No AF, No BFP?

[bozzy]

I know how you all feel - I'm now 4 or 5 days late and had 2 negative First response tests on Friday. If I'm not pregnant (which I don't think I am as no symptoms at all) then I just wish AF would hurry up! We've just bought a clearblue fertility monitor and I want to start using it!

Completely with you joyjumper! I've also just bought a CBFM and now want AF to show so I can crack on and start using it!

I'm now CD33 and AF was due CD29. Had a BFN on an FRER yesterday and again on a CB digi with FMU this morning. Keep nipping to the loo but still no sign of the witch...I hate the not knowing, having had such regular cycles in the past it's driving me mad!

 

[kezan98]

Step mummy, I've just done my first work out in 5 months cos I felt the same. I gave up working on my flat stomach in the hope that sometime soon it wouldn't be flat when we started ttc #2 5 months ago.

i think i might have a an anovulary cycle as my pre ov temps were higher than normal and i've had a number of dips to just above the cover line on what would be my luteal phase so at the moment i don't know whether to hope or just give and and wait for af.

 

[joyjumper]

I know how you all feel - I'm now 4 or 5 days late and had 2 negative First response tests on Friday. If I'm not pregnant (which I don't think I am as no symptoms at all) then I just wish AF would hurry up! We've just bought a clearblue fertility monitor and I want to start using it!

Completely with you joyjumper! I've also just bought a CBFM and now want AF to show so I can crack on and start using it!

I'm now CD33 and AF was due CD29. Had a BFN on an FRER yesterday and again on a CB digi with FMU this morning. Keep nipping to the loo but still no sign of the witch...I hate the not knowing, having had such regular cycles in the past it's driving me mad!

I'm on CD34 - it's very frustrating isn't it. I keep getting niggly cramps on and off for the past week or so now, as if AF's coming, but nothing. I feel extremely bloated too, but then I'm feeling very fat lately anyway so I could be imagining it!

 

[momtoboys1]

Hi Guys

I am so frustrated. I have always had short cycles, and now this one month we have decided to try in all my 34 years I am having a long cycle?
I'm starting to think it's a cruel joke by my body. i get BFN on every test and have tried a whole bunch of different ones.
I too just want af to show up now so we can try again.

thing is that I don't have any af symptoms, nor do I have any pg symptoms.

so fustrated....

 

[rustyswife828]

I am 6 days late for and I am testing this Friday! I hope I get my !

 

[kezan98]

Rustyswife - I can't believe you haven't tested already! I start testing from 9dpo - not that it helps!!

fx for your bfp

 

[maaybe2010]

rustyswife - 6 days?!
Have you not tested yet?

Eeee get to it!

 

[Step Mummy]

I Can;t believe you can wait that long either, I thought I could wait it out and made it to DPO10 this month, but only because I had suspicions, normally I would not have bothered but I have been seeing poss symptoms for the last 7 days.

But as the others, say the early testing doesn't necessarily help, the BFN's just knock you back down!

 

[Lynsay]

Hey,
I was about to create a new thread, but this one seems to fit perfectly

My last period was Feb 1st and still nothing!!! The thing is, Ive started having some random symptoms. Im really annoyed because like you said Maaybe2010 I'd rather have AF and know exactly where I stand, than nothing, and a big fat negative!!!

I tested this morning with a clearblue and BFN, so last cycle is deffo out, but with no period this cycle, does that mean i didnt ov? I usually ov around the 15th, is it possible that i might still have had a proper cycle?...I really want to ut my exhaustion, sore boobs, sleepless nights and hunger down to something, rather than another wasted month!

arghhhhhhh xx

 

[tryingfor#1]

im 22/23 DPo and I have only tested once. Going to test again on thursday.

 

[Step Mummy]

Hi Ladies, I am still here wondering too, I have had many stymptoms, I had a small temp drop this morning, but not as low as normal prior to AF, still have some CM although only really when wiping - normally as dry as a bone for two days before AF, my tiny bit of spotting seems to have stopped although that never really amounted to anything, just a tinge on the tissue. Having some aches but can't decide if they are normal ones or different!

Felt funny around the hips last night as my hips legs etc seemed to feel like I had poor blood supply in eve last night. I also had a slight back ache - like I had lifted something heavy over the last days, but I have not!

I am now on DPO14, I normally have 11-12DPO, but two days prior to AF a temp drop, some real spotting - but this time - nothing!

Think will do another HPT tonight - I am going mad - even my DH is starting to lose the plot with me!!!

Does any one have any progress!

 

[joyjumper]

Hello all - I'm still here too, still nothing.

