...No, relaxing will not get me pregnant...lucky CBFM girls!

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Yikes. I read about that in your journal. I'm a text away if you need me :hugs:
 
TryinFor1 said:
My best friend is coming over tomorrow to take a pregnancy test..

I am not sure how to explain what I feel... :(
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Maybe you could ask her if she could take the pregnancy test without you. Tell her that you are not trying to offend her and you care about her, but TTC is a very emotional thing to go through and it's hard for someone who isn't trying and is trying to prevent it to understand exactly how you are feeling.

Tell her that pregnancy tests upset you and you would rather not be anywhere near them right now. Tell her that the moment she goes to pee on it that you may have a break down, even if you don't.

I'm not sure exactly what you feel, but I think you should tell her exactly what you tell us, well unless of course it starts a huge fight.

On the other hand, maybe if you see a negative test it will make you feel better. It's must be hard to think that she could possible want something that you want so desperately that she doesn't want.

I'm not sure what kind of advice to give you. I'm a very blunt person and have ruined friendships for saying what's on my mind, so maybe taking my advice wouldn't be a good thing LOL.
 
No your fine. Sometimes I feel like my giant long posts are invisible but I would be the same if I was at home. I like the thread active :)
 
But I feel like I need to be here for her. It just sucks.

She has precancerous cell on her cervix and her boyfriend smokes a ton of weed and cigarettes. He doesnt pull out once and now she is a week late. So not fair.

I cant push her away just because she got pregnant and I didnt. That wouldnt be fair of me. I just really hope she isnt pregnant.
 
I'm so mad, I didn't wake up for my alarm this morning so I didn't temp!! :grr: I had the worst dream that my DH quit his job and didn't tell me and was partying like a college student videotaping girls at parties and spent like thousands of dollars on alcohol. Then we came home after chewing him out and Nala (yes my dead dog) had torn up all my couch cusions. Then ended up in a hospital looking for someone with my girlfriends from high school. I twas sooo weird. Waiting on my monitor as we speak. I hope everyone is doing well. Can I just say how excited I am for Thanksgiving to decorate for Christmas? Did I already say that? Haha. I got another high on my monitor and my CP last night was HSO. I should've bd'ed this morning but I really did not sleep well last night. Oh well, tonight it is.
 
If you feel like you need to be there for her, you need to be. Try to be strong. I know it's hard but when I had precancerous cells on my cervix it was the scariest thing in the whole world. I've never been that scared in my life. And if she is pregnant she won't be able to get them removed. My doctor was very adamant about me not getting pregnant before they came out and after they took the cells out. If she's pregnant it will give the chance for the cells to grow longer, so just pray that she isn't pregnant for that reason.
 
Tryinfor1, I'm sorry. I didn't mean that you shouldn't be there for her. I just meant that maybe being there while she's peeing on a stick might not the best thing for you if you are stressing out about TTC. I just think she needs to be there for you as much as you need to be there for her. Let us know how it goes.

Gdane, that's a messed up dream. I had a really weird dream about my husband too last night. It was very vivid which is weird because I never dream and when I do they aren't vivid.

That sucks that you missed a temp. I hate when I do that. At least your monitor hasn't peaked yet so you still have time. Don't worry about missing bd'ing this morning, but try to tonight if you can. Your chart is looking good BD wise. It looks like you guys have done a lot compared to last month. I honestly think it's going to happen for you REAL soon. I don't know why I keep thinking this about you.

I hope you have a great Thanksgiving. We had our Thanksgiving in October. I don't know why countries are different. I can't wait to decorate for Christmas. I love Christmas!!! The only thing missing are kids. I can't wait for the moment where I can see my kids run downstairs to see a Christmas tree full of presents. We're putting up our tree on December 1st. I think I might get a gingerbread house real soon. We are going to take our dog to Pet Smart this year to get his picture taken with Santa. We did last year when he was a little puppy and it was so cute.

Keekee, sorry about the bfn. I hope it was a false one and AF doesn't show.

lekker, I hope everything is well.

Where on earth is everyone? I miss everyone who doesn't come around much. They better come back soon to tell us they got their bfp's.

My temp still hasn't spiked and I'm getting a little concerned now. Should I believe the doctors or fertility friend? My temp went up a bit today, but it's still in my pre O temp range.
If I was trying and I didn't have doctors telling me that I ovulated, we would be BD'ing like rabbits right now. How confusing. The good news is that I will be having follicle monitoring with ultrasounds and blood work from now until the time I get pregnant so I will have more of a precise time to BD. It's just weird that my monitor peaked the same day the clinic called and told me I had an LH surge of 27 (surging ranges are 21-56). Every other month my temperature rised 2 days after my first peak so IDK maybe I do have a luteal phase defect.
 
