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October bumpkins 2019
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I was so hopeful this was your sticky baby. Big hugs 
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Thanks ladies.
The bleeding started a day late.
I'm on day 2 of bleeding now and its very very heavy with clots.
Just the same as with the other 3 losses.
I am heartbroken.
I have spoken with a doctor and I am being referred to the recurring miscarriage unit at the hospital.
We can still try while waiting for the appointment.
I don't think I feel mentally ready to try this cycle but will probably be back to ttc in December.
I'm going to start taking macca root and folate and I really hope that helps.
The doctor did mention the hospital may put me on medication, and also mentioned they may do a ultra sound to rule out fibroids or anything going on on the inside.
Really hope i don't have anything like that.
My periods are not really heavy and painful so I don't think it will be fibroids as app with them periods are very very very heavy and extremely painful.
My periods are just normal.
So hopefully its nothing serious and if it is anything it can be fixed with medication.
The next time I take a pregnancy test will be around Christmas eve.
Wudnt it be the bested gift ever to get a blazing BFP for Christmas. Its also my birthday on 17th December my 41st.
The doctor did reassure me that alot of women have babies in there early 40s and my FSH levels were perfect so no sign of peri menopause yet so its nothing like that.
I really hope and pray I never have to go through this pain again and the next time I fall pregnant its for keeps.
Maybe I will end up having another October Bumkin, who knows.
All I know is I'm not giving up and I will keep on trying for my rainbow and I have faith that it will happen.
The bleeding started a day late.
I'm on day 2 of bleeding now and its very very heavy with clots.
Just the same as with the other 3 losses.
I am heartbroken.
I have spoken with a doctor and I am being referred to the recurring miscarriage unit at the hospital.
We can still try while waiting for the appointment.
I don't think I feel mentally ready to try this cycle but will probably be back to ttc in December.
I'm going to start taking macca root and folate and I really hope that helps.
The doctor did mention the hospital may put me on medication, and also mentioned they may do a ultra sound to rule out fibroids or anything going on on the inside.
Really hope i don't have anything like that.
My periods are not really heavy and painful so I don't think it will be fibroids as app with them periods are very very very heavy and extremely painful.
My periods are just normal.
So hopefully its nothing serious and if it is anything it can be fixed with medication.
The next time I take a pregnancy test will be around Christmas eve.
Wudnt it be the bested gift ever to get a blazing BFP for Christmas. Its also my birthday on 17th December my 41st.
The doctor did reassure me that alot of women have babies in there early 40s and my FSH levels were perfect so no sign of peri menopause yet so its nothing like that.
I really hope and pray I never have to go through this pain again and the next time I fall pregnant its for keeps.
Maybe I will end up having another October Bumkin, who knows.
All I know is I'm not giving up and I will keep on trying for my rainbow and I have faith that it will happen.
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Hi ladies.
Hubby and I decided to keep trying and not take a break.
I'm on cd10 now and shud ovulate in about 3 days then its the 2ww again.
Been taking the macca root for 5 days now.
Not sure when I will be testing but I think I will try and hold off as long as I can.
Hope ure all OK.
Hubby and I decided to keep trying and not take a break.
I'm on cd10 now and shud ovulate in about 3 days then its the 2ww again.
Been taking the macca root for 5 days now.
Not sure when I will be testing but I think I will try and hold off as long as I can.
Hope ure all OK.
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Thank you ladies.
I'm on cd12 now and still not had a positive OPK.
Yesterday's was very close but today's was fainter so no idea what is going on.
Still temping so I know that will tell me when I have ovulated.
Wondering if the macca or the chemical is gonna make me ovulate a bit later?
Guess only time will tell.
Feeling like this isn't going to be my month either, its just so hard to stay positive and hopeful if u know what I mean.
I'm on cd12 now and still not had a positive OPK.
Yesterday's was very close but today's was fainter so no idea what is going on.
Still temping so I know that will tell me when I have ovulated.
Wondering if the macca or the chemical is gonna make me ovulate a bit later?
