Sorry I'm taking up so much of this thread just about my stuff, I just realized how many pages I've been talking about this! But a sincere thank you to everyone, all of your well wishes and prayers mean so much!
Yesterday the ultrasound showed what they are pretty sure is the baby's sac in my uterus. They still can't rule out an ectopic though. The sac itself is an irregular shape, it is a bit flat on one side. The high risk doctor said he doesn't like to see them that shape, but it doesn't mean it won't change and get round and healthy. It's totally just a wait and see type thing. My hCG levels are on the low side of normal, they explained that I'm above the bare minimum for a normal pregnancy but just slightly. So I'm not miscarrying yet, but I may be in the future. Again, can't tell yet!
I'm at home for now, though every single pain scares me. Tomorrow I go in for more tests, probably another ultrasound and also more hCG testing to see if it's still rising or not.