7 weeks 3 days pregnant. Started spotting.... went to epu... started to bleed heavily. Bloods taken - hormone level 470. Way too low for 7 weeks. Speculum inserted, swabs taken, huge scissor type things used to pull out some blood for examining.... miscarriage confirmed.
This all happened yesterday.
How do you even fathom moving on? I have two beautiful healthy children at home... yet I cannot get a grip. All I want to do is curl up into a ball and disappear.
We dont know if baby was a boy or girl.. how do we name them? Is that stupid? How are we meant to remember them.. do we buy something? We have nothing to show our beautiful baby was ever here... just a memory that will never fade.
How am I meant to carry on as if nothing happened?
My best friend was due to have her baby girl yesterday.... the day my baby died. Is it selfish to think that it's just not fair?
How does anything ever become normal again?
I was so in love with this baby... so in love with the idea of a new baby at home... another sibling for my son and daughter... yet here we are. So many plans put in place... so many conversations which are now pointless.
Now what?
This all happened yesterday.
How do you even fathom moving on? I have two beautiful healthy children at home... yet I cannot get a grip. All I want to do is curl up into a ball and disappear.
We dont know if baby was a boy or girl.. how do we name them? Is that stupid? How are we meant to remember them.. do we buy something? We have nothing to show our beautiful baby was ever here... just a memory that will never fade.
How am I meant to carry on as if nothing happened?
My best friend was due to have her baby girl yesterday.... the day my baby died. Is it selfish to think that it's just not fair?
How does anything ever become normal again?
I was so in love with this baby... so in love with the idea of a new baby at home... another sibling for my son and daughter... yet here we are. So many plans put in place... so many conversations which are now pointless.
Now what?