You have to do what's best for you and Rose, and if thats 100% formula well then so be it. No one will judge you here!
He knows how much I hate it and I thought he respected me enough not to watch it. I was more annoyed coz I now knew the reason he didn't come to bed until all hours and let me go to bed alone! Because I was so upset then I went downstairs when he came to bed removed adult channels and changed the parental password. After trying to speak to him about it he changed the subject. Anyways tonight I go downstairs thinking I'd sort the washing out and then snuggle up on the sofa with hubby for a bit as we just don't seem to get much quality time together, I goes downstairs and what do you know! He's guessed my password and is watching the filth AGAIN even though he knows how upset I was last time! I kicked him awake and he acted like he didn't know what was going on...his excuse last time? He's accidently flipped to that channel...BULLSHIT! It's password protected! He's gone back to sleep and I've changed the password again!!
I'm still feeling yack, I have another infection in my episiotomy so I'm still not healed which means we've still not had sex (we've done other stuff), I've developed stretchmarks AFTER having Tristan and generally just feel gross! I'm feeling really insecure at the moment too which isn't helping but he isn't making me feel any better either!!!
If him watching that upsets you then he should respect you and not watch it - or at least sit down and discuss it with you and maybe come to some compromise.
hun x
I know how you feel. My DH watches that stuff once in a while, and it doesn't bother me too much now (and he doesn't watch it often at ALL) but he used to have tonnes and tonnes of dirty magazines hidden in our basement. Since he owned them BEFORE we got together I never made a fuss about it... but once I found out he was buying more of them while we were together (and even bought one with women over 40??!! 
), it really bothered me... and made me feel insecure like I wasn't enough for him... and he had to look at other women. It's kind of silly, I know, but it's hard enough being women AND mother's... and feeling the way we feel right now on top of it, with sleepless nights and changed bodies... So one night my hubby took all those magazines and burned them. It was actually really sweet of him. 
At least compromise? I'm not sure what your limits are but maybe let him watch the programs with YOU there? Rather then him sneaking around??? I know it might be awkward for you but I'd rather my hubby watch that stuff with me there. 
Anyway, I hope you get it straightened out hun.
BB, sorry to hear you're going through it with your OH. I completely understand as i've been through the same thing on and off with my OH ever since we got together. The last time I caught him was about a yr ago now but since we're not intimate at the mo and i'm in the other room with Sophia (to give him some sleep for work!) I can imagine he's up to his old tricks again. I'm trying to put it to the back of my mind though as can't allow myself to get upset about it all over again, we've been here so many times now. I genuinely don't think he does it even half as much as he used to as he hardly gets any spare time but what gets me is the lies, it used to be the fact he was doing it and the way it made me feel and my insecurities etc. but now i'd just prefer him to be honest with me about it (if he really can't stop for me!). Over the years he's made so many promises to stop and I genuinely think he does for a while and then we hit a rocky patch or he gets a bit depressed and then it starts up again and I catch him at it. With him its on his PC he looks at porn or his phone! I just don't understand it but according to our group of friends all the lads do it, they're just better at hiding it from their other halves! Not sure how true this is. I think what's right for one couple isn't necessarily right for another, some women are happy to let their men look at it yes and even enjoy it themselves but if it makes us feel insecure and upsets us then they should respect that. I'm sure he'll come around once you talk to him and you explain how its making you feel. 
I can never have another baby they are bound to be devilish I got way too lucky with this one ha
