Apple Blossom
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Hi ladies I havent read anything you have all put yet just wanted to copy and paste this first.
Well here does, I dont think this will be very long ath Im emotional and phyiscally drained of life and blood LOL and it wasnt by a certain Cullen
Going to the clinic was hectic their was a 7 car pile up which OH managed with his experince in the roads and driving to avoid, DS is not very well so we had to drop him of at the MIL. But we was both not too nervous to be fair so that was good. Then when we got their we had our weight and height and photo taken for identfication, then we had to go and do the SA and OH really wanted me to be thier even if it wasnt to help ( I offered) he just wanted the support, we had what is refered to as the honeymoon suit which is just a bigger room than the others, it was may I say very private and in a different building so we was so at ease it was unreal and very important for OH, he did the business himself as I have a very tender hand and am very careful and slow ( sorry far too much info) so it was done in mins if that .
We then had our consultation which went very well up until the doctor informed us that one of the blood tests i have to have will take 4 weeks to come back OH was not happy at all, but the doctor did say that it could be back in 2 weeks and that without we just cant start yet thats this month out for starting so Im aiming at Jan now, and all being well that they match me looks wise to the reciepent of my eggs. Yep they have to make sure that she will be comfortable that her child will look like her which I must admit I love as not many places make this a requirement and it must be lovely for her ( bless her) to look like the child. We had alot of paparwork to go through and signing away to do then.
Then I had an internal scan done and he said my womb is lovely and the lining is 100% , he counted how many follicles I had at the moment and I had 21 so he was over the moon about that and that was without any drugs, but he will be careful not to over stimulate them because of this. So everything down below was given a big . Im really quite sore though as he told me to empty my bladder and I miss heard and thought he said dont empty it so half way though the scan I had to go to the toilet but we got my urine sample then as well but it is quite sore.
Then we had 5 mins to stuff some sandwichs down and then went on to the counselling to discuss giving away my eggs so there was lots of , well actually I did quite well for me but it was emotional and talking about the future children was hard but im glad that I got to talk it through, the counsellor said I was very heartwarming and said that I had a very kind heart and alot of effection for the lady Im going to give my eggs too. I mentioned you guys on here as my support network and how much you all mean to me and she said that you are all very lovely, kind and caring ladies and to stick with you though out this and I will go far made me cry, she was especially amazed at you Gdane and all you have done and been for me, so a big thank you . Im off again just cant stop the water works today, so many apologies for spelling errors but im typeing blurry eyed.
Then I had a mountain amount of bloods taken and my OH said the colour just drained out of me and he had some bloods done too but not much. And that was the lot then, and I was ok until we picked up DS and then I got in the car and just cried and havent really stopped, I think its because now Im thinking this is really happening and maybe the build up off the day and then its over IDK.
So their we have it we should be good to go in Jan, but I will call in 2 weeks to find out dates and if they dont have any then then I call back after another week and they should know more. Im now sat with a well earned glass of wine and it will probaly go straight to my head .
Well here does, I dont think this will be very long ath Im emotional and phyiscally drained of life and blood LOL and it wasnt by a certain Cullen
Going to the clinic was hectic their was a 7 car pile up which OH managed with his experince in the roads and driving to avoid, DS is not very well so we had to drop him of at the MIL. But we was both not too nervous to be fair so that was good. Then when we got their we had our weight and height and photo taken for identfication, then we had to go and do the SA and OH really wanted me to be thier even if it wasnt to help ( I offered) he just wanted the support, we had what is refered to as the honeymoon suit which is just a bigger room than the others, it was may I say very private and in a different building so we was so at ease it was unreal and very important for OH, he did the business himself as I have a very tender hand and am very careful and slow ( sorry far too much info) so it was done in mins if that .
We then had our consultation which went very well up until the doctor informed us that one of the blood tests i have to have will take 4 weeks to come back OH was not happy at all, but the doctor did say that it could be back in 2 weeks and that without we just cant start yet thats this month out for starting so Im aiming at Jan now, and all being well that they match me looks wise to the reciepent of my eggs. Yep they have to make sure that she will be comfortable that her child will look like her which I must admit I love as not many places make this a requirement and it must be lovely for her ( bless her) to look like the child. We had alot of paparwork to go through and signing away to do then.
Then I had an internal scan done and he said my womb is lovely and the lining is 100% , he counted how many follicles I had at the moment and I had 21 so he was over the moon about that and that was without any drugs, but he will be careful not to over stimulate them because of this. So everything down below was given a big . Im really quite sore though as he told me to empty my bladder and I miss heard and thought he said dont empty it so half way though the scan I had to go to the toilet but we got my urine sample then as well but it is quite sore.
Then we had 5 mins to stuff some sandwichs down and then went on to the counselling to discuss giving away my eggs so there was lots of , well actually I did quite well for me but it was emotional and talking about the future children was hard but im glad that I got to talk it through, the counsellor said I was very heartwarming and said that I had a very kind heart and alot of effection for the lady Im going to give my eggs too. I mentioned you guys on here as my support network and how much you all mean to me and she said that you are all very lovely, kind and caring ladies and to stick with you though out this and I will go far made me cry, she was especially amazed at you Gdane and all you have done and been for me, so a big thank you . Im off again just cant stop the water works today, so many apologies for spelling errors but im typeing blurry eyed.
Then I had a mountain amount of bloods taken and my OH said the colour just drained out of me and he had some bloods done too but not much. And that was the lot then, and I was ok until we picked up DS and then I got in the car and just cried and havent really stopped, I think its because now Im thinking this is really happening and maybe the build up off the day and then its over IDK.
So their we have it we should be good to go in Jan, but I will call in 2 weeks to find out dates and if they dont have any then then I call back after another week and they should know more. Im now sat with a well earned glass of wine and it will probaly go straight to my head .
for you
. At least now you have an answer and can get help.
. I'm very worried, but my doctor didn't say anything about it. He only said that all of my tests came back normal. Hopefully, I was reading wrong. I would love to see you get pregnant naturally before IVF. 
on the same day you got a smiley. Since sperm can live for up to five days, you still have a great chance. When does your DH get home? If it's soon, I would jump him just in case the egg is still alive. You never know. 
to everyone else. 
lets hope it works!