I don't really believe I'm pregnant as had such a strong clear negative on two first response tests 2 days after my period was due, so I don't think there's any point spending more money on HPT's. I'm still having achey cramps in my tummy as if AF may be on her way, but have been having these for weeks! I just wish I knew what was going on.

 

[bozzy]

I'm also still here! Getting twingy pains in my abdo but not really AF cramps, I'm just thinking I had an anovulatory cycle. I don't really bother temping as I don't sleep well so don't trust it hence I don't really know for sure.

I've not tested again yet, I'll wait till Fri if still no show from AF and try again then. The most annoying thing is I'm not sure when to start using my new CBFM so I can crack on with my next cycle!!!

 

[joyjumper]

I did have a 36/37 day cycle in November for some reason, so I'm wondering if it's just one of those annoying longer months for no particular reason, but usually I'm between 28-31 day cycle. I too want to start using my CBFM if I'm not pregnant!

This morning I'm getting the feeling of a tender tummy like, (sorry TMI), my bladder's full, but even after I've been to the loo. My tummy feels absolutely huge and bloated too. No idea what this is all about. I do get bloated, but not usually for so many days.

 

[Step Mummy]

ohhh, I have had that feeling too, it feels like it does when you are sooo desperate for the loo, like when I went on holiday in Jan and on the flight just as I was getting up for a wee they put the seatbelt sign on for 1.45 hours, I was dying sooo much for a wee I nearly knocked everyone out of the way on my rush when the sign went off! Anyway thats how I feel now and have since yesterday morning, and it does not change when I go for a wee. Also it feels like I am bruised inside my tummy if that makes sense! Is that what yours is like?

 

[xnmd1]

Well AF is now 3 days late for me. havn't tested for 4 days as there are no tests in the house. OH is hesitant in taking me to the store to buy another as the last was neg but soon we are going to have to test again ... temp is still up, cp is high and soft..dull af like cramps have been happening on and off for 2 weeks! bbs have been killing for last 12 or 13 days, dizziness and light headedness has been occuring on and off.

im going mad running to the toilet every 30 mins to check for af. every time i has a cramp i rush to see.
and people say the 2ww is bad! what is this!

 

[Step Mummy]

This is called a Roller Coaster Nighmare that you just cannot seem to get off.

It seems we have similar things, I cannot stop going to the loo to check too. I had more aches and pains over a week ago, less now, but similar to you. Not so much the dizziness and I have not had any real sicky feelings until just now I made a cup of tea and now feeling a bit yukky and can't bear to finnish it. I haven't had tea for weeks but I was cold so thought I would have one to warm up - oh well don't think I'll try that again! Stick with the coffee thats ok!

I am now DPO 14, normal DPO is 11-12, so in theory 2 days late! But I started symptom checking when my OV didn't arrive at the normal time, that was also late, but then it does fluctuate I have had a 31 day cycle before but still with 12dpo. Then with all the aches over a week ago, I seem to have been watching forever, whereas I am normally ok until the week before AF.

I hope you get some sign of something soon, I'd get to the shop and get another HPT - I'll be doing another one tonight otherwise I am going to go crazy, the only problem is BFN's aren't really putting me off getting excited - they are just confusing me more!!

 

[momtoboys1]

I'm joining in too, can't get a BFP to save my life and AF doesn't want to come anytime soon either. I'm past the 2ww and have moved into limbo.
I just want to move on to next month so we can try again, but I am upset with my body as my cycles have been 22-23 days long since my son was born five years ago.
Why would my cycle change now!! it's not fair!

 

[joyjumper]

ohhh, I have had that feeling too, it feels like it does when you are sooo desperate for the loo, like when I went on holiday in Jan and on the flight just as I was getting up for a wee they put the seatbelt sign on for 1.45 hours, I was dying sooo much for a wee I nearly knocked everyone out of the way on my rush when the sign went off! Anyway thats how I feel now and have since yesterday morning, and it does not change when I go for a wee. Also it feels like I am bruised inside my tummy if that makes sense! Is that what yours is like?

Yes, the bruised feeling is a good way to describe it!

I did two First response tests at about 6pm on Friday - you can do them at any time can't you? It said it didn't have to be morning. Am wondering if I should get another and POAS in the morning. I just think it's going to be a waste of money though as am 90% sure I'm not pregnant.

 

[Step Mummy]

Well you could try again with morning, or 4 hours "stored up" wee, I think you are better off using wee when you have not recently been for a wee because the HCG can be weakend down through frequent peeing! So you are better with morning ones or stored up ones - thats if you can make it 4 hours without bursting! Also its four full days since Friday night, that is a good time in between for it to change - otherwise, if you ovulated 14 or so days ago what else can it be?????