Guess only time will tell.
Feeling like this isn't going to be my month either, its just so hard to stay positive and hopeful if u know what I mean.
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Maybe a late ovulation will be good for you this time Sugger! I always ovulated really late (CD 20-23), and it didn’t affect things in a negative way, so hopefully if your eggs have more of a chance to mature you’re more likely for a sticky baby 
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Maybe a late ovulation will be good for you this time Sugger! I always ovulated really late (CD 20-23), and it didn’t affect things in a negative way, so hopefully if your eggs have more of a chance to mature you’re more likely for a sticky baby
Hopefully hon.
Cd13 today and still negative opks.
Hope it happens soon.
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Finally got my positive OPK on cd14.
Now just turned cd15 as its gone midnight now and ovulation shud be today.
2 days later than normal but I'm hoping that's a good thing.
Praying if we catch this cycle it sticks.
Feeling a mixture of emotions.
Excitement, nervous, worried
Just really hope there will be no more losses.
Still temping to.
Can't believe I'm on my 10th chart now really have felt like chucking it all in but ended up getting a voucher on fertility friend with a whole year VIP membership.
So it wud be silly not to use it hehe.
Hope everyone is OK.
Now just turned cd15 as its gone midnight now and ovulation shud be today.
2 days later than normal but I'm hoping that's a good thing.
Praying if we catch this cycle it sticks.
Feeling a mixture of emotions.
Excitement, nervous, worried
Just really hope there will be no more losses.
Still temping to.
Can't believe I'm on my 10th chart now really have felt like chucking it all in but ended up getting a voucher on fertility friend with a whole year VIP membership.
So it wud be silly not to use it hehe.
Hope everyone is OK.
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Keeping everything crossed for you @Suggerhoney
I've just upgraded to VIP on fertility friend, I'm itching to start ttc next cycle.
I've just upgraded to VIP on fertility friend, I'm itching to start ttc next cycle.
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I bet u are hon.
I was so excited when we first started trying but now I just feel anxious.
I just want one to stick and to be healthy.
I'm 1dpo today I ovulated on cd15 2 days later than normal.
I've had a great rise in temp this morning to.
Normally my temp goes up in stages but I've had just one big rise.
Hope thats a good sign.
This is going to be a very long 2ww.
We managed to do the deed the night b4 ovulation but didn't manage it last night which was ovulation day. So not sure if we have missed the boat but only time will tell.
If we're not this cycle then will try harder next cycle.
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How are we all ladies? Tommy took his first steps at the weekend. He’s treated us to about 5 steps and it just makes me melt he’s so cute. He is cutting more teeth now so he will have 4 at the top and 2 at the bottom. Can’t believe he is 14 months old, still my bubba tho. He’s still in 9/12 month clothes he has short legs bless him. He loves his food but still has 3 bottles a day and 2 naps a day.
He keeps pointing at things saying that that, which means what is that lol, and he has a fascination with the washing machine haha.
AFM i am 6dpo and I’m pretty sure we have caught again. Just waiting to test.
I am excited but anxious. I’ve been taking 500mg of Macca Root, B vitamin complex, vitamin D and Folic Acid. If it turns out I’m not pregnant this month then I will start taking Folate in December.
Nana is still convinced I will be pregnant by Christmas so we shal see.
We only managed to dtd the day b4 ovulation so wasn’t feeling very hopeful.
But 5dpo I had a terrible night with heartburn which made me feel so sick. It’s not something I suffer with unless in pregnancy but usually not until 3rd tri.
Been better today but having lots of aches and pains in right overy which is the one I Ovulated from, had tons of TMI snotty cm which is what I had last cycle with the chemical and all the other chemicals and with Tommy. Been very restless and finding the smallest thing really really irritating. Emotional cried at a Christmas add that’s not even sad lol.
Hoping the boobies start hurting in the next few days then I will know for sure.
