Soph - Here in the U.S., atleast around where I live, it is really rare that someone lets their cat out. I mean we use litter boxes and cats are more inside pets, and don't get let out. So its hard for me to understand that part of it all. But you should be able to leave your back door open so I think you have every right to talk to your neighbors or complain to your landlord about it.
I'm going crazy today lol - I want some friends! I want somebody to invite me out with Megan. I emailed a lady from the local surestart centre about any classes and/or groups I could join but have not received a response yet!
Bosom Pals on a Wednesday just isn't enough, I need something to occupy the rest of my week too. I hate staying in lol
Have you popped into your local children's centre? My midwife didn't tell me about anything but I picked up a pile of leaflets from the CC and there are lots of things to do. You might find some groups, although our babies are a bit young to do much yet. Also, ring them up about post natal groups. I was not getting any invites to anything so I phoned and got my name on all the lists x
Most cats in the UK are outdoor cats I think. We have cat flaps so they can come and go as they please. My sis has a house cat though a mainecoon, cost her £500 lol, goes outside a bit now but they often get stolen for breeding.
I might start a journal tomorrow, would anyone read it?