Yeah i'm not good with some of the mean things that are said over in the club... it was quite similar when my boy was little too, so i tried to keep out of it and found a place in postnatal support and with the breastfeeding guys, particularly after 6months. I enjoy the toddler etc section, but i have felt quite 'lost' within the bnb forums... postnatal recovery has been a dream in comparison to last time, which i'm very thankful for, and i feel like a newbie in many ways with breastfeeding (and yet it's only a couple of months since i stopped, and it's going well really). Thank you guys for still being about here! i'd be completely lost otherwise! I know that there is a thread on here for my local area, but my friend was on there and i know that she's made friends there etc and i didn't want to get in the way - if that makes sense?!? i'm a teacher and the support thread there has been quiet, so yeah, very glad to have this place to come back to... again thank you
Lorelei settled really well last night, i guess she had a proper bed time... i ventured into the land of newborn and toddler bathtime ON MY OWN
What was i thinking? In truth it was all going ok, Simon was in, Lorelei was in the bath support, both very happy and content. I got her washed and then took her out and got her sorted as Simon played, all fine,but she wouldn't be put down and so washing Simon wasn't going to happen without tears somewhere. So i had to let her cry (she was fine, just tired and wanted comfort), whilst getting simon ready. It's just that little bit more stressful, ah for a couple more arms! He did some good massive splashes and i got very wet, he got the silent treatment for a bit (i probably would have cheered usually). Hubby had been planning lessons (also a teacher), but stopped to come to help me. I really want to be able to manage this without having to rely on him, i'm going to have to by tomorrow! I guess it'll just happen, and i'll leave the joint bathing for a little while longer.