not excited?

[Tilly]

I think she probably phrased that badly. When I was pregnant, I really really wanted my little girl first! if it had been a boy, I would have had the fact that I still wanted my baby girl on my mind. But it's the same when you've had a girl first, as I now want a little boy, not a girl!

Im sure no matter what anyone says, as soon as you hold your little one.. you don't care what sex it is as long as he/she is healthy.

Btw - I know im maybe doing it the expensive way, but we're getting rid of the majority of Bethanie's things (not planning another baby just yet, don't have the storage space and don't like keeping stuff like that).. that way, even if we do have another girl, I get to buy all over again.

 

[Layla]

I just want to point out that i wouldnt love this baby anymore or less if it was a girl, i just meant id be more excited coz id have to buy new things

x

 

[Tezzy]

we knew what you meant Layla xxx

 

[ablaze]

layla we know that

 

[xCherylx]

I'm leaving the forum as you obviously took this the wrong way. Bye and Good Luck

 

[Tezzy]

 

[Wobbles]

I'm leaving the forum as you obviously took this the wrong way. Bye and Good Luck

It was just badly worded sweetie you don't need to leave the forum because of that - just put them right lol We all word things badly somewhere somehow when its hard to explain how you feel.

 

[Vickie]

My mom has 4 girls and 1 boy. (I'm the youngest, my brother next and than my three sisters). When she had the youngest of the three sisters she told the doctors to take her back because she wasn't a boy!! When she had me she told the doctor he was lying, she just knew she was going to get another boy!!

Please don't leave the forum cheryl!

 

[Tilly]

Cheryl are you joking?? don't leave because you accidentally phrased something a little badly.

 

[Tam]

I think, you are just taking it all in your stride without realising it!! Remember you have not long had a little baby, and it is a hell of a lot for your body to go thru........the fact it is close together, you are just taking it in your stride, it doesn't mean you don't care or want the baby or anything like that, it just means you are more chilled, worn out and know what to expect this time, and you are still enjoying the early times with Rhys! Don't panic babe, my sister was exactly the same, she was so chilled out about it all, I swear she slept thru that pregnancy!

 

[Tam]

im the same Terrie, not excited atall, everyone else is jumping around me saying for me to hurry up but im just like...meh

I had everything from Coby still so i havent had to buy anything either, apart from the double pram.

I am a bit worried in case i dont bond with him when he is born coz i dont seem to have any emotions towards him or the pregnancy atall right now

x

Layla, I felt like that with Alfie til I thought I lost him, then I was hit point blank with all these emotions!! You will be fine babe, again, I bet it is just taking it all in your stride, plus you have so much going on with when he will arrive and christmas, blimey, you are entitled to be a bit 'lost' x