Unexpected212
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When I found out my first child was a boy I was really upset. I wanted a girl. I'm great with girls. Never crossed my mind I'd have a boy. Thought I was destined for girls.
Of course when he was born it didn't matter, and it doesn't matter now. I feel I am blessed to have a healthy happy lovely boy and wouldn't swap him for the world.
Yet I'm scared to have another child, and I don't want to admit to anyone how deeply this gets me. I always thought I'd have a girl. I can't imagine going through life NEVER having one.
Chances are my second will be my last child. If it's a boy I think I'll be devastated because I'll never experience a girl. I'd love to have one of each it would be perfect.
I know deep down I should be greatful to even HAVE two children, and to pray for another happy healthy baby, I feel so selfish and stupid for obsessing over this.
I am literally dreading trying to conceive in October because I am TERRIFIED of going for a gender scan and crying on the table. I nearly did the last time. Everyone sensed my dissapointment and were a bit upset with me.
My OH only wants boys, so he is no help, hes always saying he knows he will have two sons and how happy it will make him.
I just feel so pathetic and stupid but I'm terrified of that gender scan ( I will find out because I'm impatient!)
Just words of comfort or wisdom would help. It's making me less excited to TTC.
Of course when he was born it didn't matter, and it doesn't matter now. I feel I am blessed to have a healthy happy lovely boy and wouldn't swap him for the world.
Yet I'm scared to have another child, and I don't want to admit to anyone how deeply this gets me. I always thought I'd have a girl. I can't imagine going through life NEVER having one.
Chances are my second will be my last child. If it's a boy I think I'll be devastated because I'll never experience a girl. I'd love to have one of each it would be perfect.
I know deep down I should be greatful to even HAVE two children, and to pray for another happy healthy baby, I feel so selfish and stupid for obsessing over this.
I am literally dreading trying to conceive in October because I am TERRIFIED of going for a gender scan and crying on the table. I nearly did the last time. Everyone sensed my dissapointment and were a bit upset with me.
My OH only wants boys, so he is no help, hes always saying he knows he will have two sons and how happy it will make him.
I just feel so pathetic and stupid but I'm terrified of that gender scan ( I will find out because I'm impatient!)
Just words of comfort or wisdom would help. It's making me less excited to TTC.