About the cousins being close in age, my brother's girlfriend is pregnant, she's due September and I'm obviously due November. I'd be worried about her feeling like I was stealing her limelight but honestly, I've been trying to get pregnant since September and she got pregnant by accident when I was actively trying so it's not like I was going to stop trying to not steal her accidental pregnancy limelight.
My scan is tomorrow... feel sick sick sick with nerves. Keep trying to tell myself that it is actually possible that I have a healthy baby that will make it to term but it just seems impossible for me for that to happen!