived on New Year's Eve! :) due sept 23rd! Hope my little one is sticky!
 
Well ladies! I'm 3 weeks and 1 day! My little baby was conceived on New Year's Eve! :) due sept 23rd! Hope my little one is sticky!

WOOWWWW! You must of just gotten your BFP, eh??

Congrats!!
 

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