November 2011 Babies!

[kittycat18]

Is anybody else worrying yourself about miscarrying??? Cuz i am...but i have faith in God that he will keep my baby safe!!!

First ultra sound is April 6th!! Cant wait so i can breath a little easier!!!

It is completely normal to feel worried and scared about miscarrying your child. After 12 weeks the chances of miscarriage lower significantly so try not to worry yourself. Just do every-thing that you are supposed to be doing (exercise, eat healthy, avoid alcohol and cigarettes, avoid cat litter etc etc etc). I was terrified of this as-well until my first scan and then until my 20 week scan because it's just such a terrifying thought I am 25+5 weeks now and almost hitting my 3rd trimester and now I am worrying about a still birth

Best of luck for your scan petal!

 

[LeahLou]

Im about 6 weeks pregnant w/ my first!! Mom and sister know but Dad and brother dont...
Sister and Mom are really excited!!!

Is anybody else worrying yourself about miscarrying??? Cuz i am...but i have faith in God that he will keep my baby safe!!!

First ultra sound is April 6th!! Cant wait so i can breath a little easier!!!

Aww congrats!!! So exciting
Are you nervous to tell them?

It depends on the hour! Haha. I kind of worry sometimes. But usually excitement takes the place of it.

I'm so jealous!!! Mine's April 21st and it couldn't be taking any longer to get here!

 

[LeahLou]

Hey Hillary and Bosslady!! Congrats!!! So glad ya'll found this!!!! I've read a couple other threads of teen moms that did this and its so cool watch them go through the process together!
Has everyone gone to the doctor yet?? When's your first ultrasound??
Mine's scheduled for April 21st. Guaranteed I'm going to cry when I first hear little bean's heartbeat!

mine is april 22nd also the day i turn 18 im so super excited : i wanted to go sooner but i dont get put on my own insurance til then and my mom wont take me

Awww!! That's going to be so special!! Pictures Btw, I'm a BIG picture person. I wanted to be a photographer. So ya'll might get tired of me and my pictures. Haha.

Oh I know. I would love to go like...tomorrow. Haha. I just feel so surreal about it so I want to hear Bean's heartbeat so it becomes reality!

Did your mom not take the news well? I'm nervous about that. But, thankfully my boyfriend has been offered a full time job at the company he's been working for and they offer health benefits. That would be ideal since he's been working 2 jobs and its making him kind of grumpy

My fiance took it amazingly. I told my mom she flipped and refused to take me to the doctor. Now shes in denial and getting my birth control(which i never took in the first place because im highly allergic to) prescription re-filled to give to me...i have no clue with that woman. thankfully i dont live with her. Our bigges fear is telling his mom. Shes so uptight and rather spoiled

That has got to be upsetting. In my letter, I'm going to tell my Mom not to say anything until she has something positive to say. All I need is support right now, not judgment. I technically live with my parents, but ever since I found out and a little while before that, I've been staying with my OH.
You can do the same thing and write her a letter or give her a congratulations on being a grandma card! haha. I'm sure that wouldn't help anything though.

 

[Gee123]

Hey Leah, Welcome to bnb, Congrats on being preggo! my due date is November 29th too!
I'm quite enjoying my symtoms atm, just stuffed my face with kitkats and ice cream and now really tired, i have probably eaten the equvilent of 4 elephants today! hahaa
xxx

 

[Amaya_Jordan]

Im about 6 weeks pregnant w/ my first!! Mom and sister know but Dad and brother dont...
Sister and Mom are really excited!!!

Is anybody else worrying yourself about miscarrying??? Cuz i am...but i have faith in God that he will keep my baby safe!!!

First ultra sound is April 6th!! Cant wait so i can breath a little easier!!!

Aww congrats!!! So exciting
Are you nervous to tell them?

It depends on the hour! Haha. I kind of worry sometimes. But usually excitement takes the place of it.

I'm so jealous!!! Mine's April 21st and it couldn't be taking any longer to get here!

Thanks im so excited!!! Congrats to you and everybody else!!!

Yes im nervous to tell my Dad, as i am in college out of state and living in a dorm, and would have to get a place with my boyfriend to stay in school which should be happening soon.