Anyway just thought I wud update. Praying there is no more losses and if I am pregnant it’s supper dupper sticky and healthy. But if I’m not we will be trying extra hard in December. I turn 41 on December 17th and that is putting me on edge. Have a tellaphone appointment with the recurring miscarriage unit on Dec 3rd. Also have a appointment for a smear test on November 27th but hoping I won’t need either.
2020 has been a very hard year all around but I really hope I end the year on a high with a little baby in my belly
He keeps pointing at things saying that that, which means what is that lol, and he has a fascination with the washing machine haha.
AFM i am 6dpo and I’m pretty sure we have caught again. Just waiting to test.
I am excited but anxious. I’ve been taking 500mg of Macca Root, B vitamin complex, vitamin D and Folic Acid. If it turns out I’m not pregnant this month then I will start taking Folate in December.
Nana is still convinced I will be pregnant by Christmas so we shal see.
We only managed to dtd the day b4 ovulation so wasn’t feeling very hopeful.
But 5dpo I had a terrible night with heartburn which made me feel so sick. It’s not something I suffer with unless in pregnancy but usually not until 3rd tri.
Been better today but having lots of aches and pains in right overy which is the one I Ovulated from, had tons of TMI snotty cm which is what I had last cycle with the chemical and all the other chemicals and with Tommy. Been very restless and finding the smallest thing really really irritating. Emotional cried at a Christmas add that’s not even sad lol.
Hoping the boobies start hurting in the next few days then I will know for sure.
Anyway just thought I wud update. Praying there is no more losses and if I am pregnant it’s supper dupper sticky and healthy. But if I’m not we will be trying extra hard in December. I turn 41 on December 17th and that is putting me on edge. Have a tellaphone appointment with the recurring miscarriage unit on Dec 3rd. Also have a appointment for a smear test on November 27th but hoping I won’t need either.
2020 has been a very hard year all around but I really hope I end the year on a high with a little baby in my belly
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That’s so exciting Sugger! I hope you get your bfp and a super sticky baby.
We have been doing good - Emmett is such a cuddly baby. My oldest was never like that so I’ve been loving all the snuggles! He’s got 4 top teeth and 2 bottom, so same as Tommy. He’s also still doing 2 naps a day for the most part. He was briefly down to 1 nap, but he and my oldest share a room and Elias is boycotting his naps, so the afternoon nap is always hit or miss. So we started putting Emmett back down for a morning nap again and that’s keeping him less cranky if he doesn’t get to sleep in the afternoon.
I got my section date for baby #3, he will be joining us December 20 - so just over a month from now! Feels crazy to be jumping right back into the newborn stage, but I feel ready. It’ll be good because hubby should have some time off work thanks to the holidays.
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We have been doing good - Emmett is such a cuddly baby. My oldest was never like that so I’ve been loving all the snuggles! He’s got 4 top teeth and 2 bottom, so same as Tommy. He’s also still doing 2 naps a day for the most part. He was briefly down to 1 nap, but he and my oldest share a room and Elias is boycotting his naps, so the afternoon nap is always hit or miss. So we started putting Emmett back down for a morning nap again and that’s keeping him less cranky if he doesn’t get to sleep in the afternoon.
I got my section date for baby #3, he will be joining us December 20 - so just over a month from now! Feels crazy to be jumping right back into the newborn stage, but I feel ready. It’ll be good because hubby should have some time off work thanks to the holidays.
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That’s great hon how exciting.
Well unfortunately I’m 99.9% sure I’m out. I have zero symptoms. And my temp plummeted today. Im 9dpo AF due in a week. So just waiting for that.
Feeling very very low and been crying all day. Next cycle will be my 10th cycle TTC.
Wud love a Christmas BFP because next cycle my AF will be due Xmas eve. Not going to hold my breath tho. We’ve been trying for so long now I’m starting to think it’s never going to happen. Sorry for being so negative but when u have been TTC for 9 month with nothing but losss it’s hard to have hope.
Well unfortunately I’m 99.9% sure I’m out. I have zero symptoms. And my temp plummeted today. Im 9dpo AF due in a week. So just waiting for that.
