I found going from 1 to 2 ok, but then as DD arrived, DS was just going into school so I had that time at home with her all day. I am a little worried about going from 2 to 3 though, again DD will now be going up to school if/ when a new little one comes along, but thats 2 little people to get ready for school and one tiny person to feed and get ready for school. Both of mine are quite self sufficient though and will get themselves ready mostly. I think we will revert back to school dinners, just for ease... haha one less thing to do! Its crazy how much we read into these things, I guess you could say its healthy to go to and fro with these ideas, being realistic and all. But I think at the end of the day, you just make it work. Right now its uncharted territory for each of us, whether we are having number 1, 2, 3 or more. I often think of the Radfords? You know the 16 and counting family from the UK? Well if they can manage 17+ kids, then 3 should be manageable for me.