Disney if it makes you feel any better mine wasn't going to be until 7 weeks 1 day but I'm going a bit after that and I had a FET so seems early still I have a lot of hope for both you ladies! Disney do you have strong symptoms?
Hi almost. I had some strong cramps yesterday, but those have since gone away. My doctor said that's normal and to be expected, even if we saw something more than a sac on yesterday's ultrasound. I'm still tired, too. I never really had a lot of symptoms with my last pregnancy other than cramping every now and then and lots of fatigue, so I assume the lack of extreme symptoms is normal for me. My doctor is hopeful that she's wrong but has prepared us for bad news. We were told that best case scenario would be we see a baby measuring 7 weeks on Saturday. All other scenarios point to an abnormal pregnancy. My hcg definitely says I'm pregnant and is typical for someone as far along as I should be. She said that my body will continue to feel and act pregnant because I technically am either way. We'll learn more on Saturday.
At my doctors office, she typically does ultrasounds at 6 weeks, 8 weeks, and 10 weeks for fertility patients. After 10 weeks, if everything looks good, the patient graduates to their regular OB for the remainder of the pregnancy. Aside from the initial hcg blood work to confirm pregnancy (2 days apart), they don't typically order additional blood tests unless they have a reason to. We've been paying for all of our fertility treatments (including the genetic testing) out of pocket since we blew through our $7,000 lifetime max on infertility services during our first IVF cycle back in 2013. We have one more normal embryo left. I'm still hoping for a positive outcome, but if we can't find success with this current pregnancy or that last embryo, we've come to the end of our line. The constant failures and road blocks are just too much to take emotionally, and while money isn't everything, the amount of money we have spent thus far is insane. The positive out of all of this is the daughter that is already here. I know that we are lucky that we got far enough to have her here with us, and for that, I will always be eternally grateful.
Thanks to all of the ladies here for your support. I'll post an update once I learn more about what is going on. In the mean time, I'm doing my best to remain as positive as I can.