Feeling very very low and been crying all day. Next cycle will be my 10th cycle TTC.
Wud love a Christmas BFP because next cycle my AF will be due Xmas eve. Not going to hold my breath tho. We’ve been trying for so long now I’m starting to think it’s never going to happen. Sorry for being so negative but when u have been TTC for 9 month with nothing but losss it’s hard to have hope.
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Definitely out, tests still stark white BFN at 11dpo and no symptoms. I new the no sore boobs were a sure sign I was out a few days ago but Seeing that BFN still hurts.
Just waiting for stupid AF now, it’s just a never ending rollercoaster of hope and then disappointment.
I turn 41 on 17th December and that just doesn’t fill me with hope.
We have been TTC for 9 months now and next cycle will be cycle number 10.
At this rate I don’t think I’m ever going to get my rainbow.
Dh still believes it will happen and Nanna still thinks I will be by Christmas. But I’m out this month so that wud mean falling next month.
AF will be due on Christmas Day or the day after depending on when I ovulate in December so will be testing a few days B4. Wud love to get a blazing BFP for Christmas. This year has been so shitty and getting a BFP wud just make everything Ive been through so worth it.
And I’ll be able to end the year happy with hopefully a very healthy little baby in my belly
Just waiting for stupid AF now, it’s just a never ending rollercoaster of hope and then disappointment.
I turn 41 on 17th December and that just doesn’t fill me with hope.
We have been TTC for 9 months now and next cycle will be cycle number 10.
At this rate I don’t think I’m ever going to get my rainbow.
Dh still believes it will happen and Nanna still thinks I will be by Christmas. But I’m out this month so that wud mean falling next month.
AF will be due on Christmas Day or the day after depending on when I ovulate in December so will be testing a few days B4. Wud love to get a blazing BFP for Christmas. This year has been so shitty and getting a BFP wud just make everything Ive been through so worth it.
And I’ll be able to end the year happy with hopefully a very healthy little baby in my belly
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Hi hon.
Its not the getting pregnant thats the problem its the staying pregnant so I know I'm still fertile other wise I wud not of had the chemicals.
I was told that by a doctor and all my bloods came back normal.
I can't afford fertility treatment anyway so I've just got to hope it happens naturally.
I have been referred to the recurring miscarriage unit and I shud have a telephone appointment with them on December 3rd.
I'm also definitely ovulating every month.
I've been advised to take more macca root. I've only been taking 500mg a day so going to start taking 1000mg a day.
There supposed to help prevent miscarriage and are really good for fertility.
We didn't try that hard this month so I'm not really surprised I'm not pregnant but will be trying much harder in December.
Hopefully I will get a Christmas BFP.
I do still feel deep down that I will have another baby. And I even think it will be a girl. I just have a gut feeling.
Macca root can take 3 months to work and I've only been taking it for 4 weeks.
I think if it was just a case I just wasnt falling pregnant at all then I wud be worried about my fertility but I have fallen pregnant 4 times in 9 months so I know I'm still fertile.
Its not the getting pregnant thats the problem its the staying pregnant so I know I'm still fertile other wise I wud not of had the chemicals.
I was told that by a doctor and all my bloods came back normal.
I can't afford fertility treatment anyway so I've just got to hope it happens naturally.
I have been referred to the recurring miscarriage unit and I shud have a telephone appointment with them on December 3rd.
I'm also definitely ovulating every month.
I've been advised to take more macca root. I've only been taking 500mg a day so going to start taking 1000mg a day.
There supposed to help prevent miscarriage and are really good for fertility.
We didn't try that hard this month so I'm not really surprised I'm not pregnant but will be trying much harder in December.
Hopefully I will get a Christmas BFP.
I do still feel deep down that I will have another baby. And I even think it will be a girl. I just have a gut feeling.
Macca root can take 3 months to work and I've only been taking it for 4 weeks.
I think if it was just a case I just wasnt falling pregnant at all then I wud be worried about my fertility but I have fallen pregnant 4 times in 9 months so I know I'm still fertile.