Awe Sugger, everything will be alright. Dont worry so much, everything will work out you have to believe in yourself that you can do it. We all can do it and we will... hugs!!!
I'm so scared hon I've been doing nothing but crying. I know I cant push out a big baby I have had 2 very traumatic births and now I'm so scared of tearing and him getting stuck like DS1 and needing forceps. I just hope and pray he comes b4 my induction
@Suggerhoney did they ever say if he got to a certain size they would bring you in earlier?
Why can't you have a section again?
No hon they dont do anything if ure having a big baby. I cant have a section because I'm at to much of a high risk of bleeding out on the table due to my liver anti rejection medication.
I saw the consultant after and I still have no induction date. I'm absolutely gutted and cant stop crying because I'm so frightened. Esp after 2 previous traumatic births. I just can not do this hon.
I asked her if she cud give me a rough date but she said it will be the week starting the 23rd so anyway that whole week so I cud go to 38 weeks and he will be 9 1/2 to 10lbs but they dont seem to care hon.
I was so hoping I wud get my actual date today but now I have to wait another 2 weeks to get it when I'm 36+2.
Ohhh sugger don’t be sad. Have you expressed your anxiety to your consultant? I wish they could be a little more understanding towards you and your situation, especially because of your past pregnancies and complications
Yes hon I have but feel like I'm not being taken seriously. I'm so angry and hurt and upsett. They dont want me to have a section so why push me to go so far knowing that he is a huge baby which will then put me at a risk of a emergency c section. Its literally makes no sense. I was talking to her about my 2 traumatic births and she was just didnt seem all that bothered. She just said I wont have to go over 38 weeks but he will be 9 to 10bls if i go that far. Thanks for ure kind words hon.
Afm...
I went for a wee and wiped and had some plug (have been having for maybe 2 weeks now) little and often come away... but this time it had tinges of blood in it?
I have a midwife app today so I will bring it up. But does that mean anything?
I had my plug some away bit by bit for a couple of weeks before having my son, but never any blood? X
Hon I had my whole mukas plug and the bloody show come out on sunday so I'm hoping that means things are close and I will go into labour on my own b4 the induction.
My mukas plug was big a kind of light green in colour with brown on the inside of it and it looked like rubber it was so thick and large. Can see why they call it a plug now. I've never seen one b4. I also had the bloddy show just after when I wiped which was just normal mukas but with blood in. Had nothing since tho.
Ladies I do hope I go into labour b4 induction and it isn't to far of . I've been feeling very odd since losing the plug and having the bloody show.
Extreme lighting crotch that is feels as if a knife is being jabbed up ther . Lots and lots of presure in my lower abdomen and cervix area. Also sharp twinges between the vjay hole and butt hole (sorry TMI)
Babies head feels so so low. I have extreme exhaustion and lower back and pelvic pain.
Also feels like my waters are about to break and pain in my groan.
Bump has dropped loads is so so low.
Really hope he will be here in the next week or two. I did want him to stay put until 37 weeks but not now I know he is so big.
I've been in the ICP support group on FB expressing my worries and again being told that the growth scans are not accurate. My bump isnt even that big so I just dont understand it.
A lovely girl she had a growth scan and they told her her baby was going to be only 6lbs and her baby was 9lb 7oz so it was way way way out with her. I dont know maybe I shouldn't take the growth scan so seriously but I was just so gobsmacked when she said 6lb 13oz that's nearly 7lbs and I cud have another 3 to 3 and a half weeks to go.