not excited?

[Tezzy]

*sigh*

im sat reading through all the posts from 1st time mums who are all excited and nervous and im feeling..well..meh!

when i was pregnant with rhys i had so many questions and was counting down the exact days but this time..again i say meh!

im kind bored

i dont have any pregnancy symptoms any more and i just feel like im going on with day to day life as normal, which i know should be a good thing, but i just feel kinda emotion-less (if thats even a word)

has any other second time mums ever felt this way?

 

[Jenny]

I'm sure your not emotion less when it comes to the baby. But I understand what you mean about going on day to day. Nothings new for us, we've been through it all before so its not all that exciting anymore other than adding the new addition to the family or when you feel the baby move. Frankly, I'm terrified on how I'm going to handle 2 lol, my son is going through a tough stage with all his whining and tantrums and some days I think I'm nuts. Sometimes I forget that I'm pregnant especially when I'm running after Drake or when I'm doing things around the house. The first time around was definitely more exciting by far.

 

[Tilly]

Id imagine it's just because you're a veteran now it's so scary with your first, but I will get to you when im pregnant with my 2nd..

 

[Wobbles]

Wait til ya start waddling lol Be more real then Its good in a way that your more relaxed I think you'll get excited soon maybe buy some lil bits to help it sink in? x

 

[Tezzy]

Wait til ya start waddling lol Be more real then Its good in a way that your more relaxed I think you'll get excited soon maybe buy some lil bits to help it sink in? x

but we dont need anything, we alreay have everything from when rhys was born!

i think i may buy something little...

 

[Wobbles]

But you have to buy lil things hunny .... new baby new bits? Even things like a blanket or 2, new snowsuit, new soft toy, new pram toy, couple of new dummies < lil things

Going into 3rd tri you'll have a nice moses basket to look at too and know bubs will be in that

New year shopping in Chester if you like?

 

[Layla]

im the same Terrie, not excited atall, everyone else is jumping around me saying for me to hurry up but im just like...meh

I had everything from Coby still so i havent had to buy anything either, apart from the double pram.

I am a bit worried in case i dont bond with him when he is born coz i dont seem to have any emotions towards him or the pregnancy atall right now

x

 

[Tezzy]

new year shopping in chester sounds like a good idea!

 

[Tezzy]

im the same Terrie, not excited atall, everyone else is jumping around me saying for me to hurry up but im just like...meh

I had everything from Coby still so i havent had to buy anything either, apart from the double pram.

I am a bit worried in case i dont bond with him when he is born coz i dont seem to have any emotions towards him or the pregnancy atall right now

x

im glad im not on my own with this Layla..meh is definetly the word.. hopefully it will change at some point

 

[Wobbles]

Layla maybe its because of you worrying when he will arrive because of the kiddies at Christmas? Hope it passes and lil man arrives nicely soon x

Its a date Terrie

 

[Layla]

i think it might be the lack of buying things... i seroius havent had to buy a thing, i have all Cobys old snow suits, blankets, clothes, toys, most of them are new coz i got so many that Coby didnt wear or play with them all, plus family have been buying new bits for me too.
not buying dummys coz i dont want them this time round, so the only things i have brought is teh pram and a sterolizer.

Maybe go buy some bits after xmas like wobbles said, it might make you feel diffrent

x

 

[Tezzy]

will hold you to it

 

[Tezzy]

i think it might be the lack of buying things... i seroius havent had to buy a thing, i have all Cobys old snow suits, blankets, clothes, toys, most of them are new coz i got so many that Coby didnt wear or play with them all, plus family have been buying new bits for me too.
not buying dummys coz i dont want them this time round, so the only things i have brought is teh pram and a sterolizer.

Maybe go buy some bits after xmas like wobbles said, it might make you feel diffrent

x

we are exactly the same we have everything.. if this one is a boy too then we def dont have to buy anything!

i hope everything works out for you x

 

[Layla]

Thanks

Sounds horrible but i think if i was having a girl things would have felt so diffrent, i would of had to buy things and that would of got me excited.

Are you going to find out the sex?

x

 

[Tezzy]

i feel like i want to because, as you said, if its a girl i could go buy stuff and get excited, but on the other hand if we find out and its a boy im just gonna feel..meh!

such a horrible thing to say

 

[Layla]

i can totaly understand so dont worry

x

 

[Tezzy]

thanks layla.. youve made me feel normal again x

 

[xCherylx]

I feel the same and I keep saying 'IT'S NOT A BOY', even though I have this feeling it is. But my mum says aslong as it's healthy it doesn't matter! But it does to me... I just know I would love it SO much more if it's a girl. I will probably change if it IS a boy, and when it's born and I first hold it. But it's just I would really love a little girl...x

 

[Tezzy]

I feel the same and I keep saying 'IT'S NOT A BOY', even though I have this feeling it is. But my mum says aslong as it's healthy it doesn't matter! But it does to me... I just know I would love it SO much more if it's a girl. I will probably change if it IS a boy, and when it's born and I first hold it. But it's just I would really love a little girl...x

i would never say id love my baby more if it was a boy/girl!!! all im saying is that i dont have 'first baby' excitement this time and id like to have a girl so buy new things again.

 

[ablaze]

i would never say id love my baby more if it was a boy/girl!!! all im saying is that i dont have 'first baby' excitement this time and id like to have a girl so buy new things again.

ditto an at loving your baby more if it was your "preferred" sex