Not bothered by what people say, but to be honest that's my personality it's with all aspects of my life, can get me into trouble at times though
We don't have any us time Lucas' bedtime is 2100 so can't even think about getting Edith to bed till at least 2200, mainly because between 2100-2130 something is wrong with Lucas like he is thirsty or needs a wee or his arm may be falling off or he has an gnat bite or his head wobbled in a funny way or or or, well you get the picture
however her last feed is roughly 2300 and she goes in not long after I follow about 25 mins later, it's my time to relish sitting in the bathroom all alone playing games on my phone in peace
we did the same with Lucas, we've had plenty of evenings alone together and will have plenty more so for now it doesn't matter.
Took Edith to be weighed the other day 3 weeks after she dropped in their wanky charts as she'd only put on 5.5 ozs so this three weeks she had put on 6ozs, she's just not feeding as much and is sleeping through so 2-3 dropped feeds she is perfectly fine but they look at me like I'm starving the poor bugger
she is exactly 15lbs now hardly wasting away
I hope your feeling better Maryanne, my last early loss was probably the most painful, I remember going to bed and getting up not long after had already took a ton of pain killers but took even more, not entirely sure if I fell asleep or passed out that night it was horrific lotsbof hugs
Loving simons new swing he seems to really love it
I homeschool so my kids are around me all day everyday but I love it. I don't judge anyone who needs space from their children so I hate being judged on it myself.
