Finally been left alone by the visitors, toddler and dh in bed and I have a sleeping 1day old baby boy on my knee! So time to tell you what happened!
So Friday the 24th was the edd given to me by both scans but I believed I was due more like the 1st/2nd of November
Anyway I woke up Thursday night with cramps which I timed for a hour on my phone before I had to get up. I had a shower and walked around downstairs but they didn't stop. They weren't really that painful and still pretty irregular but some with not long between so i rang the delivery suite. They said like last time stay at home as long as you are comfortable.
I had a real hunch this was it so I rang my mum to come over at 3.30amish to watch F.
By 4.30am the pains were under 5minutes apart and although not as painful as last time I was panicking about a quick second delivery so we headed in to get checked out.
We arrived at 5am and I was still just breathing through the contractions and joking in between them.
I was examined and only 3cm, although she said the babies head was very low and I was definitely in established labour so she gave my embraces a good sweep to 'get things hitting up' and sent me to walk round the hospital for an hour. Well I don't know what the heck she did up there but as soon as we set off I was clinging on to the walls every 30seconds!dh kept saying go back to her it's time but I was determined to walk for an hour. By the time we got back I was 5cm when not contracting but mid contraction she could stretch to 9cm.
She said I probably wouldn't need an epidural and suggested getting in the water. I was distraught. I was in so much pain.
I agreed to try the pool, but once I got round to the delivery room and had some gas&air I was panicking and felt out of control. This second midwife agreed I was so close I. Igot as well just go forit.
I got in the pool which was quite relaxing but I was still in horrific pain, the gas & air wasn't doing anything.
Anyway after about 5 contractions, the midwife asked if I needed to push and told me to go with my body. Something just took over and it took about 3pushes together the head out. The midwife was shocked as her second colleague wasn't yet in the room, I heard her mumble something about 'shoulders' and she ran from the room. I was terrified but she quickly returned and with help managed to deliver the rest of him from under the water. The delivery was about 45 minutes! And it was a boy!! I got to hold him for a bit in the pool which was lovely and then of course without the epi I could walk to the bed.
It was then they weighed him and told me he was 9lb13!!!!
I was lucky not to need any stitches so got to get out of hospital pretty quick and were home last night.
Bug is still nameless but doing great. He's feeding well and lots, getting quite impatient for my milk I think!
Thanks for everyone's thoughts! Xxx