Hopefully he will take it a little easier because both my brother and sister and kids at a young age....!

Maybeee i wont, maybee it will IDK!

Yes im so surprised i got an appt. so early, they didnt even ask how far along i was...i just called and asked to schedule and ultra sound and they told me when they had time!!! So excited only 4 more days!! and i get to see my little baby and make sure he/she is fine!!! Which im more then positive is!!! I just gotta sit back and enjoy this pregnancy because its gonna go by very fast!

 

[LeahLou]

Hey Leah, Welcome to bnb, Congrats on being preggo! my due date is November 29th too!
I'm quite enjoying my symtoms atm, just stuffed my face with kitkats and ice cream and now really tired, i have probably eaten the equvilent of 4 elephants today! hahaa
xxx

Thanks! You too!! Aww we're gonna be birthday buddies
Oh I know. I enjoying peanut butter and ice cream! Mmmmm.

 

[LeahLou]

Has anyone been having bad cramps??
I've already had to get preggo jeans cause wearing my normal ones give me HORRIBLE pain.

So I told my parents! They weren't thrilled, but said they'd support me and their grandbaby. They're not happy that it's Zach's, but too late!
Anyone else having parent issues? :/

 

[vinteenage]

Its blowing my mind theres November 2011 babies now! Best of luck girls. Your little ones will be here before you know it.

(I was due the 23rd, but had my baby the 15th.)

 

[Mei190]

My god, to think it was me this time last year. Time will fly by!

Good luck to you ladies

(My bubba was 6 days late )

 

[kittycat18]

Its blowing my mind theres November 2011 babies now! Best of luck girls. Your little ones will be here before you know it.

(I was due the 23rd, but had my baby the 15th.)

There are even December 2011 babies!! I am just waiting to see a January baby!!

 

[NewMommy17]

Hey new mommies!
Leah here! I'm 19, working part time as a server, and newly preggo!

This is the last place I expected to be right now! Just found out a couple days ago that little bean is 5 weeks and 5 days old! Due date is November 29th.

I'd love to have some other teen moms to walk through this with, so if you just found out and your baby's due in november, let's chat!

At this moment, I definitely know I'm carrying another person. I have all the typical symptoms: nausea, heart burn, cramping, missed period, exhaustion! , and everything else.

Hope to find bump friends soon!

Hii awwww my due date is the same also November 29th my birthday i find this to be such a blessing i hope my baby is actually due on this date

 

[Lola472]

I'm due 11/11- which is pretty neat IMO. Granted, the chances of the baby coming at his/her due date are not 100%. I haven't told my parents yet. I wish I didn't have to. But I think they are going to notice sooner or later!

 

[NewMommy17]

I'm due 11/11- which is pretty neat IMO. Granted, the chances of the baby coming at his/her due date are not 100%. I haven't told my parents yet. I wish I didn't have to. But I think they are going to notice sooner or later!

yeah they rarely are 100 % i haven't told my mom yet either . I wish she can just figure it out but unfortunately i have to tell her before my next doctor visit in 2 weeks im afraid of her reaction

 

[preppymommy]

I'm due November 25ish but I think s/he is going to come sooner

 

[Lola472]

I'm due 11/11- which is pretty neat IMO. Granted, the chances of the baby coming at his/her due date are not 100%. I haven't told my parents yet. I wish I didn't have to. But I think they are going to notice sooner or later!

yeah they rarely are 100 % i haven't told my mom yet either . I wish she can just figure it out but unfortunately i have to tell her before my next doctor visit in 2 weeks im afraid of her reaction

Oh wow that's really soon. Do you know how your gonna do it? I've thought about it but I don't think there's anything I can say to make her not yell at me.

 

[LeahLou]

I'm due 11/11- which is pretty neat IMO. Granted, the chances of the baby coming at his/her due date are not 100%. I haven't told my parents yet. I wish I didn't have to. But I think they are going to notice sooner or later!

yeah they rarely are 100 % i haven't told my mom yet either . I wish she can just figure it out but unfortunately i have to tell her before my next doctor visit in 2 weeks im afraid of her reaction

Oh wow that's really soon. Do you know how your gonna do it? I've thought about it but I don't think there's anything I can say to make her not yell at me.

