AFM, I'm 5dpo-ish (don't temp so don't know for sure). Had a little bit of light cramping last night, which I haven't noticed before during my cycle. I usually only cramp right before AF. This felt similar, but not nearly as intense. Completely possible (and maybe even likely) that I always have it and have just never noticed it before.
We have not shared with family or friends that we are TTC, mostly because it adds a lot of pressure. All of my best girl friends have told me when they started trying, but DH and I decided to keep it to ourselves. Today, my two best friends asked if we were TTC and not telling anyone! One said it was because I didn't drink wine at dinner the other night (I'm a 'sober til it's over' kind of girl). The other didn't give me a reason, but her husband was at our house the other day, and when he used the bathroom I heard a noise like something fell. We have baskets under our sink where I keep my opks and hpts, so wondering if we pulled out the basket (maybe looking for tp?) and saw my stash? Either way I had to lie through my teeth to both of them. It's a lot of work trying to keep this secret from people who know you as well as you know yourself!!