Veganmum have you thought of doing a little TW aswell?
We do BLW with Tristan but because he suffers with reflux we do some TW.
For Example -
Breakfast - Tristan will feed himself something like toast then we will feed him something like weetabix.
Dinner - Tristan will feed himself something like sandwiches, cheese and Organix snacks and then we feed him yoghurt.
Tea - Tristan will feed himself whatever we are having for tea whether it be chilli and rice, a roast dinner etc, he then likes to be fed some when he's fed up of feeding himself, we then feed him pudding with is something like a yoghurt or pureed fruit.
It might not work for you but it works for us