November rainbows 2014 (We had our babies!!!<3)

[Twinklie12]

Welcome Kim!!! Me too (pregnant after 2 early losses). I am due Nov 23

 

[Leinzlove]

Kim: Welcome! Congrats!

 

[Kimiw]

Thanks ladies! Congrats to all of you too! I'm still worried, I can't help it

 

[Leinzlove]

Me too! I can't stop freaking out. Clear Blue digi isn't helping either as of yesterday its saying 2-3. It's sooooo hard!!!

 

[Anniebobs]

Congratulations Kim! I'm also due 29th nov.

Leinz I wouldn't worry about the clear blue, I've heard they're known for being inaccurate that's why I haven't bothered taking any more!

Hope you've all had a fab Mother's Day. I'm off to meet my new godson tonight, he's 3 days old though it is slightly bittersweet. I was due a month before her when she found out she was pregnant, then she had an 8 week scan the same day as my doomed 13 week scan. Being pregnant is making this more bearable though.

 

[Leinzlove]

I'm glad you are pregnant AnnieBobs. It sure does make it more bearable. My Sister and SIL are due in September. I was due September 26 with my 2nd early loss.

I'm just going to wait it out. I will know... 19 days.

 

[Nanninoo]

Thanks ladies! Congrats to all of you too! I'm still worried, I can't help it

It's only natural when you've experienced a loss! I think to myself this is a whole new pregnancy different egg different sperm think positive and take each day at a time!

 

[Leliana]

Hi ladies,

I hope you don't mind me joining you. I am not really sure where I belong on the boards to be honest. My first pregnancy ended in loss and I went on to have my rainbow baby in December 2012. I am now pregnant again with my second child. However, due to my previous loss, I am still filled with a lot of worry and anxiety about this pregnancy. I thought it would be easier this time but it's definitely just as hard. I guess once that innocence has gone, it never comes back. I am trying my best to remain positive and knowing I have gone on to have a rainbow baby does give me a lot more faith that this one will be okay.

I hope it's okay to join you all This LO is currently due on the 7th of November, although I believe it will be slightly later than that if my scan matches my OPKs.

 

[Twinklie12]

Welcome Leilana! I have had two early losses so I can relate to how once the innocence is gone it causes worry. I'm trying to just be positive, as I am further along than I ever got to before. Happy and Healthy 9 months to you!

 

[Nanninoo]

Leilana I hear you hunny! I had 2 mc's then went on to have my rainbow son in 2012. You are very right the worry never leaves you i am constantly cautious and anxious even though I have had a baby you never forget the mc's previously! X

 

[wannabemama24]

Hello everyone! I'm 5 weeks 6 days with my rainbow. My partner and I started TTC in November, got pregnant the first try with donor sperm, but sadly miscarried in late December. It was a blighted ovum. I got pregnant the first cycle afterward and here I am.

 

[Leliana]

Thank you so much for the welcome ladies It does feel good talking to people who understand how pregnancy feels after a loss. Very very bittersweet. I am cautiously optimistic though

Welcome wannabemama, congratulations on your rainbow!

 

[Twinklie12]

Welcome waanabemomma! FX for is all!

My allergies are awful today. I stopped taking Zyrtec and I soooo miss it. Can't stop sneezing!

 

[Leinzlove]

Leliana: Welcome! I had a MMC in 2012 and got my rainbow January 2013! x I'm sorry for your loss and I too feel that it forever changes us. Welcome... Congrats on your new pregnancy. Maybe the Dr. won't change your dates. Mine didn't when I was pg with #2 and went with EDD by O. I ended up being pushed forward a whole week to match LMP.

Wannabemama: I've been wondering where you were... I am so excited to share this journey!!! Thanks so much for finding our group... This is sticky! And happy 6 weeks!!!

Twinklie: I hope you get some allergy relief.

AFM: Did you all know? I broke my foot at 5dpo. Who does that?

 

[Rickles]

Bloody hell Leinzlove - hope you are ok?? How are you coping with 2 LOs at home?

I broke my ankle (nearly lost my foot) 6 years ago it was a bit of a nightmare. if you have a plaster cast buy one of those plastic covers for the bath or shower - it's worth it.

AFM: Scan yesterday showed baby was 2 days ahead and a strong heartbeat. Not relaxed but definitely feeling a little better and OH says we can now discuss it!!

xx

 

[Leinzlove]

Coping as best as I can. I can't stop being Mom. I have the camo boot so I can take it off to shower. Thank goodness! But, it really sucks, I can't take my girls outside because I can't chase em' down if they run off. I can't drive. And the boot doesn't come off until May.

Rickles: So happy all went well with your Scan. WONDERFUL! x

I can't wait for mine... 2 more weeks!!! But, I have MS pretty bad and I'm super tired all day long.

 

[Anniebobs]

Oh leinz that's awful! I can't imagine not being able to go anywhere for over a month! But maybe it's a blessing in disguise, you taking it easy (easier anyway) will give this rainbow a chance to settle in and get nice and strong.

Rickles congratulations on the scan! It must be such a relief. Obviously we all know things can still go wrong but your chances are so much lower now. Think positive!

I saw the midwife yesterday and she's arranging an early scan for me, so I should get a letter in the next week. Hopefully it'll be around the 7/8 weeks mark so I definitely see something.

 

[Leinzlove]

Use the signature image for our group if you want. The code is on the first page of this thread! x

AnnieBobs: I can go out just with DH... x So happy you will get an early scan. When will you have the date to look forward to?

 

[kazine]

Thanks to my two miscarriages, I feel like I was robbed of my opportunity to be close to my unborn baby at this stage of development.

My first pregnancy I was so, so in love with my baby, I ached with how much I loved my baby.

But with this pregnancy, and my last one, I find it difficult to imagine even getting a baby at the end of this. Difficulty feeling as strongly because of what I&#8217;ve been through before.

Don&#8217;t get me wrong I would be utterly, utterly devastated if I lost my baby. Which makes me think this whole &#8220;wall&#8221; I&#8217;ve put up is meaningless as it certainly won&#8217;t stop the pain if I miscarry. All it&#8217;s doing is putting up an emotional wall stopping me from feeling close to my baby.

 

[Leinzlove]

Kazine: It's hard being pregnant after loss. You'll become more attached and feel much better with each passing milestone.