Melissa29
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Wow Cherry that is great! I am so excited for you and everyone else to find out. I can't wait-8 more days. Knowing my luck the baby will not cooperate with us.
Lucky- I am glad you had a great time and that your dress fit. I am in 2 weddings in Sept. When I ordered the one dress I wasn't pregnant yet so I didnt order a size up. I still have not called to order more fabric. I am such a procrastinator.
I have been looking online at all the baby gear that I want to register for. I have written down what I need/want and the exact model so that I dont forget.
So the last 2 days I have spent looking for childcare providers. I live in a very small town (like 1200 people). I want to find somebody from our town so that it is convenient for my husband and I and our parents if they would have to pick up.
I am having a couple different problems with this. My very good friend (I am in her wedding in Sept) runs a home daycare like 5 miles out of town-of course on my way to work. Being a teacher and having worked in a childcare myself- I just dont agree with everything she does. For instance, one day she had three babies under 6 months and a two year old. they were all sleeping so she decided to go out and mow her lawn before it rained. I'm sorry. Those are not her children and she is getting paid to watch them, she should not be mowing her lawn. She will also try different formula on the kids if they seem to have problems with their formula. That is a big no-no. That is the parents decision. What if they had an allergic reaction. ahhh. I know that she expects me to send my baby to her. She talks about how excited she is to spoil my baby and such. How do I break the news to her? I was thinking of just telling her that her and I are such good friends and I don't want to complicate our relationship. Also I don't want my baby to spend more time with my good friend than with me.
Another problem I am finding is that I don't know exactly how long I want to take maternity leave. My maternity benefits are crap. The first 30 days are unpaid. Then if I deliver vaginally-I get 2 weeks of disability which is like $300/week. If I have a c-section than I get 4 weeks of disability. From there I have to either take personal days(I get like 10 a year) or take them unpaid. My husband wants me to go back to work at like 6 weeks but I am going to take at least 8 weeks. I would really like to take the full 12 weeks but dont know. I dont know when to tell these childcare provider when my child would be starting. When do you girls plan on returning to work?
Lucky- I am glad you had a great time and that your dress fit. I am in 2 weddings in Sept. When I ordered the one dress I wasn't pregnant yet so I didnt order a size up. I still have not called to order more fabric. I am such a procrastinator.
I have been looking online at all the baby gear that I want to register for. I have written down what I need/want and the exact model so that I dont forget.
So the last 2 days I have spent looking for childcare providers. I live in a very small town (like 1200 people). I want to find somebody from our town so that it is convenient for my husband and I and our parents if they would have to pick up.
I am having a couple different problems with this. My very good friend (I am in her wedding in Sept) runs a home daycare like 5 miles out of town-of course on my way to work. Being a teacher and having worked in a childcare myself- I just dont agree with everything she does. For instance, one day she had three babies under 6 months and a two year old. they were all sleeping so she decided to go out and mow her lawn before it rained. I'm sorry. Those are not her children and she is getting paid to watch them, she should not be mowing her lawn. She will also try different formula on the kids if they seem to have problems with their formula. That is a big no-no. That is the parents decision. What if they had an allergic reaction. ahhh. I know that she expects me to send my baby to her. She talks about how excited she is to spoil my baby and such. How do I break the news to her? I was thinking of just telling her that her and I are such good friends and I don't want to complicate our relationship. Also I don't want my baby to spend more time with my good friend than with me.
Another problem I am finding is that I don't know exactly how long I want to take maternity leave. My maternity benefits are crap. The first 30 days are unpaid. Then if I deliver vaginally-I get 2 weeks of disability which is like $300/week. If I have a c-section than I get 4 weeks of disability. From there I have to either take personal days(I get like 10 a year) or take them unpaid. My husband wants me to go back to work at like 6 weeks but I am going to take at least 8 weeks. I would really like to take the full 12 weeks but dont know. I dont know when to tell these childcare provider when my child would be starting. When do you girls plan on returning to work?