UGH I am so freaking pissed. SO you guys know that DH is ntnp and I am more actively trying. I try to keep him in the dark about ovulation tests and stuff like that because I dont want any pressure on him and I dont want him to be like "stop doing these things! IT will happen!"

So of course, I get everything thrown away and the fucking neighborhood cats decided to dig through our trash (for the millionth time) and ripped all that stuff out. DH had to go clean it up and of course came back and asked me about it. Now he is like "well......I thought we were not really trying, just not preventing." and is now kinda upset with me. I didnt mean to make him feel sad! I just didnt want him to not be ok with me timing our sessions and stuff.

Anyway, I have called animal control on these fucking cats 4 times and they still havent come out and taken them away. Guess it is time to take measures into our own hands. :shrug: Enough is enough.
 
HELLO LADIES! Sorry I've been away the past 2 days, been working my ass off. Went to the dr today and he's amazing!!!!! He went ahead and wrote me a referral to see the new fertility specialist but he said it might take some convincing because one the surgery has been done generally another doctor doesn't want to touch you. So I'm going to email the new fertility specialist and plead my case and HOPE that it works as my xray tech went to him and she said he's the best! I'm so excited! He also respected my request not to be put on any pain pills for my back and he has written me a prescription to attend physical therapy and have this machine hooked up to me. IF the machine works like it should he's going to prescribe me one but he has to check first since it's $800 bucks! And my insurance covers it. <3 I'm so happy about that. He also made me have a blood test done to see if I was pregnant and of course I'm not but he wanted to be sure and he flipped over the picture of my "half positive". I think he's like 10 seconds away from joining this board hahahahaha he's that concerned and he really cares about his patients! I LOVE HIM!!!! :)
 
I'll post more later, as I'm at school with the kiddos, but I'll just say this week has been rough for me...

Keekee...sorry about the BFN. Those get harder and harder for me to cope with as the months fly by.

SLH, you're sure learning a lot, and it's WONDERFUL!!!! I'm so thankful you can shed some light on our situation, and therefore share that info with the rest of us. I can tell you that it really does help me. I'm about to throw in the towel, and give the fertility specialist a call, even though our 6 months are not quite up. I can't stand being in limbo, and at my age, they need to jump on the wagon, and get this pregnancy gig rolling along.

Tryinfor1, I do agree you should be there, and try to approach the situation as selflessly as possible, as tough as that will be. Tell her that all of the potential pregnancy talk is rather painful for you, because you want a baby so much. Tell her that if she is indeed pregnant, you will be sad, because you wish that were you...she needs you to be honest with her. Help her take her test, and be there for her. It's hard, but that's what I'd want my best friend to do for me in the same position.

AFM, well. I can really only get pregnant if DH can't perform in the bedroom. And as of the other night, it wasn't happening. That is the short version...there will be more later.
 
Slh: I would believe the doctor over temps. Especially if theyre visually inspecting you. I love your feelings about me. Hopefully I can prove you right one of these days

Tryin: I'm thinking about you girl!

Keekee dont give up some girls dont get bfp until after af is late!

Lekker: yay for awesome doctors! Good luck!

I miss everyone too! I messaged lull maybe she will make an appearance soon.

I told dh to talk nice to his spermies and be good with them and coach then today because were making a baby tonight!. He agreed! Haha I love that man!
 
Hi Everyone:hugs:

Soo sorry for my abscence! i have been suffering severe depression and had the flu:cry: just put myself under too much pressure with ttc! i have popped in a few times to make sure everyone ok but need to catch up so i will do that after tea and will chat more! thankyou for missing me:hugs: very touched, and i have missed you all too:hugs:
 
Her test was a :bfn:


HOLLA!!!! She was really happy. And as mean as it sounds, I was too. :blush:
 
I just woke up from a nap that lasted way longer than I wanted it to. But I woke up having a panic attack...great these are starting again...I had a dream that my sister in law posted on facebook that she was pregnant. Pictures and everything and I started losing it. I woke up checked facebook to be sure and there was nothing on there so I texted her and she hasn't texted me back. I just have a sinking feeling that she is and that when we go home for Christmas it's going to be as usual the DONNA show! >.< Now it's time to run off to wal mart to get some stuff to make a casserole for tomorrow IF they are still open.
 
Wookie: we're always here if you need to talk. :hugs: sorry your having a hard time.

Lull: sorry your going through this. Like I told wookie we are always here for you guys. We understand how you feel :hugs:

tryin: thats AWESOME! :yipee:

Lekker: sorry to you also. Wish I could help everyone and make you feel better z :hugs:

Afm: I got some ewcm its super wet. I'm helping with the twins so in a little bit were going home to bd!
 
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