I was terrified to tell my mom. She's still not happy.. which I understand. But I couldn't tell her face to face. So, I wrote she and my dad letters letting them know what's going on. It went a lot better than I expected. I just couldn't handle the initial reaction.
Just give parents time and space to calm down. Usually, they'll freak out then come around then when it really sinks it, they'll be disappointed. At least that's what I've been through the past couple weeks.

Hope that helps!

And my due date changed! It's now 11/27.

 

[Lola472]

I'm due 11/11- which is pretty neat IMO. Granted, the chances of the baby coming at his/her due date are not 100%. I haven't told my parents yet. I wish I didn't have to. But I think they are going to notice sooner or later!

yeah they rarely are 100 % i haven't told my mom yet either . I wish she can just figure it out but unfortunately i have to tell her before my next doctor visit in 2 weeks im afraid of her reaction

Oh wow that's really soon. Do you know how your gonna do it? I've thought about it but I don't think there's anything I can say to make her not yell at me.

I was terrified to tell my mom. She's still not happy.. which I understand. But I couldn't tell her face to face. So, I wrote she and my dad letters letting them know what's going on. It went a lot better than I expected. I just couldn't handle the initial reaction.
Just give parents time and space to calm down. Usually, they'll freak out then come around then when it really sinks it, they'll be disappointed. At least that's what I've been through the past couple weeks.

Hope that helps!

And my due date changed! It's now 11/27.

That is a good idea. I hadn't really thought about that. Was it like a long note? I could see mine going something like this:
Dear Mom,
I'm pregnant.
love
~you're disappointing child

Or should I add a little more emotion?

 

[LeahLou]

I'm due 11/11- which is pretty neat IMO. Granted, the chances of the baby coming at his/her due date are not 100%. I haven't told my parents yet. I wish I didn't have to. But I think they are going to notice sooner or later!

yeah they rarely are 100 % i haven't told my mom yet either . I wish she can just figure it out but unfortunately i have to tell her before my next doctor visit in 2 weeks im afraid of her reaction

Oh wow that's really soon. Do you know how your gonna do it? I've thought about it but I don't think there's anything I can say to make her not yell at me.

I was terrified to tell my mom. She's still not happy.. which I understand. But I couldn't tell her face to face. So, I wrote she and my dad letters letting them know what's going on. It went a lot better than I expected. I just couldn't handle the initial reaction.
Just give parents time and space to calm down. Usually, they'll freak out then come around then when it really sinks it, they'll be disappointed. At least that's what I've been through the past couple weeks.

Hope that helps!

And my due date changed! It's now 11/27.

That is a good idea. I hadn't really thought about that. Was it like a long note? I could see mine going something like this:
Dear Mom,
I'm pregnant.
love
~you're disappointing child

Or should I add a little more emotion?

Hahaha. Sounds wonderful. Though you might wanna add in some gushy stuff moms like to hear.

My mom is a very over emotional, over reacting kind of person. So, first, I let her know how much she means to me and thanking her for how she raised me and that I love her so much etc etc. Then I explained what went down and that I got a surprise and she was going to be a grandma. Then I let her know my basic plan for the near future. I ended it with, "I understand there might be high emotion, but I can't handle it with my own emotions. So, if you could vent to Dad or one of your close friends, that would be best."

 

[Lola472]

I like that. Yeah I figured a little more emotion would probably help. I like the way you ended it. Maybe she could tell my dad and that would give her someone to get mad at/with. I have no doubt that I'll get to hear plenty of "responsibility" talks after I break the news. My mom loves to focus on that topic. But at least with the note I can plan out what I'm going to say. Maybe that's what I'll do with my spring break while all my friends are at the beach. At least it would be productive.

 

[x__amour]

Ah, November babies, I knew this thread/day would come! A big congratulations to each and everyone of you! I hope you all have the healthiest and happiest nine months and trust me, November will be here before you know it! Good luck to all of you wonderful ladies!
Can't believe my LO will be one in November!